爱的方式是什么？突破心理防御，让男人主动回头找你

 aideganjueshishenme？duanlelianxi，nixuehuifangxiazizunxin，dixiatouchengrencuowu，haoshenghaoqideyaoqiutafuhexing，kekeguanshishimeiyouchaozheniqidaidefangweifazhanqushi。neimeaidefangshiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaideditudewenzhangba。

 ruguonizongsuanyishidao，zheiyiqiebingbingbushitazaigennizhiqi，zhishishishizaizaidexiangwanbidajiadeqinggan，nihuangle，niwozhongyumingbai，yuanxianzhiqiandehuifuqinggandefangfa，douzaoyiyibuheshi。

 shishishang，wanhuizheijianshiqing，queshimeibiyaotaixinji，jinguanzhakanshangqu，dajiadeqingganzaoyiwanquanwanbi，yijingmaixiang“liangrenzaiyebuhuiguanlian”dechujing，danjibian niyongjinfangfa，fandaozongshirangyiqiegengcaogao，neiyoumeiyoushenmebixuzaicini?

 zaiwanhuizheijianshiqingshang，niyizhidouzaisisuo“woxianggaizenmeban”，yizishendeniantouweizhudao，danjinikaolvdaoguotadeniantouma?shishishang，pouxinanshideniantou，sisuotadeluojisiweidongtaixing，caikeyibawozhuyouliangdejihui，xunzhaofuhexingdejingquejihui。

 shishishang，nanshiyebuhaoshuozhuntichufenshoudezhenshiyuangu，jibian tichufenshouzheijianshiqing，shizaitadeqiangliejianyi，aideganjueshishenme？danzhongjiutayebuhaoshuochuzhenshideyuangu，tadesuiyiyiti，tongchangyejinjintuoci，zhenshideyuanguhaixiangyaonidewajue。

 ziran，gengguanjiandeyidian，taburongyisuibiandijinidexintaierfuqian。jinguanxianzaidenixintaichuxianyichangcaogao，jiniyiduzihuayaoduitashuo，niqidaitanenggaoqingchujiniduoshebude，danzheizhongshuzuiduonengchudongniziji。

nidanenggouhuanyigeshijiaoxiangyixiang，lizaitadeshijiaoquduidaizheigewenti，zongshirangqiyanjuan。

 dajiayiqiandeqinggan，tayecengjiyupanwang，danzuihouzheiyiduanqingganjiaojitade，quanshicaogaodexintai。tabushibuaini，jinjinbuyuanjianchixiaqu，jibian taduiniyiranbaoyouhaogan，danzhongjiuyiranhuiqingbuzijindebacaogaodexintaisuoyoushifangzainideshenshang。

 xiangwanhuita，xiangrangliangrenzhongjianzaiciyouzhexingfudeqinggan，jiuxuyaotishengnanshidefangyulixinlizhuangtai。jinyounanshiyibupaichini，caikeyipingxinjingqideyunizaicizuozheyiqi，eryejinyouruguoniyouyidingdegenggaihetisheng，caikeyishitaxiangyaozaiciyunichupeng，guanchadaonidegaibian，zaiyicirentongni。

怎样提升他的心理防御呢?

shijishangfangshifeichangjiandan，zhibuguoshiniyizhishenxianqizhong，yinci caiwufaxunzhaoshihedefangfa。

 aidefangshiyounaxieni？tishengtadexinlifangyu，zuihaodefangfabianshibubizhuguanyiduan，lizaitadeshijiaoquxiangnanti。wulunshiwanhui，huanshiganqing，doujingchangchuxianneiyangdezhuangkuang：nisuogande，nisuotourude，tongchangzuihouzhidadonglezishen，danyagenbushitayaoxiangde，jibian taduiyucishiyouyidingdejianyi，dannidoupianzhidejuedetabuxuehuiganen，zheiyeshifenqizaochengdeyuanguzhiyi。

 zaitichufenshoudeyikaishi，taxinlisuogande，ziranshikuaisudewanbidajiadeguanlian，butuotuolala，bujiuchanbuqing。ziran，niqidaideshiqiangciduoli，shitayishidaohaiaini，biezheiyangcongmangdewanbidajiadeqinggan。zheiyeshitapaichihedichunideyuangu：dajiadeniantoushiyoubeide，tayouzenyanghuibuzaochengtaobixinlini?

 dangtaduinizaochengxinlifangyu，jiuxuyaoxiangfangshijiangqidakua，erdakuadefangfajiuxuyaoconggenjiejue，tingcongtadeniantou，linshiwanbidajiadeguanlian。

 jiranwufaliuzhuzheiyiduanqinggan，youhekuqianxinwankuwanhuini?bingqiezheiyiduanqingganzaoyiyibuheshidajia，youhekuneimeguzhijijianni?

 duanzanxingcheli，shitajiandaonidechengxin，ranglingyifangganshoudaoqipo，zheihuijitamenchongzudechongjixing，shitayishidao，duinideniantoushipianmianxingde，shijishangniyizhidouhenzhongshitadeniantou。

 xiayibu，bianshihuanjiezishendexintai，zhongjiutaburongyijinidexintaifuqian，bingqienidefumianqingxuyezongshiweihaizishendegousi，zaocheng feichangrongyimaixiangbuzhengquedelumian。

aideditu，xunsuhuanjiezishendexintai，xunzhaoyouliangdewanhuijihui，mingqueheshidewanhuijiyu，suihou，yijijizhong。