爱的色放是什么？男人女人断联谁更难受？

 aideshigetiaojianyounaxie？youyigenvshengzaidajiadefabiaopinglunmingquetichukonggao：fenshouzhihouwonanguodebuhao，chibutaihaoshuibuzhejue，juedequanqiudoutale。neimeaiderijiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidesefangdewenzhangba。

jieguowomoruqiannanyoudeweixinpengyouquan，tagaichidiangaihehe，hejiuroupengyouguodeneijiaoyigehuanle!

 jianxinxuduo rendaofenshouzhihoudoushihuiganjuezishendenanyouyidiandoubuzaiyidajiazhongjiandeqinggan。tichufenshouzaitamenneibianyixiaolezhiyidaierguo，haoxiangshixumouyijiu，fenhaoshangbushangtamenyisiyihao。

youyunanhaihenvhailuojisiweidechabie，rangdajiakandaiqinggandexintaigeyoubutong，neimadaodisheizaifenshouzhihougengjianaoni?

xiabiandajiafenzhuangkuanglaitaolunyixia：sheizaifenshouzhihougengjianao?

第一种状况：女性分手之后更煎熬。

 nanshengdeluojisiweigengweikeguanyizhi，ernvxinggenglixingmingan。nvxingjiejinquanlidezijintourudaoqingganzhong，aideshigetiaojianyounaxie？baganqingzuoweizishendesuoyou，fenshouhoubunengziba，yinerhuigengtongchu。

zheileizhuangkuangxiafenshou，nvxinghuijuedequanburendoubengkuile，tamenshangxinshiluohuigenjuxuanxieqianyilaibiaoda。

biru：mengtoushuidaohuntianheidi;zhaoyigeqingjingdejiaoluolitongkuyichang;naizhigerenxingweijiduanhuakaizhanzinve……

 erhuiguotoukannansheng，tamenfenshouhoudezhuyaobiaoxianyaolizhideduo。yexutayehuiqiaoqiaodefanyueyiqiandeweixinpengyouquan，yehuizhuiyidajiayiqiandexingfu，neixinhuichuxianshangxin，keshibiaocengshangyiranhuibaochipingjing。

 zheileizhuangkuangxiadewanhui，dajiazuixianyaozuodebianshihuifuzishendeqingxu，xintaidiaozheng，bubibuyiburaoshengsilijie，duoxiangyixiangzishenzaiqingganzhongyoushenmebugou，duofangmianjiuzhengcaisuanshizhongzhongzhizhong。

第二种状况：投入多的一方更煎熬。

nanshengyezaiqingganzhongtourulexuduo ，zhangqidejiaowangchulai，liangrentichufenshou，nanrenshuobushangxinneishijiade。

 fensixiaoqjiuzheiyangde，tahenvyoufenshouhou，nvhaierzhunbeigangkaishigenghaodeshenghuo，yinciduanjuelehexiaoqdelianluo，xiaoqneimaaitayincizhongshiletadetiaoxuan，zishenmomodidenghou，meiqudajiaolingyifang。

 keshixiaoqshishifenshangxinde：“nandaoshuowoduitahaibugouhaome?wolaitatouruleneimeduo，taoxintaofei，weihetayeyaowotichufenshouni?”

tongchudexiaoqtiaoxuanleshijiu，renweizishenhezuijiu，jiunengjiejuezhuiyidejiuchanbuqing。

 kanshangqujiejiujiaochoushifeichanghaodexuanxiefangfa。hezuijiudeqingkuangxiaqueshiqingqingsongsonglexuduo ，yelinshidewangjiletichufenshouchanshengdetongchu。

danshijiuxingle，yiranhuizaiduxiangdaozheixiejiushi，lijingyichundefachun，zheizhongwangrigengweitongchu，gengweikegumingxin。

neimazheileizhuangkuangxiahainengwanhuilingyifangma?

 nenggoude，zuixianyaozuodebianshizouchushiliandeheiying，xuehaozishenhuifu，rangzishenyuelaiyuegengweiwanshanlixingyixie，pingjingxialai，niuquzailingyifangxinzhongzhongdefumianxinxipinpaixingxiang，zaicihuodelingyifangdehaogandu。

第三种状况：两人痛楚水平不相上下。

aidesefangshishenme？zheileizhuangkuangyibanliangrenxianghuzuochulejuece，dadaoledegongshi，dadaofenshouzuopengyou。

 jiaruliangrendouduizheiyiduanqingganyixieyanfan，ganjuehepingfenshoushiliangrenzuihaodejieju，neimafenshouduiliangreneryan，bingmeiyouhendadetongchuketan。

danjiaru，lijingzaicisisuo，liangrenhuanshixiangyaojixianghuyigejiyu，youwanhuideniantou，neimabujianyitiaoxuanfenshouzheileifangfa。

fandaoyingdangbaochilianluo，shuayishuacunzaigan，shiduweiliangrenqinggantiwen，weijinhoudefuhexingdiandingjichu。

 shijishangdanxinyu“fenshouhousheigengtongchu”zheigewentideshijiyiyibingbusuantaida，youyuyiqianliangrenquanshitaoxintaofeideshenaizhelingyifang，touruquanbulaiyunyingzheiyiduanqinggan。

laidaotichufenshouzheiyibusheiyebuyuan，fenshouhoudoushihuitongkubukan。

 fenshouduiwanhuinengjuyouyidingdegongxiao，danfenshouyebushiwanhuayou，ronghebenshendeqingkuang，zhangwohaochengdu，shijianguoduanfenshoudabushangyaoxiangdeshijixiaoguo，erfenshoudeshijianguozhangyouhuirangqinggantuise。

yinci ，aideriji,heshizishendewanhuifangfacaisuanshizuihaoshide。