aiyigerendeliyouyounaxie?naxiedenvxingzaiwanliuzhongfeichangrongyibuchenggong?liruxintaigerenxingweipianji、zhidongtaobizeren、sipilailianzheixie,zheizhongquanshiwanliuzhongbunengcaidejinqu。neima,naxiedenvxingfeichangrongyiwanliuqudechenggong?neimeaiyigerendebiaoxianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerendeganjuedewenzhangba。
jinqi,woguanchalexuduodedaoqudechenggongwanhuiqianrendenvxing,fajuezaitamendeshenshangshijishangyousangexianghudetexing。zheisangetexingchengxianletamendeqingshangzhishangzhigao,shiwanliuzhongyidashenqi。
feihuabuduoshuo,jiexiaquwojiangweidahuoerliejuzheisangetexing,qidaizhengweiwanliunantierkunaodenikeyiyouyidingdehuode,aiyigerendeliyouyounaxie?ronghuiguantong,jinkuaiyuqiannanyoufuhexing:
01.明白倾听
zainannvguanxidejiaowangzhong,mingbaiqingtingdeyifangchangchangjiyulingyifangwujinhaogandu,ranglingyifangxiangyaoqinmijiechubingxinrengan。zheishijishangyeqianshedaoyixieliaotiandejiqiao,xianliaoyidingshishuangcengmiankaizhande,bukeyijinyounizijishuogebuduan。
shexiangyixia,niyizhizaitanlianaideqingkuangxiashibushijinglineiyangdezhuangkuang——taolao,fayanjianggebuting,xiaipangbianrengongxiangzishendexinsi,danqueconglaibujijilejienanpengyoudexinsi,bingzaitaxiangniqingtushikanqilaibunaifan。
yikaishiqiannanyouhenyoukenenghaihenyuanyiruguonidelingtingzhe,danshijianyizhang,tabianhuijuededajiadeguanlianhaoxiangshidiaole,jinyoutazaifentannideyoulv,danniquecongdanshiwenqidefannao。
yinci ,xuehaodangyigeqingtingzheshihenzhongyaodeshi。tiyiniyizhizaifenshouqianqinenggoujijizhaoqiannanyouxianliao,zaixianliaodeqingkuangxiayouyiwenqijinqishifouyounaxiekunao,nicongpenyouzuizhonghuozhitafangfobutaigaoxing。
ziran,zaixianliaoqineinizuihaobietaizaobaoludewanliumudi,yingdangyaobazijifangdaopenyoudebuwei。duoguanzhuqiannanyoudexiankuang,bingduitashuoruoyoukunaonenggourangniqingtu,shitajiandaonizhixingyouyadegenggai。
02.不提过去
aiyigerendeganjueshishenmeni?zaiyuqiannanyoujinxingjibendefuchouzhelianmeng4hou,wojianguoxuduonvxingwufawentuowanshanzijidexintai,zaixianliaozhongfeichangrongyitiguoqu,tidaoqiannanyouzaiganqingzhongzuodebutaihaodediqu,rangqiannanyounankan。
tiguoqufeichangrongyishinizaixianliaozhonggaliao,yixiazijiuduanleleqiannanyouxiangzaicigennijianghuadechongdong。yinci ,jiranniqidaipangbianrenfuhexing,xianghetazaicizouxialai,neimaniyejiubuyinggaizaitiyixiebuyukuaidejiushi。
butiguoqunengrangdajiazhongjiandexianliaogengjiaqingqingsongsong,lingwaininengpangbianrenliaoyiliaozuijinchanshengdechaoxiaoyouqudeshi,rangbiciningzhideguanlianhuodebianruan,bingmanmantiwen。
03.颇具乐趣
pojulequderenbuguanzoudaonalidoushihuihuobao,zheileinvxingyeshizuitaonanrenxihuande。pojulequbuyiweizhezhexiangyaonibianweiyigelangmanzhuyizhe,zhishishuonixuyaomingbaishidudizaojiuyiwaijingxi,yidiaojipingfandeshenghuo。
tanlianaideshijianzhangle,richangshenghuomianbuleyaozhongguiyuchaimiyouyanjiangcucha,danjiarunidongzaichazhongfangyipianhuaduo,neimaaiqingshijiufeichangrongyinenghuodeyixietise。shengchanzhizaoyiwaijingxi,jiudengtongyushizheichazhongdehuaduo。
aiyigerendebiaoxianyounaxieni?jugeshili,ninenggaozhiqiannanyoushuonijinqiaishangleshougongzhizuo,suihouqinzizuojingmeideshougongyipinzengjita,shitaganshoudaoniyizhizairichangshenghuodexiaolanman。ruciyilai,taduinidejieshouchengdudangranbianhuijinyibutigao。
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