爱情地图,分手后别纠缠

 aiqingfenxi，wojinnian25sui，henanyoutanlianaisinianle，congnianshudeqingkuangxiadajiajiuzaiyiqi，jinguanyizhiquanshiwaidi，danqingganquefeichanghao，tajilewoxuduo guishugan，dajiayezhunbeizai2020nianwanhun。neimezenyangchuliaiqingdinglvni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingditudewenzhangba。

yinci ，zuijinbannian，tazongshidaiwohuiqujiantadebabamama，hetaqinrenjiaowang。

 kewoqueshifentaoyanqutajiazhong，youyutababamamayizhiweizhudajiazhuan，yagenmeiyouyiqiesimikongjian，wosuichubixukaolvdaotababamamadetihui，zheileijushuganyaowoshifenbugaoxing。

 zhihouwoguoduanbuyuanqutamenjiale，ketaquejuedeworongjintadejiazhongshiwubideshier，yinci dajiazuijinchangchangyouyuzheiyishierzhengchao。

 zhihou，tayouyugongzuozhongbianhuaquhaiwaiyiduanshijian，qineitayaoxiangwodaitaqutajiazhongtanwangtababamama，kewoquejujuele，youyuzheijianshiqing，dajiachaonaoshenghenxiong，yinweiwoyouyuneiyicizhengchaobatashoujiweixinshandiao。

 ketaqueyizhimeiyoujiahuilaiwo，zhihouwojijijiatale，taquegenwotilefenshou，yuangushi，taganjuewobuaita，yeyagenbuyuanjiajita。

 wobuxiangfenshou，yinweiwoyizhijitamentongdianhua，shitazaibangwoyicijihui，ketaquebuyuanyile，aiqingfenxi，wobuyuanyisheqizheisiniandeqinggan，wonengzuoshenmecaikeyiwanliu?

答：

 kanguonidexushu，shifenlejieniyaoxiangwanliudeqingxu。niyouyuzishenbunenggourongjinlingyifangdejiazhong，erhelingyifangzaochengleyixiefenqi，zaijiashangxianghujianhuxiangrangbu，caizaocheng bicifenshou。

 shijishang，dajiazhongjianjiaoda denanti，bingbingbushiqingganshangde，zhishiyaoqiushangzaochenglechabie，taxiwangnirongjintadejiazhong，ertabingmeiyoukaolvdaonidetihui。

 nibuxiangrongjintadejiazhong，youyunizhikaolvdaolezishendetihui。yiner，lingyifangyeduinizaochenglewuhui，caimingquetichufenshou。

 yinci dajiazhongjianfenshoudeyuangu，shijishangshuodaodi，doushiyouyufenbiedezisizilibale，danlingyifangdeliqu，bingbingbushiyouyubuainile，nishijiyuwanliude。

xiabianwonengrangniyixieqingganshangdetiyi，qidainenggouxiezhudaoni。

向另一方表述误解

lingyifangzaiyunifenshoudeqingkuangxia，rangnideyuangushi：taganjuenimeiaita，yebuyuanjiajita。

 nenggoukandechulai，lingyifangrujinduijinixianzhudewujie，tajuedenibuxiangrongjintajiazhongdeyuangu，bianshiyouyunibuyuanjiajitabale。erzainidexushuzhong，yemeiyoujiandaoniduiyucishibiaomingguofouding。

 yinci ，zailingyifanglaikan，zheijiuhaoxiangge“keguanshishi”，tayaoxiangqushizishensheqizheiyiduanqinggan，yejujuelenidefuhexingyaoqiu，yuangubianshiyouyu，tajuededajiashimeiyoujianglaide，youyuzaitayanzhongnibingbuyuanjiajita。

 jiaruyaoxiangwanliuzheiyiduanqinggan，zuizhuyaodebianshiyaobaituowujie，lijixianglingyifangshuomingnideqingyi，bingtiaomingniweishenmemeifarongjinlingyifangjiazhongdeyuangu，jinyoushitalejienidezhuguanyinsu，caikeyixiaochutaduinidewuhui。

相互挑明要求

qinglvzhijianyaoqiubuduideng，shiyijianhenkongbudeshier，danzheibingbingbushibukeyichuli，dajiayizhigechiyicidizhengchao。

aiqingdinglv,danzheibingbukeyibangdajiachuliyiqienanti，dajiaweishenmebukeyizuoxialaihaohaodiliaoyiliaoxianghudeyaoqiudianni?

 zuixian，lingyifangyaonirongjintadejiazhong，shiyouyutadeyaoqiushiyaoxiangyuniyouyigejianglai，dannibingbuyaoxiangrongjintadejiazhong，shiyouyunideyaoqiushiyaoxiangdajiadesimikongjian。

dajiafenbiedelizudian，shijishangquanshizaiyilezishendetihui，quecongmeikaolvdaolingyifang。

 kejiarudajiaxiangyaojingxialai，haohaodishuoshuohua，lingtingyixialingyifangdeniantouhetihui，jianxindajiayidinghuiyougengqiangdejiejuefangan。

aishixianghuzhijiantouru，yeshixianghuzhijianrangbu

 dajiaqidailianrenshizhongdongzishen，kuanrongzishen，ketangruoganqinglijinyouyifangkuanrong，yifanglejie，neimazheizhongaibianshishidiaode，wanmeideaiqing，shibixubicidetouruhelejie，caikeyijiehechenggengwanmeideaiqing。

jiaruniailingyifang，weihechangshiqulejieyixialingyifangdetihuiheyaoqiuni?changshiqurongjinyixialingyifangdejiazhongba。

 zhongjiujiaruniyaoxianghelingyifangzaicizouxialai，tashibukehuoquedeyigequanguocheng，zaizheigequanguochengzhong，niyenenggouxianglingyifangbiaolunideyaoqiu，ranglingyifangyelailejienidetihui。

 aiqingditu,aijiushineiyangyigexianghuzhijiantouru，xianghuzhijianrangbudequanguocheng，jiarumeiyigerendouzhizhisuoyao，meiqulejiehetouru，neimafenliyeshiwulunzenyangeryi，nixuehaolemeiyou?