洞察他是否值得你爱的细节 是我不可爱吗？

 shiwobukeaima？diyicijiannanxingfumunvshengneixinshiduoshaodoushihuiyoudianerhuangkongbuan。zhongjiubingbushizishenbabamama，bingqieshidiyicijianmian，jilingyifangbabamamaliuyouyigehaoyinxiangshifenguanjian。youyuzheihenyoukenenglijiguanliandaonihenanpengyoujianglaiguanliandefazhanqushijiqizhihoupoxizhijiandepinzhi。zenyangzaidiyicibaifangnanxingfumushijiujilingyifangliuyouhaoyinxiang?qiekanxiamian。neimerenrendoushuowoainiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshijiehewoaizhenixinlixuedewenzhangba。

一、衣着尽可能大方得体传统些

 diyicijiannanxingfumuyidingbubichuandetaifukua，jinguanhenyoukenengpingchangzaizijijiahuoshigennanpengyouzaiyiqihenyoukenengbingbushixuzhuyi，keshidiyiciqunanxingjiahuanshiyaochuandexuanbuyidiande。jinkenengxuanzeyijiannengzhuyaobiaoxiannideshejifengge、chuantongyixiedeyifukuzi。maoxianyi、zhangqunquanshifeichanghaodetiaoxuan。

二、做好自己，不必过多取悦

 nijianguoneileibanshiguoduderenma?tamenneimaqinfenquchudongtaren，quebururenyi。bubizuozheileixiaoguniang!shuangfangfumujianmianshi，jijidicanjiahuihua，gaihuiyingshihuiying，gaixiaorongshixiaorong。danliuyiduibumingbaidehuatitaolunbubizhuangdong，youkenenghuinaoxiaohua。bubizhuyaobiaoxiandehenqianghan，shiwobukeaima？jidenijinjingebeiyaoyuedeyouqideguke。

三、有礼貌始终是第一位

 jiannanpengyouqinrenshizuibixuliuyidediqubianshiyaoyoulimao。jiaruniquanguochengzhuyaobiaoxiandecubao、buzunlingyifangdangranburongyiduiniyouhaogan。zuoyigexinggehao、roumeidefunvba!rutongniqidaibeikandaideneibanqukandaitaren。

四、倾听和学习培训

 shijiehewoaizheni,zheishiyigeduitanengyoudaliangzhangwodejuejiajiyu。tademuqinhenyoukenenghuiyunigongxiangtaershiyouqudezhaopian。ninenghuodehenduoyouxiaodexinxineirong，lirutadechengzhanglicheng，yinci qingjinliangqingting。

五、诚信

 shizhongyaohaijidechengxindijiedawenti。meiyourenhejiekourangnimeijiangchushiqing。tadeqinrenwangwanghuixunwenninanti，shiyouyuyaoxianggengweizhangwoni。

六、享有这一全过程

 fangsong，zheishiyigeshitashengmingzhongzuizhongyaoderenzhangwonidejiyu，tadeqinrenaita，yehuizhongshitadejuece。jilaozuozhenshideziji，xiangyouyutadeqinrenhuandudeshijian。

 renrendoushuowoaini,zongjie：diyicijiannanxingfumu，chukaihaohaodizhuyaobiaoxianwai，lingwaiyeliuyiyixiananpengyoujiadejiazhongfenwei、babamamahudongjiaoliufangshi、shibushixingfuzailiudongxing?dajiameiyigerendoushouzishendejiazhongweihaifeichangda，zhangwozheizhongnenggouxiezhunigengquanfangweidezhangwonizuiaideren。