爱情技巧：对付假性分手最管用的2招

 shengmingzhongdouhuiyouyigerenhuijiniganjuehouhuimoji，houhuimojidangshiweishenmemeiyouzaiguoduanyidian，weishenmemeiyouquwanhui，benlaijinjinyouyubudadeshier，benlaijinjinyicihenbuzhiyitidefenqi。neimeaiqingjiqiaoyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqinghunyinjiatingxuedewenzhangba。

zuizhongquebianchenglelianggerenzuizhongdegoutongjiaoliu，womingbaitajinjinouqi，yinci yequwanhuile。

 dankaolvgezhongyuanyindaozuizhongqueyeyibuchenggongjieshu，quehanheaohuidelingwaihenduorenyehenxiangyaozhidaodaoweishadewanhuimeiyouqudechenggong。

 shijishang，xiangzheileiouqitichufenshoudedabufenjinjinjiaxingfenshou，erbushilingyifangzhenshishijiyiyishangdeyaoxiangfangqini，yinci zaiwanhuishininengcongxintaihexingdongliangcengmianzheshou。

一方面：心态上控住

 jiaxingfenshoushi，xianghudexintaidaduoshuquanshichuyuyigedingdiande，zheishihouliangrenhenkenengyouyumoujuhuabudamenfengshuijiubaofafeichangdademaodun。

 ermaodunsuochanshengdebuliangyingxiangbianshilianggerensheidouhenqishei，doulabuchulaiqingmianqujilingyifangyigejietixia，zuizhongzaocheng queshitichufenshou。

 suoyishuoruguoniqueshiyudaolezheileizhuangkuangshi，yidingyaojilaoxintaizheileiwupinshibukeyichuliyiqienanti，fanguolaihaihuijixujiniyuelaiyuegengweilangbeibukan。

yinci ruguonixintaizuodaohonggangshi，jinliangyaolaxiangzishendebaojing，yaozaizaiqianyishizhonglitishizishenbubibulizhi。

gaixiehuole，jinyouneiyangnicaikeyizhenshidepingjingxialaiquhelingyifangjiejuekunnan，erbushiguaisheiduidaodishisheidecuo。

另一方面：行動上积极主动

aiqingjiqiaoyounaxieni？bujiushuodexintaishangdepingwenjiushizhizaijiarunengzaifenshoudeshihoubaozheng，neimejiuzuihaoshile。

keshihenduorenzaoyudezhuangkuangqueshifenshoudeshihoumeiyoupingwenzhuxintai，zaocheng “duanzanxing”tichufenshou。

 neizheileizhuangkuangni，dajiajiubixuzaixingdongshangyouyidingdebiaomingle，youyujiaruzheishihounijiaruxingdongshangtiaoxuanlepingwen，neimazheiyiduanqingganjiuqueshilaidaogaoyiduanluo。

yinci zheishihouniyidingyaoqu“jiuchanbuqing”lingyifang。

 lirutanlianaishidajiazhongjianyounaxiejianguaibuguaidegerenxingwei，zheishihouniyejiunenggouzaiciquzuo，lingyifanghenyoukenenghuiduiniyixielengyanlengyu，danyaojilaozheizhongjinjinweilegenghaodichuqi。

 chukaigerenxingwei，xintaihaiyaojingen，ganjinxianglingyifangzhiqian，jieshiyixianeishihoujinjinyishichongdong，bingbingbushiqueshixiangatichufenshou。

 zaizheileijijizhudongdegerenxingweihexintaiyanqian，lingyifanghaowuyiwenhuigaoqingchudenideyisi，henyoukenenggangkaishihuiyixiebutongyi，danzheijinjinmiantian，nixuyaozuodebianshizaicizengjiahuolidian，zhizhizhanlinglingyifangyijing。

suoyishuozaiyingduijiaxingfenshoushi，yidingyaojilaogerenxingweihexintaiquanshishifenguanjiande，qianwanbieyouyuyidiandianqingmianersheqi。

aiqinghunyinjiating,jiaruniqueshishiyouyuqingmianertiaoxuansheqi，neizhiyoushuonishandaizijibiailingyifangyaoshen。