爱情36计,分手复联后多聊这些“话题”

 aiqingbunengzuobijiao，fenshouzhihou，nizongsuanhelingyifangfuchouzhelianmeng4le，niyicicidiqinfenaijinta，qinfenxiangtaquebao，ninenggaizhengquanbudequexian，yaoshitanengrangniyicijihui。neimeaiqing36jiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingaiqingaiqingdewenzhangba。

kejieguo，tafandaogengweiyanjuandihuijueni，jiulianbiaoshudejiyuyeyiburangnile……

 weihebenlaijijiangchenggongle，lingyifangqueyiranhuijueqingdihuijuenilei?shijishang，fuchouzhelianmeng4dexiayibujinguanshifuhexing，danfuchouzhelianmeng4shiwanliuquanguochengzhong，shishifenguanjiandeyibu。

 yinweitalijiweihaideshifuhexingdejieguo，yinci fuchouzhelianmeng4hou，jiujinggaishuoxieshenme，zenmejiang，quanshiyouzhuzhongde，yibudoubukeyijincuo。

 yiqiandajiayouyiweixueshengjiaojuzi(biming)，tazailijingyixilietongchu、bixuxiezhu、xinlidiaojie、fenshou、tishengzijihou，zongsuanzaicichuxianzailingyifangdeshixianli，richangshenghuolile，haiyoujihuichupenglingyifang，zaicixiufuqinggan。

dantashifenyihuo，gangkaishixiashoufuchouzhelianmeng4hou，tawenlaoshi：“diyijuhua，jiujinggaifashenme，caiyouyiyuwanliu?”

 zheigewenti，yeshixuduo fuchouzhelianmeng4houbiedexiaohuobanmendenanti，zhijieliaotian，danxinshengying，jianyiwenhao，youkanqilaimeiqingmeizhong。

 danshijishang，fuchouzhelianmeng4houdiyijuhuajiujinggaishuoxieshenme，bingmeishenmeyouqidemingqueguiding，aiqingbunengzuobijiao，yaoshijilaoxialie2gebiaozhun，lingyifangdangranburongyizaiduhuijueni。

不用说会造成另一方回绝得话

 fuchouzhelianmeng4bingbuyiweizhewanliuqudechenggong，lingyifangquanbudexintai，douzaiyuniweizijide“jingzhundingwei”，rutongjiarunijuedefuchouzhelianmeng4jiukeyigenlingyifangzhiqian，qiufuhexing，neinijiubudui，neilingyifangzongshixiangfangtouyiyangfangzheni。

 yinci ，fuchouzhelianmeng4houweizijidejingzhundingweishishifenguanjiande，dajiabingbushilianren，guanliannaizhihaibibushangyibanpengyouhaojiaowang，yinci ，zaifuchouzhelianmeng4shiqiewubuyaoshuohuizaochenglingyifanghuijuedehua。

 rutongqianbianshilizhongdejuzi，tazongganjuefuchouzhelianmeng4jiuxiangdangyujijiangfuhexingle，yizhiannaibuzhupiqi，zongyaoxiangyibudaowei。

zhihoulaoshigaozhita，yugutaigao，feichangrongyihuipuluxuqiugan，zheihuiranglingyifangganjuenijilianbuyaolian。

 zhihou，laoshibangtabikailehaoduogefuchouzhelianmeng4houdejinquhuatitaolun：1、wanliuzhongbubitanjiqinggan。2、wanliuzhongbubibiwen，gengbubizhiyi。3、wanliuyebubiraowanzi。4、wanliuzhongyebubirenaolingyifang。

laoshijutizhidaojuzi，biezheji，youqianrushendequxiufuqinggan，caikeyizhenshidehaiyoujihuifanpannongnubayanchang。

 jiarunihejuziyiyang，keyinaizhepiqibikaizhishangsidian，neizhengshifuhexingzaoyiqudechenggongyibanle，dajiadelianluoyehuizhujianpingwen。

减弱目地，模糊不清用意

 shijishang，qingganzhujianpingwenhou，jianjufuhexingyejiushilinmenyijiaodeshiqing，danyuefacike，yuefabukeyixinji，wanliushiyichangxinliboyi，bidebianshisheikeyiqiaoranwushengdigongzhanzhudaoquan。

 aiqingaiqingaiqing,rutongjuzi，yuefazhongyaodeqingkuangxia，laoshiyuefajutizhidaota“jianruozhenduixing，mohubuqingyongyi”。shayisini?

 qishibushihennan，bianshibubiranglingyifangkandechunidemudi，jinyouxuehaoyinzangziji，caikeyiranglingyifangzhuomobutou，zhiyangfenwei，queconglaibutiaoming，yaoshichushibujing，duibianjiebeinizuandesisidi。

 jiarunixianjijitanpaile，henkenenghuiyoulianggejieguo，yi、tiaojianchengshufuhexingqudechenggong，danhuiliangshouxiangzengqingganzhudaoquan。er、jihuibuchengshu，beiqiannanyouhuijue，nanyizaiduwanliu。

 yinci ，rujinbuguannayangtiaoxuan，jijitiaomingquanshiduinishifenbuhaode，jinyouyunyongyixiexiaoqiaomenqu“zhengqueyindao”lingyifang，caikeyihuodewanliudezuihouyibu。

liru：yunyongyixingpengyoucijixinglingyifangjinpogan、huokuodabenshenshiyongjiazhi，ranglingyifangzaochengduzhanyu。

 laoshiyeshineiyangjutizhidaojuzi，jiaotashidiwanhuiaiqingde，neiyang“xiyinzhu”huijiadeqingganbudanbicimeiyougehe，qingganyeyouyuyiqiansangshiguo，erbiyuanxiangengweipingwen。

 aiqing36ji,jinguanshiwanliudezuihouyibu，danyeshishifenguanjiandeyibu，yinci jinyouyisibugoudikandaimeiyigejieduan，buxincunjiaoxing，caikeyiqueshibufuzishendetouruheqinfen，nixuehaolemeiyou?