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 shenmeshiai?wulunshizainagehuanjie，yiqienvxingdouxiangjiqiezhangwoyigekeguanshishi：taaiwoma?neimeshenmecaisuanai?aiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmejiaoaidewenzhangba。

danshi，dangzheigewentijiayige“hai”zi，bianwei“tahaiaiwoma”，jiufangfoyoubianweilingyigegushi。

 yijingyingduiqingganliekaidezhuangkuang，lianggerendeganqingchuyujijikewei，huolingyifangzaoyimingquezhichufenshoudeqingkuangxia，yiqienvxingdouxiangyaozhidaozheigewenti。yixienvxing，guoduanjibukenai，buduanbiwen：nihaiaiwoma?nandaoshuoniyijianshiyidingdianqinggandoumeilema?

danzaizheigeshike，shijishangnidexinliyeliyinggaoqingchu，nihuodedehuida，yezhihenyoukenengyouyige：meiyou。

 zheihuijinishenshousunhai，dantongchangtongchujichanshengdebingbushisikao，zhishigengfengkuangdeyuzhanyuyong，zhidaotawanquanduandiaodajiadelianluo。

tahaiainima?nidewanliuyoujihuima?

zheizhongnantishimeiyougudingbudonghuidade，youyu，yiqiebixushishijijieduanlaihuiying。

一、释放自己期

 zaiduanlelianxi，tahuichuxianyizhenshifangzijidejieduan。ziyiweishiwanbizheiyiduanrangzishentongchudeqinggan，shenmeshiai?congzaiqizhongwanquanchoushenchuqu，taziranhuishenganqingqingsongsong。

ziran，nimeifajienaneiyangdekeguanshishi，buyuanyigentawanbiguanlian，yinciniyaohuizhuyaobiaoxianchuduitadeguanzhu。

 danshi，niduitadeyiqieguanzhu，luozaitadeyanli，doushihuishitayixiebushihe。yuanbenzaoyijienadanshendekeguanshishi，yijingxiangyouqingqingsongsonghekaixin，dannizhuyaobiaoxianchuqudehenxianzhu，bianshidianjizheshitawanbineiyangdeqingqingsongsong，fanhuiyuanxiandeqingkuang，yingduizheiyiqie，ruguoniwenchu“shibushihaiai”shi，tayouzenmekenenghuijiyuhaowuyiwendehuiyingni?

二、缓解观察期

 lijingyiduanshijianshifangzijiqi，tabianhuiyouyidingdexiufu。duibinvxing，nanhaizideqingganfanshehuxiangduixingjiaozhang，bingqiekanshierjiaoweipianmianxing，dangshitifenshoudeshike，xiangqideyejinyouqinggandebutaihao。

dantazhongjiuyiranhuipingjingxialaide，tayezhongjiuhuixiangdaodajiayiqiandexingfu，xiangqileni。

 danshixiangduieryan，zheiyihuanjiedetayejinjinyouyidingdehuanjie，xintailveweipingwenyixie，yishidaodangshidejueceshiduoshaoshibulizhide，danjueduibuhuilikeyueni，gengburongyijijimingquetichufuhexing。

 ziran，zaimianduini“shibushihaiai”denantishi，henyoukenengburongyineimajueran，danyehuiweiweisuosuo，buyuanyihuiyingzheigewenti。

bushitabuyuanyi，shitadedanaoyeyixiecuoluan，yenanyixunzhaoshihedehuida。

 shishishang，dangtayouyidingdechiyi，jiuzhengshiduinihuanshiyouqinggande。youyutahuigangkaishixiangqileni，jinguanzizunzuoguai，burongyijijilianluoni，danruguonirenzhenguancha，yiranhuifajuetadezheizhongzhuyaobiaoxiande——

guaiwanmojiao，datingnidexinxi;

guanxinnidebenrendongtaixing，fenwaiguanxinnideweixinpengyouquanxinlangweibodengfuwupingtai;

zhaodajiagongtonghaoyouxianliao;

……

 danshi，zheibingbuyiweizhezhetaxianggennifuhexing，tajinjingangkaishijindaozhuiyiqi，duinijinqideqingkuangshifenhaoqixin，qidaiguanchanizuijindezhuangkuang，huanjiexinlidefanzaxintai。

三、怀恋期

shenmejiaoai?zaiguoyiduanshijian，yibanzhuangkuangxia，nanshibianhuigangkaishiduini，yeyouyiqiandexingfuyouyidingdehuailian。

zheiyiqie，quanshilijinggudufachun，shijiancuihuafanying，zuihoushitaxinlingshenchudeneiyiduanqingyi，fanjiangjiaohai。

 tananyiannabuzhuzhuduinidexiangnian，zheixieyiqianweihaizishenqinggandenanti，rujinlaikanquanshineimawuzuqingzhongle。dantayiranburongyizhuyaobiaoxiandechuxianyichangxianzhu，yejinjinhuichuxianneiyangdexingwei：gangkaishitantingni，zaiciguanxinni，naizhijijilianluoni，zaicichuxianzainiderichangshenghuo。

 ziran，zaizheigeshijianfanweili，yebubizhuyaobiaoxiandeguoduyouyi，jibian jiushinizaoyiyishidaoyiqie，haiyaoshaojializhi，bubitaijijidemingshuofuhexingyongyi。

xiufulianluo，yiqiezhengchangdegoutongjiaoliu，hetabaochilianxi，rangqingganzaicitiwen，ranglianggerendeguanlianzaidushengji。

zaishidudejihui，wenyiju：nihaiaiwoma?

yiqie，shenmecaisuanai?doushihuishunlichengzhang。