爱一个人,反复分手型恋人，怎么挽回？

xuduo qingkuangxia，renyizhizhuomobutoude，yizhizaihuodexingfukuailehouhusiluanxiang，aiqingjiuxiangluozuanyiyang，bukeyichangchangshuai，jinguanbusuibianshuaihuai，keshiliefengduolezhongguishibukeyijizhide。neimeaiyigerendebiaoxianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerendeganjuedewenzhangba。

youshi，aiqingjiuxiangchuizhiguoshancheyiyang，liuanhuaming，zaiyiqile，tongjushenghuole，xiangaile，zhengchaole，hehaola，fenlile，youzhengchaole，buduandefanfuzheiyiquanguocheng，laidaoganqingqueshiyuelaiyuewufamibule，caihuilaisisuoganqingjiujingyoumuyoucuo。

henduorendougaobudong，weiheganqinghuranbianhuiyuelaiyueshengshule，weihefuhexinghoulingyifangyoumingquetichufenshou，zhenzhengdeaiqingshizenyangyiyezhijianchuangjianyouzenyangyiyezhijianxiaotui?

neimabuduanxingdeqinglvhuiyounaxietedianni?

1、taiguomingxiandezishenyutaiguodelanmanjuqing

yibanbuduanxingtichufenshoudeqinglvdoushihuiyou：

(1)、mingxiandeziworentong

(2)、zunchongyouqingyinshuibaodezhenzhengdeaiqingxinnian

(3)、觉得烂漫是夸父逐日的太阳光。 和男友吵架闹分手怎么办？

2、没有安全感

zhiqiandegaoxinkejimeiyouneimefazhan，dahuoermenquanshiyongxinjiangoutongjiaoliu，zhihoubianweifasongyoujian、duanxiaoxigoutongjiaoliu，zaizhihoujiubianweijishigoutongjiaoliu、shipintonghua，jinguanrujindajiadegoutongjiaoliugoutongjiaoliubianjiele，keshiyetuxianleyigenanti，yingyongshejiaoruanjiangoutongjiaoliu，erqiequefasisuoshijian，tongchanggengweisuikoushuochu，bubianyuyanzang，shanglelingyifangshangdaobenshen。

erbuduanxingqinglvjiaoda denantibianshitaiguoqingjiyulianxidianhuachanshengdejingshenliliang，guoduodeyikaozheileijingshenliliang，conglaibuchuqupengmian，neimalaidaozuizhongbianhuizaocheng lebicideyouhaodubuzule.

zaiganqinglizuihaoshidefangshihuanshichuxianduopengmian，wulundajiajianjuduoyuanbixuxuehaoruguonizuozhongtedadejuecedeqingkuangxia，dangzhonggoutongjiaoliu，youyuyoudeqingkuangxia，yixieshierbudangzhongshuoqingxi，huizaocheng ledajialiuyoushizhongdequehan。

3、shanyuxiaohaozhan，zhanyouyu，bujihouguo

buduanxingdeqinglv，yizhifeichangrongyiyixinshengangui，youjiduanzhuyidegerenxingwei。

就例如：

xiaiyishengbushang，jiuyaolingyifangqiyeduren，qutamenjianao，naodeguangweirenzhi

youhuoshigangshuotichufenshoujiuqiangzhiposhilingyifangbazijideshoujishangweixinlahei。

keshiguohoulikehouhuimojiwanhuichengrencuowu。

zheiqueshihuiranglingyifangyitouwushui，ganjuenizheigerenhenweixian，ninengweixiedaotadeqinren，neimatabianhuigengweidejuecegennitichufenshoushiqiadangdejuece。

 yizhiduilingyifangdeyiwangnanyishihuai，yizhitishenglingyifangdedaodedixian，yierzaideyanjiulingyifangdeyinsibaohu。buzixinquefazixin，yizhixiangxianglingyifangwaiyu，jiqinglvkoushangmoxuyoudezuixing，suihouwuyuanwugudechizelingyifang，shijishanglingyifangyagenjiumeiyouzuobaoqiannideshier。

neimagairuhechulizheileinantini?

1、更改沟通交流方法

aiyigerendeganjueyoushenmeni？dangpengdaozheiyizhuangkuangdeqingkuangxia，womendouyaoxuehaofangzhibaganqingsuoyoujiaodaodianhuahejiaoyouruanjian，suihouwomenyaofangzhibaquanbudeshierdouhuijiaoyouruanjianshangsuoyoushuogaoqingchu。

youyuneibanhuizaocheng ，zaiwomenpengmiandeqingkuangxiabianhuishenxianmeihuakeliaodejiongjing，dangdajiayizhidouchuzaipengmiandoumeiyouhuashuodeqingkuang，neimashijianyizhangdajiajiubuyuanyichuqupengmianle，yaolejiezhengchaobukongbu，kongbudeshizhangqixingjileizaixinlidebuyue，youzongshigenjuweixinyiwenbendefangshifajilingyifang，bukeyilingjulidejiejuekunnan。

2、选准自身的精准定位

womenzaishenghuoshiyaoxunzhaozishendejingzhundingwei，rangzishenyuelaiyueyulaiyuchuse，neimazuixianwomenzaigongzuozhongdeqingkuangxia，jiudefangzhiyouyuganqingnantizaocheng deqingxubodongweihaidaodajiagongzuozhiliangdeyoulie。

youxierenyizhihuozaixiaoshuojizhong，yizhirenweitanlianaibianshiquannengde，wuxuyongcan，danxinyouyanjiangcu，keshishijishangshenghuoshicanrende，dajiabixugongzuozhongyuyurenxiangchu，yinci weilegenghaodilingyifangsheqizishendegerenaihaohegongzuozhongshishifenfumianxinxideyizhonggerenxingwei，naizhihuiranglingyifangjuedenishiyigebuqiushangjinderen。

3、调整个人行为与心态的

youxierenbianhuiganjuezishendebugaoxingquanshilaiyuanyuyulingyifanghewaibu，yizhiganjuezishenmeiyoucuo，suihouyicuozaicuo，ranglingyifangjuededaoshenghuoguodechuxianyichangjianxin。

aiyigerendebiaoxianshizenyang？yeyouderen，fenshoufuheyouyouyuzuoerzaocheng letichufenshou，yizhifanfudeweixieyuwanhuilingyifang。