如何控制情绪？你需要做哪些准备？

 kongzhibuzhuzijideganqingzenmeban？henyoukenengyouhuiguoderendoushihuipengdaoneiyangdenanti：youhuidekaixiaojiujingsheilaifukuan?xuduo nvxingdouganjue，rujinrenrenpingdeng，diyiciyuehuijiarujijifuqian，nenggouxianshixinxizishendegaoyadaqi。shishishang，zheileigerenxingweihaowuyiwenrangnanrenjuedenankan。neimeruhekongzhiqingxuni，fangfayounaxie?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankankongzhizijideqingxudewenzhangba。

 yibaneryan，weihunnannvyaolijingshuciyouhui，fangnengwanquanjienalingyifanghuoshibeilingyifangjiena。shubuzhi，yiduanqinggandequdechenggong，diyiciyuehuiquejuyouleyouweizhongyaodegongxiao。

 shishishang，diyiciyuehuigenghaoxiangyiciqiuzhiyingpin，jinjinshuangfangquanshijiankaoguan，yequanshixuesheng。zuowei“xuesheng”，nvxingruonengzaidiyiciyuehuizhongjiujilingyifangliuyoufeichanghaodeyinxiang，biannenggoujindaonanrenxiayilundemolian，ruozhuyaobiaoxianbujia，nanrenhenkenengyiburangnidierlun“zhaopinmianshi”dejiyu。

 yingpinzhedoulejie，zaizhaopinmianshideqingkuangxia，tamenwubizaifeichangduandeshijianneihuodejiankaoguanrentong，yibaozheng zishendedao gangwei。zaikanyixiazheixiequdechenggongdeyingpinzhe，youshigongzuonenglibuyidingbinituxian、tiqianzhunbeiyemeiyounichongzu，keweihepianyaotanengdedao gangweidanniquewufadedao?chukaiyunshiyiwai，jianxintayidingbinigengmingbaimianshidejiqiao，liruyizheshangdezhuzhong、huiyingshidexiaobiaoqing、jianghuashideyudiao，zheixie。

 tongzhaopinmianshiyiyang，kongzhibuzhuzijideganqingzenmeban？zaidiyiciyouhuizhong，nvxingchukaiyingdangquchulianghaodexintai、gaohaochongyudetiqianzhunbei，haibixulejieyixieyouhuidefangfa。xiabian，woyezuoyihuiyouhuide“zhaopinzhe”，jieshiyixianvxingzuiguanzhudenanti，gaozhidajiaruhezuo，jiqinaxiegaizuo、naxiebuyinggaizuo。

第一次幽会应当在确定关系前還是确定关系后?

 yibanlaijiang，nvxingshizaijihuiyouhuiyihoucaihenanrenquedingguanxi。genjuyouhui，shuangfangdoukeyizhanxiangerenyoudian，yehuibaoludebugou，duiyuzheizhong，nvxingnenggoujinyibusisuohehengliang，jinerjueceshibushihetafazhanqushichenglianren。ziran，xuduo nanhaihenvhaiyehuixianquedingguanxizaiyouhui，zaiyouhuiquanguochengzhongruguoyoubumanyi，yifanghaikeyimingquetichutichufenshou。

 guanlianmingqueshifou，shijishangbingbuzhongyao。kongzhiqingxuguanjiandeshi，diyicishijianduanyouhui，tazaixinlizhuangtaishangbingmeiyouzhenshijienani，yiyangniyemeiyouzhenshimingquetiaoxuanta。shishishang，zheihexuduo qiyejizhigongfenpei“shixiqi”yiyang，wulunshifouzaishixiqinei，nidounenggouliquqiye，erqiyehaikeyicituini。yinci ，diyiciyuehuizaishenmeshihou，bingbuzhongyao。

第一次幽会就是我先明确提出，還是男人先明确提出?

 jiarunanrenjiaoweibushanyanci，bukenjijimingquetichuyouhuideyaoyue，nidanengjijimingquetichulai。danshi，buyuanguodujijidenvxing，mingquetichuyouhuiyaoyueshimeiyoubiyaoguoduliji，haikeyiyikaopenyoudenenglianglaibangzhu。

 nvshengyaoxiangyouhui，nenggoushiqianbugaozhinansheng，xiedaitayuhaoduogepenyouyiqichifan，danniyaohenzaodibazijideyongyigaozhitamen，baozheng diandanyihou，tamenyigejieyigedipaodiao，zuizhongzhishengdajialiangren，tamingbainiderenzhen，niyewuxuzhangkou——yingpianliwangwanghuiyizaiyongzheiyizhaoshu，chukaiyouyong，yeyoubiedeyuanyinma?

 fanguolai，yidannanrenshouxianmingquetichuleyouhuiyaoyue，niyewuxuduanjiazi，kanqilaizishenyouduobuqingyuan。yuqingguzongyaozhangwohaoxiandu，bubishitaganjueniyagenjiubuyuangentaxiangchu。

男人向你明确提出的第一次约会邀约，是十分谨慎的决策。因此 ，立即回绝是没礼貌都不妥当的。

 jiarutamingquetichuyouhuinizhengqiaojishibaituobudiaoshen，kongzhizijideqingxu，niyinggaizuixianxiexienanrendeyaoyue，ranhoulejielingyifangshibushixiangyaohuanyigeshijian;jiaruniyizhizaitongyitayihou，linshixingjishibukeyijianmian，niyidingyaoxiangtabiaoshuqingxi，bingyaoqiulingyifangkuanrong。shishishang，nanrenbingbuhuiyouyunidehuijueerfahuo，fandaoganjueniduiciciyouhuihenzaihu。