我谈恋爱了，三步挽回成功前任

 zaiwanhuizhongzhenshijueceshibushinengwanhuiqudechenggongde，wozaiduzhuzhongyixia，juejibushitaduinidexintai，zhishinidewanhuiduice!neimezenyangchulitanyichangbufenshoudelianai?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanwotanlianailedewenzhangba。

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lingyileishifenshouzhihoumeiyoushandiaolianxidianhuade，tamenweishenmemeiyoushandiaolianxidianhuani?

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diyizhao、jianjuefenshou，yiqianshantidaiyousuowei

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qiadangdezishishi，haode，womingbaile!suihoucongtadequanqiuxiaotui!

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 shexiangyixia，tabielehaozhangshijian，zongsuanguqiyongqijinijuedefenshou，tazaiqianyishizhonglibianbidinghuipingdingtaduinieryanshiduomededeguanjian，taduinieryanshiduomededebuketidaide。

 keshi!ruguonifengqingyundandilaiyijuzhidao，suihoujiuxiaotuimeiyousuihoule。taneimehuishishatihui?!tabudanhuihenhaoqi，nndtashiruhede，chedibuanzhaoshudapaia!

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 yinci ，zheiyizhaojinirangnimeituodui，dajiazaibeikaoyixia：bubijuedefenshouzhihoubufuzhuxingdong，tabianhuiyuelaiyueyuan。eryaodonghanbaobing，zheishishiyiqianshanshengyousuowei，caikeyihaitagecubujifang，jiniyihoudefuhexingdayigehaokandebeijingse。

第二招、挽回的攻心术

 congguzhijinwulunganqingzhonghuanshijingjichang，shangshangzhicedoubingbushigongchenglvedi，zhishigongxinzhan!zaiganqingwanhuizhongyeshizheiban。niyaowanhuinidenanren，jiuyongmingbaininanrenzaixiangganshenme。

 xiangbizaiwanhuizhongyingyongshuzuiduo，shijixiaoguoquezuilande“quyuefangshi”，wohuizongchuleyitaogengweigaoxiaolvde“xinlizhuangtaiqingganxiufufangshi”。

 tanyichangbufenshoudelianai,neimaxianshuoyixiashenmeshixinliqingganxiufufangshi。zaidajiadexinlifudaolingyuzhong，jingchangxuanyongdeyigejishuxingbianshitonglixinjishuxing。congzongtishang，bianshibazijizhifangzaibaochizhonglidedisanfang，suihourenzhenqulingtinghelejielingyifangdetihui。conglingyifangdejiaoduheganshoukaolv，qukandaolingyifangdebuyihelingyifangdexiwang。tashikaiqilingyifangfangyulidezuiyouxiaofeichangjiandandefangshi。