爱情36计,前男友为我“吃醋了”

 aiqingbunengzuobijiao，youyujirimei“liao”，wojiubeifenshoulaheile?neimeaiqing36jiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingaiqingaiqingdewenzhangba。

 wodemingzijiaoxiaochun，2020nian27zhousui，zaiyijiazhumingpeixunxuexiaojiaoyingyu，wojinqijiaoweihuang，youyuwoyiwanhunweiqiantitiaojianxiangchudenanyouxiaodu，yijianshiyulaiyushengshule。

 woyuxiaodushizaijuhuihuodongshangmeigenjupenyoulejiede，tazaidajiashenghuichengshizuofangdichanye，dajiasuanzuo“yiguolian”，lideyesuanbushanghenyuan，bianshizheizhenwanglaijiaoweijiannan。

 zaizaijiashangqianduanshijianxueyuangangfuxue，wohenmang，yinci neiyiduanshijianyinweiwomeizenmezhaota，tazhaonvshengliaotiantiandeqingkuangxia，aiqingbunengzuobijiao，wojiuhushiguoqu，wozhaotaxianliaodeqingkuangxia，tayouzaimang，shijianshangyizhibushihe。

 jiushizheiyangguoquleyizhenzi，faledexuduo xinxitayebuhui，worenweihenyoukenengshiyouyuwozheizhen“hushi”ta，tazaigenwofapiqi，wojiuxianggenta“biaoshu”yixia，jiujitamenfaguoxixizhangzhangshipinyuyin，jieguotagenwoshuo：

“qingbiefaguo，womenneijiuzheiyang。”

 wobuhuitailejiezheijuhuashayisi，tashishengqile?naxieyoujiao“womenneijiuzheiyang”yinci ，wofenshoule?woyaozhaotawenqingxi，jieguofajuetajiangwojiaruheimingdanle。

yinci dajiajiushizheiyangfenshou?

 woshijishangshige“lianaixinshou”，chukaiputonggaozhonghuanjiebeibierenzhuiqiuwanmeiguoyiwai，zheixienianyemeitanguoneilei“xuanbu”delianai，genxiaoduzheilei，lingjulimingqueguoguanliandelianai，wohaishidiyicitan。

taneishihougaobaidehenxuanbu，kandechulaishihenyongxindeduidaizheiyiduanqinggan，danwoqueshixianggaobudong：

大家怎么会提出分手?

woganshenmeleshitaneimebumanyi?

huoxushiwotaichihuan，fanyingbuhuilai?

 worenweixiaoduyikaishiyinggaishihenxihuanwode，danturanjiutaoyanwole，yidingshinalichulenanti，wohenyilv，yehenjiaolvqingxu，wojijiang27suile，yaoxiangzaisanshisuiyiqianwanhundehua，shijianqueshihenjiaolvbuan。

 yinci ，wohaizaigezhonggeyang“qingganwenzhang”zhong，zhaodaolianaifazhanxuehao，youyujinyouzheigedewenzhangneirong“ganhuomanman”，zaihezhulizixunguwenyuanyuanliaowanyihou，wojianjuezhengshibaoming。

“恋爱新手”是为“搞不定”找借口

 zaihemiyaolaoshiyuyintonghuayiqian，wodoutingjiaolvbuan，youyuwopingshifeichangshaoyurenliaowodesishi，genjiarenjiugenghaipale，tamenbucuiwojiufeichanghaole。

 yaowoxiangbudaodeshi，woyumiyaolaoshideciciyuyintonghua，wobuhuizhudongdejiubaxuduo yanmaizaixinlidekunaotongtongshuochulai，wojingranyouzheimeduokunaodema?wojiuwenmiyaolaoshi：“shifouquanbuzixunguwendouneimeqimiao，keyibarendezhixinhuaquanwenchuqu”。

米瑶老师跟我说：

 “youyuqingtudeqiantixiajiushiniyaoganjueanquanxing，bingqieniqingtuquanguochengzhongdegezhonggeyangxintai，zixunguwenshinenggourangnijijizhudongdeyijianfankuide，nengfuweinizaicishuoxialai，yinci nicaihuixiangyaoshuozheimeduo。

 zheizhongyoudemeidezaibierenyanzhongkenengshikonghua，danbianshizheizhongkonghuaduzainixinli，yizhiyazheta，zaozhongwanhuijinichunanti。”

 aiqingaiqingaiqing,tingmiyaolaoshineimeyishuo，wofaxianlehaijianzhineiyang。tahaigenwoshuo：“nijuedezishenshilianaixinshou，shijishangshiweilegenghaodiweizijibushangtanlianai，zhaoletuoci，ninazheiyituocianweiziji：

 woshilianaixinshou，suoyiwotanbutaihaolianaishiyiqiezhengchangde，wonengbuqingchuruhebaochiguanlian，ruhecaozongjiezougan，ruheliaotiantiwen，ruheyijianfankui......

shijishangnidelianaishanghaizhiliuzaiputonggaozhong，yizhimeiyougenggai，yinci chengrendelianainigaobuding。”

 worenweimiyaolaoshi，zhenshixiangge“nvwu”，bingbujiuzheiyangma，woyizhigaobuding，zhiqianwohaiyoushijian“tangsai”zishen，danrujinwolikejiu27suile，youxiangzaisanshisuiyiqianwanhun，woxinjile，meikongtangsaile，caidianjizhejiejuele。

 zheidadianhua，miyaolaoshijiwopouxichulewenti：lianaishangtaidi，duitanlianaichedimeiyoudingyi，burongyiyunyingguanlian，bushanyanci，buhuitiwen，burongyicaozongjiezougan，xuxuduoduobixu“conglingkaishi”xue。

 danshi，zheiyejiushiwodiyici，aiqing36ji,zheibanmubiaomingquedexuexipeixun，aiqing36ji,woxiangbianchengyige“lianaidashen”，budanshiweilegenghaodiwanhuixiaodu，yeshiweilegenghaodixuehaorangzishenxingfukuaile。