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wojinnianershiwusui，nanyouyuwotongling，womendoushidaxuetongxue，zaoyitanlianaisannianle，zheiqineitaqueshiduinihenhao，henshuoaiwo，erwoqueyizhiyicicidisunhaita。neimeyouduoshaoaikeyizhonglaini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanyouduoainidewenzhangba。

youyuwoshiliyijiatingde，suoyiwoyizhihenbuzixin，buxiangxintashiqueshishuoaiwo，suoyiwolaoxiangyongjiaozong，quzhengshiwoduinideai，yexianggenjudihuita，shitagengshuoaiwo。

yinciwozongshuota，meiyouchemeiyoufangyoumeiyouqian，wodemamashiburongyiyuanyiwomenzaiyiqide。tameiyicitingwoneiyangshuofenshou，quanshixiaomimide，buyiweiyi，xianzaiwoxiangyixiangqueshihaohouhuimoji。

zhihou，youyufeiyanyiqing，dajiahenzhangqimeipengmianle，youyicitayouyuwanyouximeiyoulijihuiyingwodexiaoxi，woyeyougentashuodaolefenshou，haigentashuodaoshitagun，buyaochanzhewozheixie，zheileidehua。

danzheidoubingbushizhenxinshiyide，wozhishikongzhibuzhuziji，kexiangbudao，cicifenshouyihou，tajuranqueshimeiyouzailianxiwo。

wozhihou，fengdiaoyiyangjitamentongdianhua，faxinxi，kuzheqiuta，tadouwudongyuzhong，xintaihenlengmo，tazheiyishengshudemoyang，wohaohaipa……

youduoaini,woqueshihouhuile，wobugaineiyangduita，wogaizenmezuo，dajiahainengfuhexingma?

答：

nenggoukandechu，nishixiangyaoyizhongjiechuannanyoudefangfa，laizhengshitaduinideqinggan，danshizheileixiangchumoshi，huanleshei，doushihuishenxinpibeideba。

 niniyiwei，nanyouhendanxinnidefenshou，hendanxinnitoudoubuhuidihuishenjiuzou，danshijishang，nanhaizidanxindebingbushinideliqu，zhishidanxinnijiangtazhenxideqingganzuoweizhulizijin。

lingyifangyuanyiyunifenshou，yebingbushibuaini，zhishishoubulenizongna“fenshou”wanxiaole，jiarunimeirenzhenwanchengqinggan，tadangranyemeibiyaojianchibuxie。

dannidangshidezheixiexinkoubuyi，zairujinlaikan，buguoshiyichangchaoxiao，niziyiweishichongzusatuo，buguoshiyongrenziraoeryi。

xiabianwonengrangniyixieqingganshangdetiyi，jiaruninengwanliuqudechenggong，qidaicicijingyanjiaoxunqueshinengjinigaoqingchushenmejiaozuo“aixi”。

冷静期

niyiqiandefengkuangwanliu，zaoyijilingyifangdaozhihenhuaideweihaile，huiranglingyifanggengweiganjue，nishigekandaiqingganhenerxideren，jibian kuanrongni，fuhexinghou，niyeyiranhuijingchangshuofenshou。

yinci ，cikenixuyaozuodebingbushiqujiuchanbuqinglingyifang，zhishijixianghuyigelengjingqi，ranglingyifangchendingyixiazheizhongtiandexintai，niyebixuhaohaosikaoyixiazishen。

weishenmemeiyouaixiyifenrehuhudeai?nandaoshuonixuyaoyizhineiyangxinkoubuyidishengcunxiaquma?

提高自己

shijishang，jianyanzhi，niquanbubudangbiaoshudegenbenyuanyin，quanshilaiyuanyunixinlimeiyouanquangan，jiweibijiaominganyoubuzixin。

zainidexushuzhong，niyeneiyangjiangguo“youyuwoshiliyijiatingde，suoyiwoyizhihenbuzixin，buxiangxintashiqueshishuoaiwo”。

gengshiyouyuneiyang，yinci caijiniganjuetihuibushangtarendeai，erqiecongbuhuibiaoshuzishen，yizhiyuzaiqingganzhong，yizhiyifuhusiluanxiang，chixujiechuandemoyang。

yaoxiangbaituoneiyangdezishen，jiuxuyaorangzishentianmanxinxin，jinyoutaiyangcaikeyizhenshidexiezhuniyisaoyouyu，ninengqutiaoxuanyimenxihao，qujingxialaisuzaozishen。

 huoshi，bazijiquanbudehuolidoufangdaoyundongjianshenshang，huibihanye。zongeryanzhi，buguannixuanzeshenme，bixujiejinquanlidiquzijintouru，neiyangcaikeyixunzhaozishendelingyizhonggailv，chanshengquanxinshengjidexinxin。

和另一方谈一谈

youduoaini,dengzheniyongyouyidingdetishengzijihou，nenggoujijilianluolingyifangle，keshiyidingyaodenglengjingqichaochu3geyue，neiyangcaikeyihelidixiaochulingyifangduinidefumianxinxiyinxiang。

xianglingyifangyaoqingdeqingkuangxia，ninengzhaoyigetuoci，lirunahuiyiqiandewupin，huoshizhaolingyifangbangzhuzheixie，neiyangdeyaoqingfangfacaiburongyiranglingyifangjuedegongzuoyali。

erqiewanguohou，hainenggouqinglingyifangchigefan，suihouhelingyifanghaohaoditanyitan，ninengshuoyixiezishendezhuanbian，bingxianglingyifangbiaoshuyixiezishenneishihoudexinliniantou。

ranglingyifanggaoqingchu，nibushibuailingyifangcaishuodefenshou，zhishidanxinlingyifangliqucaishuodefenshou，rujinyelejiezheileizuofahenhaiziqi。

keshiyongcanquanguochengzhong，bubitanjifuhexingdeshi，gengbubijilingyifanggongzuoyali，jianyidibiaoshuzishenjiuxing，qidainenghelingyifangzuoyibanpengyou。

neiyangcaikeyijiechulingyifangduinidewujie，conglingkaishi，jianjiandizaicizengjinganqing。

youduoshaoaikeyizhonglai,zheiyishijiezuiquehandeshier，bingbushinijuedetaburongyizou，zhishinijuedetashizhonghuiwanhui。