爱的色放是什么？挽回爱情，要学会从“情感需求”入手

 aideshigetiaojianyounaxie？fenshouzhihouwanhuiganqingruhejiuneimenan?fangfowulunwoganshenmequanshicuode，shijishangwanhuiyiduanqingganzuizhongyaodeqiaomenbianshi，shaofancuowu。neimeaiderijiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidesefangdewenzhangba。

 juedaduoshuzhuangkuangshi，dajiadeguanlianyuanbenmeiyouneimajiaolvbuan，fenshouzhihouzuobulepenyou，yebushiduishou，jiupaniqiankaolv，chixuyonggezhonggeyangshuobailedewanhuijuejiqujiechuan。jiusuanlingyifangxinliyouni，yehuibeinifengkuangdegerenxingweihetui。

 chengrendeqingganshijishangmeiyouneimamingan，nimeiyoubiyaodanyoulingyifanghuiwanquanwangleni，ruguonikeyishitaganshoudaonishiyigefeichangzhideaidepingchangren，xiangfuhexing，bingbuhuitainan。bubijinideyishichongdong，cuihuidajiadeganqing。

1、情感冷藏，减少分歧点

fenshoudeshihoudezhuangkuang，yibanfenerzhongzhuangkuang：

 1、jiarudajiashifenshouzuopengyoude，fenshoudeshihoulingyifangduinibingmeiyouhendichu，aideshigetiaojianyounaxie？erdajiahaikeyixiangyibanpengyoubanjiaowang，neimashuobuyongkeyilengzangde。

 2、jiarudajiafenshoudeshihoudoudaizhubupingjingdexintai，bingqienikeyitihuichulingyifangduinishibiaoshuchudichude，buyuanyitingnindedianhua，yebukenjianni，neimaniyejiuyingdangyaoduidajiadeqinggankaizhanlengzangle。

 zheishihounixuyaofenshou，zhongzhilianluo，erqiebubixianglingyifangbiaoshuchuniyaoxiangwanhuideniantou。neiyangyouliyujianshaolingyifangduinidedichudu，xiaochudajiazhongjiandefenqidian。

2、了解自己的难题

 aidesefangshishenme？yiduanqingganfenshouzhihou，haowuyiwenhuinanguoyiduanshijian，keshijiaruniyizhichuzaiqinei、yijuebuzhendeqingkuang，huiranglingyifangjuededaogennifenshoudeshihoushifenqiadangdezuofa，helixinglelingyifangtichufenshoudexinlizhuangtai。

 niyinggaizaicidiaojielianghaodexintai，xiangyixianggaizenyangwanhuixinyideta;gengyingdangzaicisikaoyixiazheiyiduanqingganbuchenggongdeyuangu，huiyiyixiazishenshibushiyoubeichangchangtanji，tasuowufarongrendequexianni?

zheizhongnantinidouyingdangrenqing，erqiezhubuwanshanzishen，chixutigaozijidesixiangjingjie。

3、持续提高自己本身风采

renquanshishijide，nanshengyetaobudongzheiyijibendinglv。

 tawangwangtiaoxuangennitichufenshou，biranyouyibufenyuangujiushinidebenshenfengcaibuzu，yinci yaoxiangwanhuiganqing，nixuyaoxuehaochuangjianercixiyin。

 bazijiyuelaiyuegaoshiyongjiazhiqilai，chixutishengziwo，zhanxiangaoshiyongjiazhizaiduxiyinzhuta。bujinwaiguanshejishangbianyouyigebianhua，nidebenzhiyeyingdangjianjiandideyouyidingdetigao。

 weiyounideshiyongjiazhigaoqilaile，aideriji,lingyifangcaihuihouhuimojizishenyunitichufenshoudejuece，caihuizaiciduijiniyaoqiu。wanhuiganqingdelumianbingbutaihaozou，keshiruguonijianchibuxieyongqiadangdefangshi，jianxinxingfukuaileyidinghuixiangnihuishou!