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 aideshigetiaojianyounaxie？maixiangtichufenshouneiyibu，nishizhongbuqingchuzishenaibuaita。neimeaiderijiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidesefangdewenzhangba。

duishangyiduanganqingniannianbushedeni，cikezuidanyoude，bianshipapangbianrenduandiaolianluo。

 zaizhuduofanzaxintaidecujinxia，nichangshigezhonggeyangfangfa，gentabaochilianluo，binghaojingezhonggeyangqinfen，lajinbicidejianju。

 danshi，yiqiedoushibaifeide，jibian gezhonggeyangshizhe，danyiranmeifalajinxianghudejianju，naizhiliangrendeguanlianyuelaiyuegengweiebian。

 buzhengquedejihui，zaijiashangbuzhengquedewanhuifangfa，zhiyourangdajiadeqingganjiakuaishuailuo。dangtajuecegenniduandiaolianluoshi，niyehuiyishidaozheigewenti，danyushiwubu。

 danshi，yeyouwanhuidekongjian，jibian dajiazaoyiduandiaolianluo，danruguoniyongduifangfa，yiqiehainengwanhui，aideshigetiaojianyounaxie？liangrenhainenggouzaiciqudelianxigan。

danshi，zaiwanhuiqian，yeyaoxianggaohaozheihaoduogetiqianzhunbei——

1.恢复心理状态

 bulunzenyang，jibian nizijuedeyiranzouchulai，yibuxiangyikaishineibantaiguoyoushang，dannidexinlizhuangtairengweipingwen，tashibuliniwanhuide。

 xinlizhuangtaicaogao，zongshishinizaiwanhuidelumianshangmangran，jinriyongzheiyifangfa，mingriyongnagefangshi，yitianyigemoyang，zheizongshishitajuededaoyanjuan。

 huifuxinlizhuangtai，shijishangbianshizaiweizijiyigeshijian，yongzheiyishijianquhuifuchuangkou，quxiufuxinlizhuangtai，quzhaodaozishen，suihoutishengziwo。

2.寻找提出分手的真实缘故

 liangrendeguanlianjieshu，yuangubingmeiyounixiangxiangzhongzheimejiandan，gengbutaikenengjiushinijiandaodebiaoxiang。zhongjiu，liangrenjianchuxiannanti，bingbushitichufenshoudeneiyichanei，zhishijishaochengduo，zuihouzuodaodejieguo。

 liangrenzhenshifenshoudeyuanyin，jiujingshishenmeni?zaizhenshigangkaishinidewanhuiqian，yidingyaoxiangqingxizheigewenti：shixianghujiandegoutongjiaoliubujishi?huanshimeiyoukuanrongxinlizhuangtai?huoshishizhangqixingchuzaigaoaiwei，biciguanlianbuduideng?ziran，yekenengshibiedekeguanyinsu。

jinyouxunzhaogenyin，caikeyixunzhaowanhuidefangfancuoshi。

 xiangxiufuliangrendelianluo，jiuxuyaochuangjianzaixiaochuliangrenjiandejiedideqiantitiaojianshang。erxiaochujiedideqiantitiaojian，jiuxiangyaonigenggaitaxinli，zaoyiduinichanshengdegudingbudongyinxiang。

zenyangzuodaonideniantouni?

chulihegenggai，jiukeyibangnibaozhengzheiyidian。

1.解决矛盾，处理情感难题

 zitichufenshougangkaishi，liangrenzhongjiandefenqishiyizhicunyoude，jibian shijiannenggourangzheiyiqiehuanjie，dantaxinliduinidedichuyirancunyou。

 aidesefangshishenme？rangfenqijiejuedefangfa，bianshixunzhaodajiazhongjiandenantidian，suihouhuashijian，yongxinqugenggai，jibian yixienantimeifagenggai，haiyaoxianghaofangfancuoshi，shitayishidaoniyijingqinfen，yijingyongxinqurangyiqiebianhao。。

 ziran，qinggannantibingbushiyishibankenengchulidele，bingqiehaibixuliangrenxianghucanjia。nisuozuodeyiqie，mudishijiejueliangrendefenqi，yinci yaoshitajiandaonidejijizhudongdexintai，zuishaoyebuhuizaizenyangpaichini。

2.更改自身，更改相处模式

jinyouruguonigangkaishigenggai，qiequdejinbu，caikeyishitawanquanxuehuifangxiafangbeixinlizhuangtai。

 tapaichini，ziranbingbushidanchunxingdefourenni，zhishizaifourendajiadexiangchumoshi，fourendajiadeqinggan。jibian nidewaizaigenggai，nengjitamenyidingdeyouhuoli，danxinlishiduoshaohuanshiyoujiedide：

zhongjiu，tasuodanyoude，shijibian dajiazhongjianhehaoruchu，danyiranhuizoulaoluzi。

 yinci ，ruguonigangkaishiercixiyin，jiububidanchunxingdezhibashijianhesixufangdaozheiyidianshang，yeyaojidajiadeweilaihangshijichu，genggaixiangchumoshi，biandongliangrenkandaiqingganderenzhinengli。aideriji,ruguonizuodaozheiyishuiping，tayehuichayiyunidegenggai，nidetisheng，dangran，duinidepaichiyehuihuaweiwuyou。