爱的记忆有什么呢？让男人上瘾想挽回的永远是这样的女人

 aidelilunshishenmeni？jinqixuduofensidoulaigenwoshuoyiyangyigenanti，bianshiganghenanyoufenshoushiyuanbenbuyuanwanliu，danshibansuizhefenlideshijianyuezhang，duinanyoudexiangnianyejiuyuenong，yinciyaoxiangquwanliu。neimeaidekunhuoyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidejiyidewenzhangba。

 keshiquefajueqiannanyouzheishiqueyongyouxindeqinglv，yinerchuyulezuoyouweinandechujing，suihoujiuxiangwenyiwenjiaoshijiujinggaizenyangzuocaikeyifuhexing。

shijishangzheileizhuangkuangyaoxiangwanliujiaonande，keshijiarunidexinxinqueshihenjiandingbuyi，neiyebushimeiyoufangshide。

第一步：憋住，不必去想他

“jiaoshi，woruguokeyibiezhubuyuanta，bujiubuyuanwanliulemeiyou?”

 deque，ruguobuxiangnianjiuwuxuwanliule，keshijiaoshizheiershuodebubiquxiangtashibubimeishimeikedouquxiangta，aidelilunshishenmeni？gengbubiquhusiluanxiang，xuduo nvhaidoushihuixiangxieluanqibazaode。

 lirutashifouyouhexinrenqunaliwanle，chiwannaxie，nixuyaolejieniyuefaneiyangxiang，neimenidejingshenshizhiqingkuangbianhuiyuecaogao。

neizheiyangyilai，nideshenghuobianhuishenxianyipianheiyinzhizhong，ganjueganshenmedousuoranwuwei，naizhiyuelaiyueziganduoluo。

 suoyishuoxiangdequenenggouxiang，yinweixiangnianhainengbianchengfuhexingdequdonglijiqiyuandongli，keshiyaokongzhi，yaoburansinianbianhuicongqudonglibianweishashangli。

dierbu：jitamenyigehaodeyinxiang

jitamenyigehaoyinxiangdeqiantitiaojianbianshibaozhengyoukongzhidexiangnian，bubibaxiangtazuoweishenghuodesuoyou。

fanguolaiyeyaobaxiangtadeshijianquyongyuchongshiziji。

bazheixiechouqi、bushufudeshijianquyongyutigaoziji，shidudiqukuozhanyixiazishendeshejiaoquan，xuexipeixunyizhongxingquaihao。

 ruguoniqueshirangzishenyuelaiyuequweifengfuqilaishi，neimenidangranbianhuiyuelaiyuegengweixinxin，erzheiyifenxinxinzhenduijiexiaqudefuchouzhelianmeng4shishifenzhongyaode。

第三步：适度修复联络

 xinxinbangshendeni，zaiduyingduitadeqingkuangxiaburongyixiangyikaishishineibandejinghuangle，zheishihoudeninenggenjuyixiefangshizaicilianluota。

 aidekunhuoyounaxieni？lirudajianeishihoutanlianaishi，tachangchangrangnizhufan，rujinniyejiunenggouwenqi：hei，xianzaiwoyouqixiangchinineishihoubangwozuodeyu，ninenggenwoshuoshizenmezuodema?

 zheileinantitadaduoshushiburongyidichude，bingqiehuigaozhiruheruhezuo，dangwenqiguanjiandianshi，niyejiunenggousamaimengshuoruheneimenana，dangshidewodoubuqingchunizhufanneimebubian，aiwoneishihouzhenchun。

 tingjianzheijuhuadetaduobanhuikuanweini，dannizuihaoshijiulijizhongzhi，shuociciganxieni，yinweiwobingbushitexiangdaraoni，keshihenxiangchinineishihoubangwozuodefan，baoqian，daraonileba。

suihoujigankuaigualedianhua，jitamenliuyixieshineikongjianquxiasi。

 gengguanjiandeshizaihoumian，ruguonigaohaoyihounenggoufalepengyouquanpeiwen“dangshidemeiweikekoubuqingchuaixi，rujinshifouwanle。”

 xiangxinziji，zheishihoulingyifanghaowuyiwenhuigaoqingchunideyisi，jijidelianluoni，zheishihouniyejiunenggoujianjiandidezaiqushenru，fushita，zhizhifuhexingyijing。

 aidejiyiyoushenmeni？dangran，shangbiandefangshibingbingbushiduiyumeiyigerendouyouyongde，tajinjinyigedejiagou，shijideguanjiandianyibufenhuanshiyaoyijumeiyigerendebuyiyangzhuangkuangqupouxi，youyudingxiangtuiguang，youqishiganqing，gengshiruci。