爱一个人,学会这样和男人聊天

 zilianggerenfenliyihou，zhengtianmomoliulei，danniyiranqidailianggerennengzhongxinzailai。neimeaiyigerendebiaoxianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerendeganjuedewenzhangba。

nishizhelexuduo ：zhiqian、fuwuchengnuo，xunzhaoqinpenghaoyoudexiezhu，naizhidijiandebiaomingzijizuoshenmedou……

danshi，huanshimeishenmejindu。

 ziran，nizongsuanyishidao，wanliushibixufangfa，bukeyineiyangzhijieshuofuhexing，neigangkaishilinshirangdajiadeguanlianhuanjiechulai，qingjingdedenghou，shizhezhezaicihetachupeng，zongsuantayibuneimapaichinini。

zheijishiqudechenggonglemeiyou?

自然并不是!

nijinjinmaikailediyibu，jibian tayuanyibudanxiufulianluo，dandoubuyiweizhezhegennixiufuguanlian。

若在此刻，你意会不对他的含意，急不可耐的明确提出挽留，反倒会让大家的关联再一次修复冰度。 和男友吵架闹分手怎么办？

 rujindajiajinjinmaikailediyibu，ziranzheiyeshiyouweizhongyaodeyibu，zaicixiufulianluo，jiukeyizaiyicichuangjianyouhaodu，rangdajiazhongjianzaiduyouzhezhongxinzailaidejiyu，ziranzheiyiqiehaibixukaonizijizhangwo。

zaixiufulianluohou，zenyanghetaxianliaogoutongjiaoliuni?

1.话题讨论

yikaishibubitanqifuhexing，yebubiguoshaodetanjiganqing，danzheibujiuyiweizhedajiazhongjianmeiyouhuatikeliao。

 xianzaideni，daliangsisuodeyinggaishibicizhijiandejingzhundingwei，dajiazaoyiyibushilianren，danyiqianjingliganqing，ruoniduixianghudejingzhundingweishiqianren，zongshizaochengtadepaichi。

zuishidangdejingzhundingweiyinggaishi：penyou。

 dajialejiexianghu，qingxilingyifangdexingqingheaihao，jinjinlinshibingbushihunyinguanxibale，wojuedebianshipenyoudezhenshishenfenma?

xiangyixiang，niyupengyoushiruheliaotiandeni?

 zhibuguoshiyixiepingshidehuatitaolun，jinguankanshangquyixiepingpingdandan，keyidandajialiaodeshencengci，bansuizhehuatitaolundechixuzhuanbian，bianhuiyuelaiyuequwei。

 buyaodanxinliaozheizhonghuatitaolunburongyijinideganqingcengdi，fandaogentaliaozheizhonghuatitaolun，nengshitajiaoda shuipingdejiangdiduinidepaichixinlizhuangtai，bingqiefeichangrongyibeizheileixintaisuoweihai。

2.气氛

lianggerenxianliao，xianbubisuzaonuanweideqifen，zhishiyaojinkenengranglianggerenzhongjiandeqifenqingqingsongsongyixie。

 xiangweichiqingsongzizaideqifen，jiububijiushizhongti，yifangrangxianghuyebukaixin。zhongjiuruguonihetagangkaishijiuguoqudeshigoutongjiaoliushi，mianbulebianhuizhenggesheiduidaodishisheidecuo，douhuirangxianghujuedeshenxinpibeide。

 aiyigerendeganjueyoushenmeni？xiangbawozhuyouliangdeqifen，jiuxuyaoqingqingsongsongyixie，shuoyixieqingqingsongsongdehuatitaolun，jiangyixiaxianghudouhenganxingqudeshi，jiaruniqueshizhaobuzhehuatitaolun，nenggouyingyongxunqiubangzhushikaiju，tiaoxuantashanyudexingye，xunqiubangzhutayixienanti。

 zhenduizishenshanyudexingye，yiqienanshidoushiyouliaobuwandehuatitaolun。zheiyangyilai，youjiletaqingmian，dajiadehuatitaolunyedakaile。

3.话题讨论拓宽

 chupengyiduanshijianyihou，dengtayibuneimapaichini，bingqiezaoyixiguangennichupeng，zaicixiguanyunijiaowang，haikeyishidudebahuatitaoluntuokuandaoganqingshangqu。

ziran，zheigeshihouyebushitanfuhexingdeshike，zhishishuoxieganqingyouguandehuatitaolun。

 liru，niduizhiqianganqingdesikao，ganjuezishenguoquyixiediquzuodedequebuzuhao，yeyou，jinkenengzhanxianzishendegenggai，shitayishidaoniyijingchaozhehaodefangweizhuanbian，yijingchaozhetaqidaidemoyangergenggai。

 ziranhaikeyishidudejiangyijiangduijianglaideguandian，danzuizhongyaodeshibuyaoshuohetafuhexingzheijianshiqing，bubijijitanji，chufeishitajiji。

 aiyigerendebiaoxianshizenyang？dengdajiazaicijindaoaimeiqi，jiuxuyaoshidudehuyuanhujin，shitazhuabushangdanao，husiluanxiangzhongjian，tayehuiyishidaonizhenduitadebiyaoxing，dajiadefuhexingdangranyejiutishangrichengle。