这样跟男人沟通他会心甘情愿听你指挥！

 shenmeshiai？《fumuaiqing》lizuishaoyouliangmujiangdefuduiwaikaifangchuipengzishenzaijialideyingxiangli，anjiebudanmeiyoujiechuanta，haisuishengfuhe，jizulezishenlaogongqingmian。neimeshenmecaisuanai？aiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmejiaoaidewenzhangba。

 jiangdefuhuidaojiayihoudangranshihuashenwei“huqikuangmo”，fanbeitengxizishendexifu。(mingxianjidahuoerqianglietuijianzheiyibuju，nanhaihenvhaidounenggoucongzheidangzhongxuehaoxuduo liangxingjiaowangfangfa)

 zheiyiquanshijiemeiyoubutaihaode“zhangfu”，jinyouburongyiyingyongzhangfude“xifu”。nvxingneiyangjianghua，nanshenghuiganxinqingyuantingnizhiyin：

01你给他们情面，他让你重视

 xiaozhaofuqiyikuaierdaodaxingshangchangmaishafa。xiaozhaokanshangyitaobaidepishafa，henmei，dangrandoubuhuasuan。dianyuanpiaoliangxiaojiejieyizhangruhuangqiaoshebaxiaozhaoshuodexinhualufang，henbunenglikechuqianmaixialaita。

 danshixiaozhaodexifuqueganjuejiaqiantaigao，bukeyijiena，yincitaduixiaozhaoshuo：“zhangfunizhenyoupinwei，danshineimeqiandesediao，shenmeshiai？meiridoudeca，niqishuwooushuba，zhangfuhaowuyiwenhuixianbubian，dajiashifouzaikanyixiaqitani?”

xiaozhaotingle，zhuannianyixiang，xiaodao：“shiya，huanshiwodelaopokaolvdezhouquan，nikanzhebanba。”

xiaozhaoxifumeiyoushuo：“xiaozhaonishaa，zheiyouguiyoufeichangrongyizangde，youshenmehao?meinao。”

tadehuayixiajiuyaozhangfuquanpanjieshoule，tajilexiaozhaoqingmian，xiaozhaojilezhongshitadeshouyi。

gongpingdehuihua，jienaqilaifeichangrongyi。

 nanshengbuyidingquanshiduide，yebuyidingshikebaochilengjinglixingquanfangweikeguanxingdedanao，bixutiyi，danbuyongzhiling。nanshengdeqingchunqipannishifenyouzhi，“zhaoan”erbushi“qianquzhenya”huirangfuqiguanxigengquyujijizhudong。

02你给他们原谅，他让你谢谢

 wangxiaoyilikejiuxuyaohuijia，tadezhangfulishengzaicantingchufangqidetoudingzhimaohan，zhengshouzuwucuodijiejuedangchang。yuanbenxiangjiezhexinqingyukuaizhuyaobiaoxianyihui，kaolaokaolaogongzuozhongjianxin、pingchangliqinjianchijiayougonggonglvdexifu，xiangbudaobafanzhengzhihouzhitukanbaozhi，bafanshaohule。

 rangxifuhuijialekanrenaobuyongshuo，ruguobeixifujifengyichangneibianshizishentiaomaobingtaomeiqule。yebuzhidaoxifuhuiruhekanta?

 wangxiaoyihenanshidijinlejiamenkou，xiudaoyigushaojiaowei，jiandaozhangfujinghuangdexianggezuobuduishidexiaohailizaiyibian，tayixiajiugaoqingchufashengshenmeshi。

 tawangqianwenroudibangzhangfuxuehuifangxiashoushangdechufangyongpin，yilianyibuledexiaoyeshuo：“fanhulemeishier，womenqiahaochulaichigelangmanqinglvcan。zhangfusheyanmeijianyiba?”

lishengkuaisudageliding：“shi，zunming!”liangkouzihuandeyishenguangxianliangli，lianrensidiwaichuxiangyoulanmanwanfanlaidao。

 fancuowuderenzuixianbixudeshiyuanliangerbushizhize，jiaruwangxiaoyibingbushiqianjiuzhangfu，zhishihaohuaibufendijifengjifengzhangfu，shuoxiangjin“nijianzhibuqizuoyong，lianzhufanneimejianyideshierdouzuobutaihao”neiyangdehua，huoxuxiaoexingshijianmashangshengchengdazhanshile。

yingduizhangfudewuyizhicuo，xifujuebuke“manhengwuli，tongdaluoshuigou”，buranzongshirangzhangfuqijibaihuai。

 jiarutameiyouyishidaozishenbudui，xifuhaiyaocaozonghaozishendexintai，yishangyideyuqishuo“yaobushineiyangzhishineibanyexugengqiang，nijuedeni”，kendingshishijixiaoguozuihaoshide。

03你给他们赞扬，他给你宠爱

 meimeidadezhangfupingchanglizaijialikeqinlaole，yinlaihaoguimibuduanzanmei、yanxian。tongtongxiangmeimeidaqiujiaoyufuzhishu，meimeidachunfengdeyiyixiaoshuo：

 “meiyoushenmeyufuzhishuya，zhibuguoshizaitajiawulaodongdeqingkuangxiaduozanyangta。yikaishitalianwandouxibuganjing，kewoningyuanzaiyongwanyiqianzaixiyibian，yebuhuizhizeta，fandaohuizaitashuawandeqingkuangxiaconghoujinbaota，binggentashuodao’youzhangfuzhenbang’，tatingleyihouxueqijiawuhuolaijiugengweipinmingla~”

 shenmejiaoai？huijianghuadenvxingdianfuchuantongshide“nanzhujiaowainvrenzhunei”，tamendejichulilunshi“nanzhujiaowaiyezhunei”，zheiyijichulilundelijizaojiu，bianshitamendezhangfuyulaiyuxiangweizhengfuzhuxiadetangtaizong，tamendehunhoushenghuoyehaosishengshitangchaohonghonghuohuo。

jianghuashiyimenzaoxingyishu，shimeiyigerenyishengdebixiukecheng。

 huijianghuadexifuburongyizaihunyinshenghuolibazijileihuai，gengburongyiyongtitieruweideguanzhubaganqingleihuai，yebuhuizaihunyinshenghuolifangzongziji。

shenmecaisuanai？yuandajiadoubianchengnagehuijianghuadexingfudenvren!