爱的方式是什么？这三条常见的挽回失败的原因，你中了几条？

 aideganjueshishenme？yixieyueduzhexunzhaowozuowanhuizixundeqingkuangxia，xintaishifenxiaochen，juedeqiannanyoubianshigezhazi。zishenbenlaizaoyifangxialezizun，zuochuleneimeduodeqinfen，danlingyifanghuanshibutongyifuhexing。neimeaidefangshiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaideditudewenzhangba。

yibanzhuangkuangxiawodoushihuixianlejie，nilejieqiannanyouweishenmebuyuanyiyunifuhexingma?

 dabufenrendoujuede，youyuqiannanyouxinzaoyimeiyouzishendeshenshangle，yinci ，zishenganshenmequanshicuode。danshishishang，qiannanyoubufuhexingbingbushiyouyuniganshenmequanshicuode，zhishinigenbenjiumeizuoduiguo。

 weilegenghaodixiezhudajiazaiwanhuidequanguochengzhongshibangongbei，jinriwoyeliejuhaoduogejiaoweipubiandewanhuibuchenggongdeyuangu，qidainengxiezhudaodajia。

1.不清楚提出分手的直接原因

 youyigefensiyiqianbangwoliuyanbanliuyanshuo，tagennanpengyouchaoleyijiayihououqishuotichufenshou，nanyouyuanyile。yikaishideqingkuangxia，tarenweiciciheguoquyiyang，nanyouzuizhongyiranhuilaihonghuizishen。

 danbansuizheshijianyitiantianguoqu，nanyouzishizhizhongmeiyouzaizhaoguota。lianyitiaoxinxineirong，yigedianhuayemeiyou。aideganjueshishenme？tagangkaishihuangle，paohuilaihongnanpengyou。shubuzhi，nanpengyoushuoliangrenyijingfenshoule，zhihoujiubuyaolianluole。

 takuguo，naoguo，naizhidisanxiasiqiuguo，danquandouyemeiyouyong。tagaobudong，weiheyicixiaoxiaozhengchaolingyifangjiuneimeguoduantichufenshou。

 zheierhenxianzhukandechu，tayagenmeizhaodaoliangrentichufenshoudezhijieyuanyin，renweijinjinyicizhengchaodenanti。yinci ，tabugan，yizhijiuchanbuqingqiannanyou，zuizhongbaliangrendeguanlianwanquannongjiang。

shijishang，xiangyaozhidaodajiatichufenshoudezhijieyuanyinfeichangjiandan，nizhibixuxixinxiangyixiangpingchangqiannanyouduinimaiyuanguonaxie。

 biru，ruoshilingyifangmaiyuannizimingqinggao，zheibiaomingtaduiniderongmaojuedebumanyi。ruoshilingyifangmaiyuannijiaozong，zheibiaomingtaduinizuodegerenxingweijuedeshenxinpibei。ruoshilingyifangmaiyuannishiyuqinfen，xiabanlezongshizaijialibaoju，zheibiaomingtaganjuenideshouyibugao，shixianbuzukuankuo。

wanhuirutongkanbing，jiaruniliandeleshenmebingdoubuqingchujiusuiyifuyao，zongshibuduanjiajubingkuang。

2.不愿意承认错误

haowuyiwen，yiduanqingganlaidaowanbideqingkuangxia，biciduoduoshaoshaodoushiyouyixiecuo。

 danyouxierenhuilaizixunwanhuifangshideqingkuangxia，tingjianwodechudetiyitongtongshiyaozishenzuochugenggaiheqinfenjiugangkaishiyixiebumanyi，fanwendaowojiang，nandaoshuolingyifangwanquanmeiwentima?weihedoujiaowogai?

aidefangshiyounaxieni？zuixian，dajiayaogaoqingchu，sheiyaoxiangwanhui，yiweizhesheijiuxuyaochengshoubiequ。

jiarulingyifangmeiyouxianghenifuhexingdeyixiang，neimatayouweiheyaojijichengrencuowuni?

 genghekuang，dajiayaojilao，wanhuicaisuanshizuihoudemudi，bingbushiyaochaogeshengfugaoai。dajiayaoxianghuodedeshiyigezishenxiaideairen，erbushiyaozaizhengbianchangzhongqudezuijiabianshou。

3.需求感过高

zaiwanhuigangkaishiyoujindudeqingkuangxia，youderenjiurenweiliangrendeqingkuangnenggoufanhuizhiqiantianmeideqingkuangxia。

 duiqiannanyoumeiyoumiaohuixinxineirong，yizhimeiyoujijilaixunzhaozijibiaomingbumanyi，naizhiyinererduiqiannanyoufayixiexiaopiqi。danzhidaoqiannanyoubeizishenzheiyixiliedesaocaozuoqizouhou，queyouzhuihuimoji。

dajiayaoqingxi，quchuzheixieyishichongdongtichufenshoudezhuangkuangzhiwai，dabufendewanhuidoubixuzijintourushijianhehuoli。

 jinguanqiannanyouyunideguanlianzaoyizaiwanghaodefangweifazhanqushi，danzheishidenirengzailingyifangdeguanchaqixiannei，qianwanbiesheqiulingyifangduinihainengxiangzaitianmeiqishineimajijihejiqing。

 aideditu，yinci ，wanhuideyibuyibumanmandelai，kendingjibuke。erzuixian，nijiuxuyaoxuanzhunzishendejingzhundingwei，jianshaozishendeyaoqiu。