爱上一个人怎么办？挽回前任方法不能错

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1、情感冷藏，减少分歧点

fenshoushidezhuangkuang，yibanfenerzhongzhuangkuang：

 1、jiarudajiashiyouyifenshoude，fenshoushilingyifangduinibingmeiyouhendichu，erdajiahaikeyixiangyibanpengyoubanjiaowang，neimashuobuyongkeyilengzangde。

 2、jiarudajiafenshoushidoudaizhubupingjingdexintai，bingqienikeyitihuichulingyifangduinishibiaoshuchudichude，buyuanyitingnindedianhua，yebukenjianni，neimaniyejiuyingdangyaoduinimendeqinggankaizhanlengzangle。

 zheishihounixuyaofenshou，zhongzhilianluo，erqiebubixianglingyifangbiaoshuchuniyaoxiangwanliudeniantou。neiyangyouliyujianshaolingyifangduinidedichudu，xiaochudajiazhongjiandefenqidian。

2、了解自己的难题

 yiduanqingganfenshouhou，haowuyiwenhuinanguoyiduanshijian，keshijiaruniyizhichuzaiqinei、yijuebuzhendeqingkuang，huiranglingyifangjuededaogennifenshoushishifenqiadangdezuofa，helixinglelingyifangfenshoudexinlizhuangtai。

 niyinggaizaicidiaojielianghaodexintai，xiangyixianggairuhewanhuixinyideta;gengyingdangzaicisikaoyixiazheiyiduanqingganbuchenggongdeyuangu，huiyiyixiazishenshibushiyoubeichangchangtanji，tasuowufarongrendequexianni?

zheizhongnantinidouyingdangrenqing，erqiezhubuwanshanzishen，chixutigaozijidesixiangjingjie。

3、持续提高自己本身风采

renquanshishijide，nanshengyetaobudongzheiyijibendinglv。

 tawangwangtiaoxuangennifenshou，biranyouyibufenyuangujiushinidebenshenfengcaibuzu，yinci yaoxiangwanhuiganqing，nixuyaoxuehaochuangjianercixiyin。

 bazijiyuelaiyuegaoshiyongjiazhiqilai，chixutishengziwo，zhanxiangaoshiyongjiazhizaiduxiyinzhuta。bujinwaiguanshejishangbianyouyigebianhua，nidebenzhiyeyingdangjianjiandideyouyidingdetigao。

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