恋爱理论：挽回中有哪些错误99%的人都会犯？

 lianaimoheqiyouduozhang？woyizhizaizhuzhongyigedadaoli：xuduo qingkuangxia，qudechenggongbingbuzaiyunizuozhengquelenaxie，erzaiyunimeiyoufancuonaxie!qingganwentigengshiruci，jugejianyideshili，qiannanyouburongyiyouyuniguanzhuleta，jiulikepeizainishenbian，keshiyidinghuiyouyunisaoraota，erjiangnilaheishanchu。neimelianaililunyoushenmeni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaineidianshidewenzhangba。

 liangrenchuduixiang，nizuoshijiandadonglingyifangdeshierjileideganqingjichu，henyoukenengyouyuyicipanbianjiuxiaoshidaijin。yiduanqinggan，laidaotichufenshouzheiyibu，yuanbenjiuyongyouxuduo desunhaihehuihuai。ruguonixiangwanhuizheiyiduanqinggan，zaihuifudequanguochengzhong，zhongjiunibunengzaifancuowu，youyuzaidufancuowu，bidinghuibianchengyasiluotuodezuizhongyigendaocao。

 80%deqinggan，doubingbushidiyicifenshouzhihou，jiuwanquandeyouyuanwufen，laosibuxiangwanglai。lianaimoheqiyouduozhang？zhenghaoxiangfan，quanshizailijingleshucidejiuchanbuxiuzhihou，caibianchengzuilejiedeluren。

 youxierenshuoqile：jiaoshiwozenmezhidaoshenmeshiershicuode，shenmeshiershiduide?shenmeshiernenggouzuo，shenmeshierbukeyizuoni?neimajinri，dajiajiulaihedahuoerliaoyiliao，womenzaiwanhuideqingkuangxia，zuiyifandebuzhengqueyoushenme?

1、觉得挽回压根没有用

 “doufenshou，wanhuiyagenmeiyouyong”/“tadoubuaiwole，hairuhewanhui?”/“woshiguoqule，wanhuiquanshijiade，fenshou，yagenbutaikenengwanhuidele”/“quanshikengrende，wozuoleneimeduoqinfen，jieguohaibingbushiyiyang”......

 niyidingjinglineiyangdelijing，ruguonizaochenglesheqizheiyixiangfadeqingkuangxia，nengjianchidaodidegailvshifenxiao。wanhuiyeshiyiyangdedadaoli，ruguoniganjuewanhuimeiyouyongdeqingkuangxia，neimawulunniganshenme，zuizhongnidoushihuidedaoneiyangdejieguo，bingbingbushiqueshimeiyouyong，zhishinimeijianxintayouxiao。

 henduorendoujuede：woyijinghenqinfenle，keshijieguojiuzheiyang，yinci wanhuimeiyouyong，neiyangdeluojixingshijishangshibuzhengquede，weishenmeni?nijinguanqinfenle，keshinidefangxiangqiadangma?niqinfendefangfaqiadangma?nishiqueshiqinfenzaiwanhui，huanshiqinfenzaigandongzijini?

 niqinfendejiuchanbuqingta，yeshiqinfen，niqinfenyaoxiangshuodongtakuanrongni，yeshiqinfen，niqinfenqudadongta，yiyangshiqinfen。danshizheizhongqinfenyoushenmeyong?meiyouyong，youyuzheizhongqinfendounongcuodefangwei，yongbuduifangfa。

 bubiganjueqinfenmeiyouyong，yebubijuedewanhuimeiyouyong，meiyouzuodaoniyaoxiangdejieguo，danshishiyouyunimeiyouxunzhaoqiadangdefangweihefangshieryi。

2、高傲自大并并不是合适任何人

 zonghuiyouxueshengyishangqujiuwen：“jiaoshi，woyaozenmezuo，caikeyigaoaozidawanhuita?”/“jiaoshi，woyaozenmezuocaikeyishitajijilaiyaowofuhexing?”/“wanhuitaimeiyouqingmianni?shifoukeyishishitalaiwanhuiwoni?”

 zaizheierwojuedegaozhizhuweinvhai，renqingxianshixingma?ruguoshinibalingyifangshuaile，haiganlesunhailingyifangdeshier，haidianjizheweichizhezhigaoqiangdezishi，ranglingyifangjijilaiwanhuini，zuoshenmemengni?gaoaozidawanhuibingbingbushiheshiquanbudetichufenshouzhonglei。

 jiaruyiqianniyizhizaizheiyiduanguanlianzhongyizhichuyutanlianaidiwei，huoshiwuxianzhidetouru，zaocheng lingyifangyagenbujiangnidanghuishi，zheigeshihouninengcaiyonggaoaozidawanhui，ranglingyifangjiandaonizhenshideshiyongjiazhi，wanchengguanliandehuifuheyingxianglidefanzhuan，tashinenggoude。

 jiaruzaizheiliduanguanlianzhong，nizishenjiuguishuyushouhaifang，neimaranglingyifangjijilaiwanhuini，bushibuneng，chufeishinideshiyongjiazhiqueshihengao，yaoburan，meiyousheixiangyaozaiciweizijizhaobushuangkuai。zheigeshihou，nixuyaojianshaozishendezishi，jijiquhuanjieguanlian，

 lianaineidianshi，henduorenjiaoweidichuwanhui，shiyouyujiangjijiwanhuixiangdangyuxishengxialaidequqiulingyifang，shijishangma，bingbushizheiyang。jijiwanhuidequexiangyaonijianshaozishi，keshibingbingbushijinidisanxiasi，jinjinxianjijitaojinhubale，bingqiezheijinjinlinshide，jinjinweilegenghaodihuanjielingyifangdefumianqingxu，fangzhiguanlianzaiciebian!

3、恰当的挽回方法，并不是说动另一方，只是证实自身

 henduorenfenshouzhihoudoushizheguowanhui，keshijieguoyizhichongmanlenaonuhequehan，tamengaobudong，weihezishenyezhiqianle，lishiyidinghuigai，lingyifangquehuanshixintailengdan，buyuanyifuhexing。

 huidaqishibushihennan，youyuwanhuibingbingbushiweilegenghaodishuodonglingyifang，zhishiweilegenghaodizhengshizishen。fenshouzhihou，jianchiyaotichufenshoudeneirenshitaoyannide，nizaishuoshenmezaitayanliquanshibianbo，quanshiwuyiyideshuchu，qingganbangjia。nijuededeyueda，taduiniyejiuyuefayanfanhedichu。

 youjuhuashuodetingyouxiedaolide，niruoanhao，qingfengzilai，yaoxiangrangyigerenliuyini，zuiyouxiaodefangfabingbushishuodong，zhishizhengshinizijijitamenkan，shitajijifajuenideyoushi。

 lianaililunxianggaibian”“xiangfuhexing”“xiangganshenme”zhiliuzai“xianggan”defangmiandoumeishenmejutiyongtu，guanjiandeshiquganlenaxie，niqueshibianchengleshenmeyangzi。