爱的色放是什么？再绝情的他也忍不住秒回你！

 aideshigetiaojianyounaxie？henduorendoushiyouneiyangdeyilv：weishahuitashimiaohui，tahuiwoxiangxunhuanni?pengdaozheileizhuangkuangwogaizenmezuoni?neimeaiderijiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidesefangdewenzhangba。

dajiayijuhenduodejingdiananliguina，fajuezheileizhuangkuangdaduoshushiyouxialiesandayuangudaozhide。rangwomenyiqikanlaiyixia。

缘故一：恋爱关系中影响力的不对等。

 lingyifangshuoxieshenmenidoushihuifuhe，duifangweiyaoshenmenidoushihuijinkenengkaolv，qinfenqujingenlingyifangdejiaobu，jilingyifangshengchanzhizaogezhonggeyangyiwaijingxi……

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 keshinidezheileigerenxingweizaoyibijiaotuchudebazijifangdaoleshangxiaweizhedeshijiao，zheiyiduanqingganyegangkaishijianjiandishidiaomeibianle。

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 genjuzhanxianzishendesixiangjingjie，ranglingyifangganjueduinihaojiaowangdelingwaiweichilebicidejunheng。bingbushiyiweidechuixuzhelingyifang，keshiquenenggouqudechenggongxiyinzhudaolingyifangdeliuyi。

danglingyifangxiangyaojijilaiyuenideqingkuangxiaxianliaodeqingkuangxia，dajiajiuliqudechenggonghenjinla。

缘故二：心直口快，话题终结者。

 youyigenanhaierhedajiaxunqiubangzhushuo：woshigechengxuyuan，meirihehenduodeshujuxiangchu，renyixiedaiban，gongzuoyaliyefeichangdayinci haidaizhuyixieqiangposiwei。

jinqijiazhongbangwoxiangxijieshaoleyigenvhai，wodoutingxiaide，keshijuedetabutaixiailiwo。

 zheihenyiqiezhengchang，nvxingdeluojisiweishijiaoweilixingde，tamenxianliaodesiweiluojibuqiang，niyibanyiyandexianliaohuirangtamenganjueshifenkuzaofawei。

 zailiaotiandehuatishang，nvshengdehuatitaolunpianzhongshishangchaoliubaguazheizhongqingqingsongsongxiuxianyuledeneirong，niyidingyaohetaliaodianziqijianjinrongdashujuzheizhong，tabumingbaiyemeishenmexingqu，jiufengzhijiqianbeishao，neimatahaowuyiwenburongyixiaiyunixianliao。

 aidesefangshishenme？zuoweihuatizhongjiezhe，feichangjiandandehuanjiefangfabianshijinkenengbubijinxinghuatitaolun，fuhelingyifangjiukeyile。ziran，jiarutadehuatitaolunnijuebuzhangwo，neimadajiahuanshiquzuogekecheng，qianwanbieziyiweishi。

缘故三：话题讨论贫乏，无话可聊。

 jianxinhenduorendoushihuiyouneiyangdejuede：yikaishixianliaoshifengaoxing，zhenshiwuhuabutan，fenweiyeshifenhemu，liaobuwandehuatitaolun，zhenshigenbentingbuxialai。

danshizhihoujiaowangjiule，bicihuranyuelaiyuemeiyouhuashuo，zheishishenmeyuanyinni?

youyunidejingyan，nideshixianjinxianci，lingyifangdeyixiehuatitaolunshejidaolaidaonidezhishimangqu，niyakouwuyan。

 dannidehuatitaolunliaolailiaoquyejinyouneimaliaoliaowujihaoduoge，kanqilaikuzaofaweiyoufawei，yinciliangrengangkaishimeiyouhuashuo。

renquanshiyoumingxiandeqiuzhiyuhehaoqixinde，nichangchangdailailingyifangshenmigan，lingyifangcaihuibeinijinjinxiyinzhu。

 nigesanchawupaochuquyigexinxiandehuatitaolun，ranglingyifangganjueyunijiaowangdequanguochenggesanchawuhuichuxianyiwaijingxi，neimatayidinghuimishangyunixianliao!

 yaoxiangzishenyuelaiyuexinxianquweiyidingyaochongshiziji，bujianruzennengshuchuni?bazijiderichangshenghuoguodejingcaifencheng，rangzishenyuelaiyuequwei。

ruguonibaozheng，aideriji,buguanlingyifangshuoxieshenmenidounenggoutuokuanchuquweideneirong，lingyifangdangranhuimishanggennixianliao。