什么叫爱？异地恋被拉黑咋办？

 yiguolianzhenduiyiqieyiduiqinglveryan，douxiangemengyiyang，yaoxiangwanbiqueyouzhongzhongkunnan，youqishiyiguolianfenshouyihou，zhenduiyiqieyigexiangwanhuidereneryan，nanduxishuquanshishifendade。neimeshenmeshixihuanshenmeshiaini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmejiaoaidewenzhangba。

 nihenyoukenengzaoyidachuanletadedianhua，faguoyitiaoyouyitiaodeduanxiaoxi，keshiniquefajuetaduinifandaoyulaiyulengmo，naizhibeitalaheishanchule，nilejiezheishiweishenmema?

shijishangyiguolianfenshouhoudewanhuixiangduixingyuqitaleixingdefenshouwanhuieryan，nanduxishuyuanbenbianshijiaoweidade。

 suoyishuonibunengquebaonidegerenxingweikeyiqudechenggongfuhexing，neimajiubuyaosuibianxingdong，yaoburanzongshibianweihuoshangjiayouhuoshiliaobuji。jiaruniyongyuanbuzhidaoruhezhengquewanhui，nishijishangnenggouneiyangzuo。

挽回要有3“平”：平静、稳定、均衡

pingjingguanjianjiushizhixintaipinghe，wendingshishuogerenxingweiwending，erjunhengnibianshibicizhijiandeguanlianjunheng。

 shenmejiaoai？zuixianshixintaipinghe，，yigehaodexintaishiyagen，tashijuecekefouwanhuidezhongyao，jiaruxinlizhuangtaijiqibuwending，neimabianhuiweihaihoubiandegerenxingweicongerhuihuaibicizhijiandeguanlian。

 yiner，jibian danglingyifangyunijiangchufenshoushi，yeniyaojiejinquanliqukezhizijidexintai，bubiquzuoyixiejiduanhuadegerenxingwei。

 lirujiuchanbuqinghuoshiqiqiuzheileide，neiyangfeichangrongyirangzishenzaizheiliduanguanlianzhongyuelaiyuechuyubeidong，jinerzengjiaxianghujiandeguanlianbupingheng，zaocheng wanhuiyuelaiyuegengnan。

动心比不上行動：实实在在地去证实

 langmandehuahenpiaoliang，danguodupiaomiao，youqishizaiyiguoliandezhuangkuangxia，gengshiruci，henyoukenengnishuoleyiqianjuwoxihuanni，danhenyoukenengdoubibushangyigexiangyonglaidequeshi。

 henyoukenengnishuoleyiciciwonenggai，henyoukenengdoubibushangyishenzuozegengyouganranli。shijishangniyelejienijuededeyunizuode，nayigekeyizailingyifangneixingengyoushijixiaoguo。

yinci a，biezaiyitiandaowanbaqinga，aiyazheileideguazaizuishangle。

zhongjiuzaojiulijinglekoushuoganqingdenianlingle，rujingengbixudekenengshishishizaizaidexingdong，erbushidongxin。

将来有他，将来便会有他

 “jinjinwanxiama，meiyouxiangneimayuan”。zhenzhengdeaiqingyigehuodehetouruzhengxiangguandewupin，jiarunidezhengtiguihuazhongmeiyoulingyifang，huoshinizhenduijianglaiyagenjiumeiyouzhengtiguihua，jinjinzouyibukanyibu。

 neiyangshihenhuiranglingyifangquefaanquangande，yinci wanhuishibuguannishigenjuyuyanhuanshigerenxingwei，bixuduitashuoweilaidewoshiyoulenide，wodemeiyibudoubaokuoniyineide。

jiuliru，lingyifangyouyujianjudeyuangufangqini，neimaniyejiunenggoukaolvdaoxubuxuyaobanzhilitajindiandiqu。

 jiarulingyifangyouyunidelengdanerfenshou，neimaniyejiukeyiyongxingdongrangtajuededaoniduitadeguanzhu，neixinquanshirouzhangde，niduitahao，tadexinhaowuyiwenyehuirede。

 shenmeshixihuanshenmeshiai？shijishangyiguolianwanhuinanjiunanzai“yi”zi，waidibingbushizuikongbude，zuikongbudeshi“yi”xin，yinci a，nixuyaozuodebianshirang“yixin”bian“yixin”，zuizhongrangtazaiciduinifangzaixinshang。