爱的方式是什么？一旦你停止这些做法，复合成功率飙升90%！

 aideganjueshishenme？zhenduitichufenshou，youxierenmishibeishang，youxierenlengdanwuqing。zhenshidewuqingshizaifenshoudeshihouhaohaoshuozaijianbianhouhuiwuqi。xuduo qingkuangxiamingquetichufenshoudeshihoubingmeiyouneimajueran，yiranliuchuyidingdewanhuishineikongjian。neimeaidefangshiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaideditudewenzhangba。

jiaruniwurenweizhentichufenshou，neimejiuqueshiyaoshiqu。

 fenshouzhihouwanhuidenanduxishushihewuqingshuipingzhengxiangguande，yuewuqinghuinanwanhui。wuqingdebuyiyangdengji，niqingchuma?dengjiyuegaowanhuisuohaodehuoliyueduo。

保存联系电话，留出一定頻率沟通交流

 yiduanmengliedezhengzhizhihou，tichufenshouerzisuikoushuochu，danlingyifangbingmeiyoushandiaonideyiqielianxidianhua，shoujitongxunluzhongyiranliuchunidebuwei。

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jiarulingyifangyiranyunibaochilianluo，danpinlvbugao。yuyanjianyiranguanzhunidepingshidanburongyiqinglvtifuhexingdeshi。

 neibiaomingtabingmeineimawuqing，haiduinimendeqingganbaoyouqidai，zaiyidiandianjiechuannidefanying，daidaotiaojianchengshudeqingkuangxiazaitifuhexingdeshi。

沟通交流时心态不满意

 zheileizhuangkuangzaigoutongjiaoliushixintaiyaobishangyizhongmengliexuduo ，bukeyiyipingjingdexinlizhuangtaixianliao，meishuoyiliangjujiugangkaishifaxiezishendexintai，youshihougoutongjiaoliupobudeyipobudeyizhongzhi。

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youbumanyibiaominghaiweidaowanquansheqishi，jinjinyishijianmeifahuanjiexinlidebuyukuai，bixushijianqujiejue。

沟通交流时斥责、指责、责怪你

 dajiajinguanyeyougoutongjiaoliu，danlingyifangjianghuashishifenwuqing。nidezhiqianduitaqibushangfeichangdagongxiao，tayiranjianchibuxiezishendeniantou。

jibian niquebaolexiayicibuzaicifashengyiyangdecuo，lingyifangyiranbuyuanyixiangxinni，xintaishifenjiandingbuyi。

 meiyousheihuimeishenmeyuanyindeliqu，buxihuantongchangshixinhandejilei。dangtadexinhanleijiyidingshuipingshi，liqushizuihaoshidetiaoxuan，shihuaiyehulveni。

 yuanqianqingshenhouwukenaihefangkaishoudekebeijinyoutazishennengdong。cikeyaoxianglingyifanghuishou，zhishikoutoushangbiaodazuoyongweihuqiwei，congxingdongshanggaibianzishen，weicilaichudonglingyifangcaiyouwanhuilingyifangdehenyoukeneng。

沒有沟通交流，将你晾一边

 zaizheileiqingkuangxia，lingyifangmeishannidanyebuhuigennijianghua。taduinidecunyounenggouzuoweizhiruowangwen，meilexintaidefaxieyemeiyoulegoutongjiaoliudechongdong。haoxianglitakaojin，shijishanglitataiyuan。

fenshouzhihoudelengbaolishizuilingrennanaode，nimeifahuozhilingyifangdezhenzhengniantoujiumeifajiejuekunnan。

 zheileiwugoutongjiaoliudeqingkuangshijiaoweinanchulide，nenggoushizhekaizhanercixiyin，zaojiuxindeyouhuoli，ranglingyifangzaiyiciaishangleni，bixuxieshijiannaixindengdai，bukeyijigongjinli。

aidefangshiyounaxieni？duanjueyiqielianxidianhua，yuyanxingdemanma

 youyuyanshangdemanmashitongchanglingyifangdeyuanhenpoda，zuoweiyiqiandeairendouhuizaiyilingyifangdeqingmianbuxulingyifangxianrugangazhong。dantameifacaozongzishendexintai，buyuanyunizaochengyiqielianluo。

因此不在意另一方体会地痛骂。

 nengzaochengzheileixintaidangranshibicizhangshijianjuyoubunengmoheqidenanti，zaiyiciciderangbuzhongyuelaiyuejiliezhidaowanquanbaofa，youyizhonglannifubushangqiangdewukenaihegan，danzainanyehuixunzhaowanhuidetupokou。

 zheishihoudewanhuihuijiaoweiyouzhang，genggaidezhouqishijianyehuibianzhang，bingbushiduanqineinengbaozhengde，yaogaohaozhangqixingyingzhandetiqianzhunbei。

 wuqingbingbudengyuzhenshidesheqi，youshihoushixintaizuoguaishidaozhidecuojue。wulunshibinglixinghuanshijiaxingfenshouquanshiyouwanhuigailvde，jinjinsuoxuhuaxiaodeshijianhehuolibuyiyang。

 fenshouzhihou，xianbiezhejizheshiluo，huanyizhongpingjingdexinlizhuangtaiquduidaitichufenshou，jieguohenyoukenengbingmeiyounixiangxiangzhongneimacaogao。

 aideditu，yiyizhongjijileguandexintaiquyingduiyanxiadeganqingweiji，cuozheyehenyoukenengfanzhuanchengshunjingyunijing。huanyizhongxinlizhuangtaihenyoukenengbianhuichanshengjiongranbutongdejieguo。