爱的色放是什么？挽回前任方法不能错

 aideshigetiaojianyounaxie？youxierenshuo，nvxingtitichufenshoushiweilegenghaodidedao guanxin，nanshengtitichufenshou，shiweilegenghaodidedao baituo。jinguanbingbingbushimeiyiduitichufenshoudelianrendouzunzhaozheiyiguilvxing，keshizhengtieryan，fenshouzhihou，nvhaiyaoxiangwanhuinanpengyou，nanduxishuxiangduieryanjiaoweida。neimeaiderijiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidesefangdewenzhangba。

 chukainanhaihenvhailuojisiweishangdechabie，yeyougengguanjiandeyidianbianshi，chuzaishilianzhongdenvhaifeichangrongyibeikongzhiqingxu，bulizhixiaxiazuochuyixiebuzhengquedewanhuigerenxingwei，zuihouzaocheng wanhuinanduxishutisheng，huoshilijisangshiwanhuigailv。

 yijuhua，nvhaizaiqinggandequanqiuli，huanshitailixingle，bushishuolixingbutaihao，gengshiyouyunvhaidelixing，lanmanhebianhuaduoduandexintai，peidananhaizidekeguan，ganqingcaiyuelaiyuexingfu。

 shubuzhi，guodulixingwobuxing，yexulixing，chaoguolenanhaizinengchengdandefanchou，lixingjiubianchengyizhongyali。jiurutongnanhaiziyidingbukeyitaiguokeguan，yaoburanjiubianchengmeiyoulequdemuourenshiyiyangdedadaoli。

 yinci ，yaoxiangqudechenggongwanhuiqiannanyou，luojisiweihefangshiyidingbukeyicuo。qingganlaidaotichufenshouzheiyibu，zhengshiyiqianjiuzaoyicunyoufenqihebuzhengquele，zheigeshihou，ruguozaicifancuowudalian，jieguoxianeryijian，zenmezuocaisuanshiqiadangdewanhuifangshini?

1、能够表述想挽回的念头，可是一定不可以奢求

 fenshouzhihou，zaishebude，haiyaogaoqingchuyidiandeshi，xiuenaisidekuai，sheqiuyebutaikenengyoujieguo。aideshigetiaojianyounaxie？rendoushiyouqingchunqipanni，yuefabeiposhiyuefeichangrongyiyinxiaoshida。

 fenshouzhihou，yixienvhaiweilegenghaodibalingyifangjizhuihui，buduanlianluolingyifang，huoshichuxianzailingyifangdeyanqian，shuozishenruhelejiebudui，lishizhihouyiburuhe，qiulingyifangfanhuizishenshenpang，zheileiqiangzhidezuofa，zongshiranglingyifanggengweiyanjuanni，naizhiduanjuegennilianluo。

 aidesefangshishenme？tichufenshouqianqi，nanrenyaodeshibaituo，liangzhezhijianbizhetayunilaosibuxiangwanglai，bibushangxianyanzhetadexin，jianhaojiushou。fangzhiguanlianjinyibuebian。

2、换位思考一下，立在另一方视角思索他的需要

 qinglvzhijianfenshouyuanyinchengqianshangwan，keshidoutaobuchuqingganyaoqiuwufadedaokaolvzheiyidian，yiqianliangrenzaiyiqishi，nibingmeiyouzhaoliaodaotadetihui，yizhiyuchengshoubushangzuihoumingquetichutichufenshou。

 fenshouzhihou，niruoyaowanhuijiuxuyaohaohaosisuozishendebuzhengquezhichu，huanweisikaoyixia，nenglejietadebiequheduiqinggandeyaoqiu，jiunantideyuangukaizhanjiuzheng。

jinyoudanglingyifangjiandaonihuiguoderenzhen，jiandaonidequeduitadeguanhuainuanxin，caihuiganxinqingyuandifanhuinideshenpang。

3、少说话多做事，用实际行动表述复合型含意

 fenshouzhihou，nvhaitongchanghuiguimishuo，“meiletazaishenbian，henbuxiguan，hennanshou，wojuedezaicizaiyiqi，danshitaquebuyuanyi。“weihebuyuanyigennifuhexingni?

 youyumeiyoujiandaoxiaolvxing，nibuguoshizuibianshuoshuo，niyaofuhexingyedanshishiyouyunibushufu，nimeixiguanxingmeiyoutadeshenghuo。

 aideriji,zheileikoukoushengshengdewanhui，lingyifangbingbukeyizhenshijiandaoniduiwoduinideai，liangzhezhijianneiyang，haibibushangquchuzishenhuiguodexingdong，xinlizhuangtaiqudiaojiezishen，yongshijixingdongquchudonglingyifang。