爱一个人的表现是什么？前任分手后的痛点

 aiyigerendeliyouyounaxie？xuduo rendaofabiaopinglunliuyanbanliuyanshuozishenhenmimang，buquedingxingzishenxubuxuyaowanliu，youyutazhuyaobiaoxiandehenwuqing，wanliuzhaobudaofangxiang。neimeaiyigerendebiaoxianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerendeganjuedewenzhangba。

 shijishangwanliurutongzaicizhuiqiuwanmei，danyouyuyongyoufenshouqianduinidefumianxinxiyinxiang，chuangjianhunyinguanxihuibilejiederengengnan。dannanbuyiweizhemeifa，yaoxiangwanliu，jiuxuyaoyunyongrendebenxing，shunxingweizhi。

 dajiadoulejienanhaihenvhaisiweimoshicunyoufeichangdachabie，yinci ，jiarurujinzhengzaoyuzhaobudaofangxiangdeqingkuang，bibushangxianlejieyixia，nannvzaikandaiganqingshideluojisiweiniantou。

第一、男孩子在恋爱关系中的念头

 nanhaizizailianaizhongshihuiquhuahuanjiede，dagainenggoufenchengxinlizhuangtaishenglixue2gezongtimubiao：xinlizhuangtaishangrenkeguanlian：aiyigerendeliyouyounaxie？nishiwoxinzhongnvyoule。shenglixueshangquedingguanxi：nishibushuyuwode。

jugeshili，zailianaideqingkuangxia，ninengfajuelingyifangshishifenjijidi，guangjiegouwuyongcanpeiliaotiansuishidaiming。

danshidajiawanhunyihou，huifajuetayiqiandeyinqinbujianle“duohedianreshuizaodianshui”bianchengtadekoutouyu。

 nihenyoukenenghuiganjueshenxianhulun：tashifoubuaiwole?!shijishanghaizhenbushizheiyang，youyutayiqiandehaobuzaiyiquanshiweilegenghaodilaoguqinggan，rujindajiadeqingganzaoyishifenpingwenle。

yinci taganjuenenggouchouchulaishijianlaiguanxinzishenderichangshenghuole。

 zhishang2gezongtimubiaodedadaodailainanshengjudadiguishugan，tazhidaoniaita，yinci juedeshifenshuxin，gangkaishiganjueshifangyalichulai。yibanzhuangkuangxia，zhiyaonibuzuochutaifangmadeshier，lingyifanghuiyizhiainide。

第二、女孩在恋爱关系中的念头

 henanshengbuyiyang，nvhaigengquxiangyuyixiekanhuodemodejiandexingdonglaifenbiannizhenaitade。lirunichangchangdeshouhou，nichangchangguanzhuta，niduitakuanrongyixie……

nanhaizihenyoukenengganjue，zheizhongwupindouhenbiaoceng，dantashinvhaiguishugandeguanjianlaiyuanyu。

 zaitanlianaiqianqinvhaideguishuganshizuidade。youyuzhishenbeizhuiqiuwanmeidehuanjie，nvhaideguidingjichudoubeikaolv，nanshengdeshouhoujiletajigaodeguishugan。

 aiyigerendeganjueshishenmeni？keshizhonghouqiguanlianpingwenle，nanrenbacezhongdianqianyidaozishendeshenshang，zheihuirangtajuedemishi，gangkaishijuedezishenmeiyouanquangan。

youyuguishuganqueshao，yinci tamenhuitiaoxuanyixiefangfalaizhengshilingyifanghuanshishandaizijide。

 keshigezhonggeyangjiechuanhuitiaozhannanhaizidexixin，shitajuedenanshou，dangtahenzhirugushi，dajiadeqingganhaowuyiwenhuichuxiannantide。

第三、那应当怎样经营婚姻呢?减轻差别呢?

 qishibushihennan：xuehaorangbu，xunzhaoganqingdejunhengdian。jinyoushuangfangdouzaizheiliduanqingganzhongganjueshufule，zheiyiduanqinggancaikeyigengzhangjiu。

 zheierdajiashuoderangbushiyaohuanweisikaoyixia，bushishuoyiweidequyuelingyifang，disanxiasidekenqiuhuishinizaiqingganzhongzhishendiwei，bubeizhongshi。

yinci weichizishenyeshibixude，zhangwozhangwofencun，ranglingyifangganjueniyizhizaimaimengyinrenguanzhudelingwai，buhuidichu。

lingwai，nanrenshishifenqidaihuodeairendezhongshi、qinpei、renkehetourude。yaoxiangwanliu，jiuxuyaoyunyongnanrenxinlihequedian。

 wanliubingbushisuiyishuojijuhuajiukeyiqudechenggongde，zhangwolingyifangdeniantou，xuehaohuanweisikaoyixiayebushiyishunjiannenggouxuehaode。

 aiyigerendebiaoxianyounaxieni？niyidingyaoyounaixin，bubijigongjinli，baozhengmeiyibudouzoudui，neiqudechenggongdelimingjiuzaiyanxia。