女人如何展示魅力 是我不可爱吗？

 shiwobukeaima？jiageiyigehaolaogong，duinvxingeryan，queshishiyijiantaiguanjiandeshier。haijidehenduonianqian，wocengjingzuowei《yihuyixitan》deteyaojiabin，baomingcanjiaguoyichangzhengbian。neimerenrendoushuowoainiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshijiehewoaizhenixinlixuedewenzhangba。

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 woweiyideyihuobianshi，nijuedezishenyounaxiezizhidapeinirenweide“chusequnti”(ruguowomendeshehuiguanjianghaolaogongdeguifandingzuoluoyuyouzhehenduoshehuiziyuanderendehua)。zaichangdehaiyouyigeqianwanfuweng，tashuodao，zishenzuidanyoudebianshiyigenvrenmiaoshangdeshitadeqian，erbushitaziji。zheijiufangfoyigenanrenxiangnishiai，jinjinyouyunidesanweiaotuyouzhiyiyang。

quanshijieyiqieyizhongshiqing，quanshiyouyigeguangfandadaolide：neibianshidajiayouyushengzhierronghe，youyujiangjiaerfenli。”

 youyigepenyou，gangweishiguojiagongwuyuan，tadezhangfuzaijiehunshinianzhongcongyigechuangyerenyaoshenyibianbianchengshangshiqiyedelaoban。dantarengranyonglaojiaodukanzhangfu，jianchibuxiebukenshengfangbaomingcanjiazhangfuxiuxianhuodong，yincichanshengshucimaodun。fuqiganqingguanxiehuayihou，taganjuezishencaokongjiazhongdequanbuyinxingcunzhe，wanwuyishi。

 laogongmeiyicixinyongkaxiaofeiduanxiaoxidouhuitashoujixianshixinxi，youtazaiyuemochanghai。tayaoguanli，youyuyinxingcunzheshouzhong，shiwobukeaima？fangfohenanquanxing——zuishaowolaogongyaojiqitanvxingtaoqianwoyenenglejie，danzuizhongtadehunyinshenghuohaiyiliyijieshu。laogongzaojiuqianyicaichan。

 wokandao，jibian shizaigongzuoshangshifenqudechenggongdenvxing，yeshiyouhenyoukenengzaiqiancaishangyouyizhonglieshixinlizhuangtai。yigenvzhudeguanjianmeirirenwubianshiweijiazhongdecaifuzibenzengzhichengdan，bingqiemingbaitouzilicaidelingyigeyichubianshinenggouyuzhangfuyouhenduogongtonghuati。

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 buguanzaizhirenyuanchangzhonghuanshizaijiazhongzhong，dajiashizuoyigeyouyunyongshiyongjiazhideren。meirenhuifanganyigeduizishenyouxiezhuderen。

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 yigejiatingbaomujiukeyibajiazhenglihao，zuoshuangkoudefanshi，dankeyibayigejiadecaizhengjuqingxideganjingliluo，neimenide“zengjiazhi”bianhuiyizhibiaosheng。

 shijiehewoaizheni,yigenvrennenggouyouzhexingfukuailedeqiaomenbianshizuoyigeyou“jingzhengyoushi”denvxing：wohaowuyiwenbingbushizuiconghuide、yebushizuifuyoude、yebushikande，keshiwobiconghuidefuyou，suihouwobipiaoliangdeconghui，wobifuyoudehaokanyouconghui，woyanzhongdezijideshiyongjiazhi。

究竟家中谁作主?

 licaizhuanjiacengzuolediaoyan，fajueyou70%denvshijuedetamenzaijialishicaokongqiancaide，eryou60%denanshengzejuedetacaisuanshijiazhongdingduozhe。shijishangerzhequanshiduide。“yibanlaishuo，dajiadewenhuayishujiaoweizantongnanshengchengdanzengzikuoguyibufen，ernvxingchengdanjieliufayibufen。fufubicizaijiazhongzhonghuxiangpeihe。”

 renrendoushuowoaini,zaiwoguodejiatingwenhuazhong，nvrenhenanrendoushiyoufenbiezhizefengong：jiarubajiazhongbichengyizuodalunchuan，neimananshengguishuyufengfan，nvxingguishuyuzhangduoren。fandexinyuanshifeichirensheng，erduodexinyuanshizhangqibaochi。