爱情的定义是什么呢？老公出轨怎么办？

 aiqingdetiantishishenmeni？womenliangshizaiyicilvxingquanguochengzhonglejiede，tashidaidui，quanbudujialvyouquanguochengzhongtadouhenzhaoliaomeiyigeyoukedetihui，renhaihenfengqu，neishihouwoyeduizheigerenyinxiangtingbucuode。neimeaiqingdedingyiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingdegushidewenzhangba。

 zhihoumeiduojiuwomenliangjiuzaiyiqile，dabannianhouyouyugongzuozhongdebianhua，tabixudiaodaoqitadachengshi，danweigenwozaiyiqi，cidiaoyuanxiandegongzuozhong，neishihouwoqueshitingdadongde。

rujinwomenjiehunledouqinianle，keshangyuewohuranfajuetachuguile，bingqiejuranzaoyichuguileyinianduo。

 woneiyitianfajueshijiuhetadachaodanaoleyijia。wo：“nibushishuoninengzhaoliaowoaixiwoyibeizi，zheijiushinishuoaiwodefangfa?”

ta：“conglejiedaoxianzai，woduijiniduoniyaozishenlejie，nishizenmeshouyiwodeni?”

“niduihaizishuohuaxishengxiyande，duiyemeiyouyijujianxindehua，woshougouleneiyangderichangshenghuo，womenlihunba。”

 wotingjiantashuodaoyaogenwoliyidexinxideqingkuangxia，quanburenxinhuiyileng，jiaoshi，wobuyuanyigentaliyi，nikeyibangbangmangma?

答：

 tongguonidehuiying，jiaoshikeyikandechunidezhangfushijishangshihenxintengnide，aiqingdetiantishishenmeni？danyouyunizhiqiandeshenghuohuanjinghuoshishibenshenxingqingdengyuangu，jinimeiyou“gongzuonengli”xiangnidezhangfubiaoshu。

 zhangjiuyiwangnidezhangfuganjuezishendetourumeiyoubeizaiyi，meiyoubeizishenzhiaiderenkandao，yinci caihuitiaoxuanwaiyulaixunzhaowaibudekuanwei。

erzaiciciwaiyuexingshijianzhong，jiaoshiyekandaoleyixiedajiazhongjiancunyouzhedenanti，duiyudajiadezhuangkuangjidajiaxialietiyi：

1、解决好分别的心态

 yingduiwaiyuzheiyijianshier，dajiabicifenbiedoushiyouxintai，henyoukenengnizhangfuduinishibumanyi，niyiyangyeshibiequbugan，zenmehuibianchenglezheiyimoyang?

nibuyongduizishenshixiadexintaikuijiu，naizhinenggouzaizishenyurenxiangchushihouchuquweicilaijianqingzishenxinliyayigandexintai。

 ruguonixuanxiewan，wendingqingxuhou，nenggouquhuiyiyixiaguoquhezhangfuzhongjiandemeihaojiyi，lingwaibayoushoufangdaoyoujianbang，zuoshoufangdaozuojianbangquyongbaoziji。

 naizhininengquzhaogepengyouqingtu，genjugezhonggeyangnizijixiaidefangfa，xianqujiejueniyaozishendeqingkuang，rangzishenxiufudaoyigerenkeyizaiciyingduiyiduanfuqiguanxideqingkuang。

2、聊一聊外遇恶性事件给相互产生的危害

youshihoudajiaganjuewaiyushiyifangdeyiwu，bingbushinicuolebianshiduibuqi，shishishangwaiyushibicixianghudanfudeyiwu。

dangdajiashuangfangdounengqingxuqihezuoxialaitanyitandeqingkuangxia，shizhekeguanxingdeduidaiwaiyuzheiyijianshier。

nihezhangfunenggouchangshixianghusikaodajiashixiadefuqiguanxi，dajiaxianghuzaizheiliduanguanlianzhizhongyanzangzheruhedexiwang?

nidezhangfuchuguideguanjiandeyuanguyoushenme?shizhaoxuncijixinghemanzugan，huanshizhaoxunkuanweiheshouhouzheixie。

 nixuyaopingxinjingqidigoutongjiaoliu，haiyaobiaoshuchuzaizheiliduanguanlianzhizhong，lingyifangwaiyudegerenxingweirangnichanshenglesunhaiheweihai，qidailingyifangzhongzhichugui。

 aiqingdegushiyounaxie？jinyoudangdajiashuangfangdouquelilexianghudeyaoqiuhebugou，caikeyiqucaiyongfangshifangzhiwaiyuexingshijiandezaicichuxian。

3、学好给与另一方爱的表达方式

 niyetijilezhenduinizhangfudetouru，nishijishangshishifendadongde，danwangwangnilaogongxiangyaoyuniliyi，shiyouyutaganjuezishenmeiyouganshoudaoniduitaaidebiaodafangshi。

dangtaganjuezishenzaizheiliduanguanlianbubeikandaodeqingkuangxia，jiufeichangrongyitaochu，qubierenneibianxunzhaozheileiguishuganhejiazhigan。

 ninengshizhezhequxuexiaidebiaodafangshi，gaosutaaidebiaoda，shitaganshoudaonishiguanzhutade，tazainizheier，zaizheigejiazhongzhizhongshiyouyingxianglihezizunde，shifeichangzhidebeiguanzhude。

 lirudangzhangfuhuijialedeqingkuangxia，ninengshizhezhegaosuta，“zhangfu，gongzuoyouduolei，niyizhizaiwaibianyangjiahukouhaowuyiwenhenjianxinba，baoyibaoqinaidelaogong。”

 liruhexiaohaichulaiquwandeqingkuangxia，zhangfudanfuqilezhaoliaoxiaohaideyiwu，neimeninenggouhezhangfubiaoshu“xingkuiyounizaishenbian，yaoburanwohaowuyiwennengshouzuwucuo”。

zheiyangyilai，nidezhangfukeyiganshoudao，tazhenduijiazhongdetourunidoukanzaiyanzhong，haiyouniduitadezaihuyubixu。

 aiqingdedingyishishenmeni？ruguonizhangfuganjuezaifuqiguanxizhongbeikandaozaihu，zishentourushiyoushiyongjiazhideqingkuangxia，neiyangbianhuakeyixiezhudajiaquxiufuhelaoguzheiyiduanfuqiguanxi，yekeyijinilianrenzhongfanjiazhong。