什么叫爱？不主动不纠缠吃定男人

 nicongcibuyuansichengle，nihuanshirangbule，nichibuxiaomeiyoutadeshenghuo，nifangxialezizun，disanxiasidijitamenfaxiaoxi，tongdianhua，niyicicidiqinfenwanhui，quemeiyouhuodeyiqieniyaoxiangdejieguo。neimeshenmeshixihuanshenmeshiaini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmejiaoaidewenzhangba。

yinciniyuelaiyuegengweibugan，gengyaoxiangquaijin，ketaquegengweiduinibieryuanzhi……

wanhuiqinggan，zuikongbubingbushihuxiangbulianxi，zhishinishizhongzaizhui，ertashizhongzaitao。

 xuduo rendaowanhuishi，niyiweiyaoshiyaoganzhuiqiuwanmei，jiuyidingnenggouranglingyifangdadonghuishou，quebuzhidaoneiyangzuo，zongshiranglingyifangyuetaoyuezhang。

 yaoxiangwanhuiqinggan，zhikaozhuizhushibuhaode，yiqiandajiayouyiweixueshengjiaoxiaoshan(biming)，tazaiwanhuishi，jiuzheiyanghaipalingyifangbeitarenduozou。

sichanlandadiranglingyifangzaijiyicijihui，lingyifangyecongyikaishiketaoxintai，yuelaiyueyulaiyuyanfan。

 yincixiaoshangenjudouyinduanshipinxunzhaodajia，laoshizaizhangwozhuangkuanghou，mashangrangxiaoshanzhongzhileduiqiannanyoudesipilailian，youyuwanhuijiarunengkaosipilailianqudechenggong，neitiandijiumeiyou“cuoguole”erzile。

 shijishang，wanhuiyouhenduoconghuiyoushengjingdefangfa，bijiuchanbuqinggengweiqingqingsongsong，yegengnengranglingyifangjiena，jinjinhenduorendouxiangxiaoshanyiyang，zaifenshouhounanyixiufulixing。

 shenmejiaoai？yinci laoshimashangrangxiaoshanzhongzhilemeiyongdejiuchanbuqing，yibubushencengcijutizhidaotajienafenshoukeguanshishi，renkezishenbugou，bingduofangmianjiuzheng，yongqiadangdewanhuibuzhouhefangshi，qukandaiwanhui。

 zuizhong，xiaoshanbudanzailaoshidexiezhuxiawanhuileganqing，haibawolexuduo jiaruquziwojiazhi，ruheyunyingziwojiazhi，jinyouqiadangdilejieai，xuexipeixunai，caikeyihuodeai。

 yinci ，wanhuibubiji，gengbuyaohuang，jinliangrangzishenpingjingxialai，yongzhei6zhao，nidinghuibawoziwojiazhi，wanhuisangshideganqing。

理智应对分手

wulunfenshouhouniruhetongchu，leishuidoumeifabangnigaibianshenme。

jiarunihaixiangyaowanhuizheiyiduanqinggan，jiuxuyaolikezhenzuoqilai，rangzishenzhenzuo，buyaodiluoxialai。

 jinguandajiazaoyifenshoule，danwojuedeyiweizhebunengzhongxinzailai，ruguonilizhiyingduifenshou，weizijiyifenjiandingbuyidexinxin，niyejiunenggouwanhui。

意识到本身难题

dajiawangwangfenshou，biaomingdajiazhongjianshiyoufeichangdanantide。

wulunshixingqingshang，huanshishuohuafangshi，jiaowangfangfashang，dounengxunzhaodajiafenshoudezhenxiang。

 danjiarunishizhongguannianbushangzishendebuzhengque，neimapojingnanyuanshizhongmeifahehaoruchu，jinyouyishidaozhenshidefenshounanti，hebenshennanti，caikeyibaozhenggaizhengta，jiuzhengta。

为自己更改的時间

jianxinfenshouhou，bixushijianlizhidebujinyoulingyifang，yeyouniziji。

bubirangzishendexintaichuzaiyigebengjindeqingkuang。

 jinliangdirangzishenshifangyali，jianjiandixintaidiaozheng，xiaochujunheng，neiyangcaikeyishunxudixuqi，buduanqugaijinzishen，tishengzishen。

让另一方体会你的转变

yaoxiangshuaxilingyifangduinidefumianxinxiyinxiang，jiuxuyaoranglingyifanglejieni。

bubibazijizuoweilingyifangdeqianrennvyou，huonvpengyou，jiuzishenjingzhundingweiweiyibanpengyoujiuxing。

zaichupengzhong，yehuizaiweixinpengyouquan、xinlangweibozhongshaichuyixiezishendemeihaoshenghuo，ranglingyifangganshoudaoniqingxudezhuanbian。

提高诱惑力

wanhuishizhonggouxinshengerdequanguocheng，yeshiercixiyindequanguocheng。

yaoxiangjinyibuyulingyifanglajinguanlian，bingbukeyikaoshenglayingzhuai，zhishikao“xiyinzhu”。

 rangzishenyiyizhongquanxinshengjidepinpaixingxiangchuxianzaitayanqian，ranglingyifangyanqianyiliang，huirangtaduinizaicizaochengqiuzhiyu，heshenmigan。

昔日恋人效用

 jinguanyiwangdeqinggan，zongtanjidequebutaihao，danyiwangdeqingganzhong，yehuichuxianxuduo wennuanmirendeyimu，zaiyulingyifangzaicichupenghou，ninengouranjianliyongzheizhongzhuiyi，ranglingyifangzhuiyihaogandu。

 shijishang，zuihaotingdeqinghua，bingbushishiwenbenheyuyankeyibiaoshude，erzangzaixinlimeihaodejiyicaisuanshigouqizhenxinzuihaoshidelangmandehua。

yiduanqingganbeiwanbihou，dajiatongchanghuishenxianyizhongshengsilijiedetongchuzhong，meifarenqingkeguanxingxiankuang。

 shenmeshixihuanshenmeshiai？danfenshoudetongkushizaisuonanmiande，kesangshizhiaiqueshiwomenkeyiquanzude，yinci fenshouhousuirantongchu，danbubiweilegenghaoditongchuerhushilebenkezhengjiudeyiqie，nixuehaolemeiyou?