有多少爱可以重来?聪明的女性都是这样挽回前任的

 youaiyouhenzenmeban？wanhuizheijianshiqing，haipadebingbushiqiannanyoudelengkuwuqing，zhishiyongcuofangshi。neimeyouduoshaoaikeyizhonglaini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanyoushihouaidewenzhangba。

 qiannanyoudelengdan，naizhizhuyaobiaoxianchudelengkuwuqing，shishishangdouyejinjinyishidexintaibale。taxiangdeshifenli，danniqidaiwanhui，dajialiangrendeniantoushiyoubeide，ruoniyizaiposhi，fenhaobujiyudaotui，zongshishitagengweiyanjuan，yinci xintaicaihuiyulaiyucaogao。

 tajinjinxiangfenli，wanbidajiadezheiyiduanqinggan，tafourendeshidajiadeqinggan，bingbingbushichedifourenni，yinci niyoujihui。

 buyaodanxinlingyifangdelengkuwuqing，zheijinjinlinshizhuangkuang，ruguoniyongduifangshi，shijianbianhuishitaqingxuxiufuningjing，pingxinjingqidegennichupeng。

danjiaruoyongcuofangshi，zongshishitaxintaigengweicaogao。

【不正确的挽回方法】

weilegenghaodiwanhuiqiannanyou，ganyuanrangzishenyuelaiyuefengkuang。

 zuichu，henyoukenengnijinjindixiatouchengrencuowu，ganjuefugeruan，tabianhuihuishou。danfenhaomeiyoushijixiaoguo，youaiyouhenzenmeban？nidisanxiasideyaoqiuta，shuoyaoshitatongyifuhexing，ruhenidouxiangyao。danshitayiranailibuli，naizhibikaini。

 nigangkaishisipilailian，suohunlianhuaicall，zaitachangchuxiandelingyifangjinzhuibushe，pinlemingdewanhuilingyifang，zhiqidainengdedao tadezhiliu，dantazhuyaobiaoxianchugengmingxiandichuheduobi。

nidexintaiyeyishunjianbeiyinran，benlaizishenhenjiji，yezaijijizhudongdejiejuekunnan，taruhejiuzongshiduobini?

 nigangkaishifangzongziji，zuochugezhonggeyangfengkuangdexingwei，gengsipilailian，huoshichixudizhixuewenqilengdandeyuangu，naizhiganyuanyongsunhaizishendefangfayingdetadeguanxin。

youhuoshi，guoduanqidongqinpenghaoyou，huozhexunzhaolingyifangqinpenghaoyoudexiezhu，congshehuidaodefangmianposhilingyifangrangbu。

 danzheizhongfangfa，zhiyoushitagengdichuni。jibian ，duinilaishuo，nishizairangbu，zaidixiatou，naizhizaijijizhudongdejiejuekunnan。danzheizhongyagenbushitayaoxiangde，xianjieduantayaoxiangdejinjinwanbidajiadezheiyiduanguanlian。

yinci，jibian niyizairangbu，yizaichengrencuowu，dandadongdeyeweiyounizishen。

neima，naxiecaisuanshiqiadangdewanhuifangfani?conghuidenvshi，quanshineiyangwanhuide。

【恰当的挽回方法】

1.bujiuchanbuqing，jianjuesheqi

 buzhengquedewanhuifangfa，bianshizaibuzhengquedejihui，wanhuibuzhengquedeqinggan，jibian queshiwanhuiqudechenggong，danyiranhuizoulaoluzi。

zhuiqiuwanmeibuzhengquedeqinggan，shiyijiankebeideshi。

zhenduizaoyilijingrenzheng，xiajielun，shuangfangdouzaoyiqingchudiyishidaoyiduanbuzhengquedeqinggan，jiuxuyaojianjuetiaoxuanxuanze。

bubijiuchanbuqing，jirantaxiangdeshiliqu，neichedinenggouyuanyitadeguiding，tiaoxuansheqizheiyiduanqinggan。

ziran，nisheqideyejinjinyiwangbuzhengquedeqinggan，erbushitiaoxuangentawanquanshuozaijian，zheizaishizhishangshijiongranbutongde。

 jianjuesheqibuzhengquedeqinggan，rangliangrencaogaodexintaikuaisudehuanjie，zuishaoyaoshitaburongyizaineimapaichini，nicaikeyizhenshijinxingwanhui，buranqiantumanshijianxian。

2.解决困难

ziran，gengzhongyaodehuanshiyaochulidajiazhongjiandenanti。

jibian tadexintaihuanjie，dantashilixingde，mianduini，yezongshijiangnidezhenshishenfenjiedingwei“qiannanyou”。

danshi，yiqiedounenggouhuanjie，zhiyaoniyuanyihoutuiyibu，rangdajiazhongjianbianchengpenyou。

 suihou，gangkaishichulidajiazhongjiancunzaidebuzu。yiqieqinggandeliekai，doucunyouyixianghuoshiduozhongdenanti，jinyoufaxianwenti，xiangyaochulidajiadenanti，caikeyijiangditaxinlidejiedi，xuehuifangxiafangbeixinlizhuangtai，gennizaicichupeng。

3.提高风采

taxiangyaogennizaicichupeng，jiuyiweizhezhewanhuiyidingnengqudechenggongma?

zheiyiniantoushibuzhengquede。

 xiangyaogennichupeng，yiweizhezheduinixuehuifangxiafangbeixinlizhuangtai，taduinidefumianqingxujianshao，dandajiazhongjianshangdabushanglianrendechengdu。

xiangzaicixiyinzhudaota，rangdajiadeguanlianzaiyicitisheng，jiuxuyaotigaorenqizhi。

 zhongjiu，nanshishizhishanghuanshishijuexiaoguoweishengwu，dangtabeinidewaizaisuoxiyinzhu，caihuizhenshidexuehuifangxiayiqie，juecegenggailiangrendeguanlian，xianghuzaicilaidaoyiqi。

 youduoshaoaikeyizhonglai?yinci ，tishengziwofengcai，genggaibenzhihewaizai，chaoyueziwo，shitayanqianyiliang，zaicixiaixihuanni……zheicaisuanshicongmingdenvshi，qiadangdewanhuifangfa!