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 yigenanrenainidebiaoxianyounaxieni？wojinnian28sui，nanpengyouershiwusui，womendoushidangshishigenjufujinrenliaotianlejiede，zhihoupengmianbujiujiumingquelelianaiguanxi，jinguanwobitada4sui。neimeshenmejiaoaiyigerenni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmeshiaiyigerendewenzhangba。

keshidajiaqingganqian2nianyizhidouhenhao，xianghuzhijianyejianguobabamama，erqieyetidaolewanhundeshier。

 zhihouzheiyinian，youyuzhuzaileyiqi，yinci changchangzhengchao，woyoushiganjuezishenxianggefumuyiyang，yizhijinbuzhuyaoxiangqujiaodaota。

 jiulianzuobianqidewaigaijiujinggaigaishanghuanshikaiqi，zheileinanti，wodoushihuihetajichulilunyifan，manmandiwofaxianletafangfofashengbianhua。

 yijianshiyulaiyumeiyounaixin，zhengchaodepinciyeduole，shangyuetagenwomingquetichuletichufenshou，tashuodaoyaoxiangshizheyixiayigerenshenghuo，wojianghao，nenggoujitamenshijianquxiaohuaxishou。

zhihou，wogenjugongtonghaoyoucaizhidao，zheiduanshijiantajuranyouxinnvyoule。

 woneixinyouqibushufu，jiupaoquwenqi，tashuodaowojibushangtaxiangyaodeshenghuo，xiwangjiushizheiyangfenliba，kewozhenshizuobudaoshuofangkuanjiufangkuan，wotexiangwanliuta，wojiujinggaizenmezuoni?

答：

 kanguonidexushu，nengjuededaonihenaizhenidenanpengyou，zaitanlianaiqinei，nanpengyouhuoduohuoshao，yigenanrenainidebiaoxianyounaxieni？doushihuizaoshounvpengyoudeyixieguanjiao。

erqiehuifukuanxuduo shijianzainvpengyoudedeshenshang，suirantamenzuibianbuyongshuo，keshixinliquehuanshiyixieqipan“suiyi”de。

 zaizaijiashang，dajiazhongjiandenianjichabie，jiajuleniduitadeguanjiao，rutongnixushuzhongchangshuodeneiban：“woyoushiganjuezishenxianggefumuyiyang，yizhijinbuzhuyaoxiangqujiaodaota”。

zhengyinruci，cairanglingyifangzaochengleyaoxiangtaochunideniantou，yinci tacaiyaoshuo，nijibushangtaxiangyaodeshenghuo。

 yinci tazheimekuaijiuzhaodaoxinganqing，feichangdayibufenyuangujinjinyaoxiangjiejuezheileicaozong，shizhedaliangdegailv，bixushenmiganbale。

xiabianwonengrangniyixiewanliushangdetiyi，xiwangnenggouxiezhudaoni。

委屈求全

buyaorenweifuhexingle，gengbubiqujiuchanbuqingta，tajiranyaoxianggenghaodeshenghuo，neimajiujitamenhaola。

 ninenghuaizheqianjiudihetashuodao：“zhiqianxuduo diquwohaizuodetaiguoqule，yixiehushinidetihui，jirannizaoyijueceguoqu，neimejiuyiwangba，huoxudajiagengshihezuopenyou。”

 jiangwanzheijuhua，jiuxiaotuiba，wuluntahuoderuhe，zheiduanshijiandoububidajiaotale，weiquqiuquan，xianjieduanzuoyibanpengyoushidajiazuihaoshidetiaoxuan。

勤奋提高自己

 xiaotuidezheiduanshijianli，haohaotigaozijiba，ninengqubanyizhangjianshenguan，rangzishenjianshenyundongqilai，qiahaonenggouxuanxieyixiezishenneixindeshangxinheshebude，bahuolidounachulairangzishenyuelaiyuegengchuse。

 jianshenyundongbudannenggourangzishenshenxinggengqiang，gengxianxi，hainengrangzishentigaozishendeqichangheqizhi，rangzishengengtaiyangxinxin，yinci jianshenyundongkendingshizuihaodexuanze。

lingwai，niyaonenggouxuexipeixunyixiechuanyidapeijiqiao，hemeironghuazhuangfangfa，rangzishengengshanliang。

等候机会

 shenmeshiaiyigeren?rangzishenyuelaiyuegengchusehou，haiyaoxuehuisikaojihui，ranglingyifangkanjiannidechuse，yibanqinglvzhijiandexinxianjingyejiusangeyue，sangeyuehoutamenbianhuichanshengyixiezhengzhi。

cikenidechuxianhuiranglingyifangzaochengyizhongbuyiyangdejuede，taburongyizaidichuni，fandaohuiyixiehuailianni。

 ninengguanchayixialingyifangdeweixinpengyouquan，zailingyifangjiaoweishiluodeshihou，qufayixiezishendezuixinzhaopian，xiangpianshiyaofanyingchuzishendezhuanbian，ranglingyifangduinibianhuajuedechayihehaoqixin。

 jiaru，tayiranmeiyouxuehuifangxiani，yidinghuijijilianluoni，jiarulingyifangzaoyifangxialeni，aishanglexinganqing，jiububiqudajiaotarenle，qianbianyehuichuxiangengmeilidejingsedengzheni。

 zailianaizhong，jiedilianqingshizuibuyijianchixiaqude，youyunvhaihuiguanzheguoduo，ernanhaizidouhaimeifuzerendeguannian，yinci zaigezhonggeyanggongzuoyalixia，bicihaofeileguoduodexixin，feichangrongyibianhuijianxingjianyuan。

 shenmejiaoaiyigeren?danyaoshijiandingxinnian，dajiayeshizuiyingyongdexianghu，zhiyaoshikeyixiuchengzhengguode，quanshizuixingfukuailede。