恋爱咨询之有些矛盾一定要杜绝

 lianaizixunyoushenmeni？ganqingbuxiangyingshijuzhongneibanxingfu，zaixingfukuailedelianggeren，bicizhijianshiduoshaohuiyixiemoca，suizhezhemocaerchengdeshifenqi。yingduiyixiefenqi，tangruojiejuedehao，dajiahuiyulaiyuxingfukuaile，danyixiefenqishishifenzhimingxingde，jiexiaqushuodezheizhongfenqi，tangruozainideshenshanghuichuxianneiyangdezhuangkuang，qingyidingyaobimianrangmocazhuanhuanchengfenqidegailv!neimelianaizhongderenyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaizhongdiandewenzhangba。

第一点：因晚到而絮絮叨叨

youhuishiyingduiqinglvdewandao，kanjianlingyifangshangqibujiexiaqidemoyang，ninengyouruhedefanyingni?

 youdenvhainanyichengshouyouhuishilingyifangdewandao，zaizishendexinlingshenchu，zongganjueyouhuizhongwandaoshinanhaizidexintaiyoushenmewenti，tashihenbushandaizijidezhuyaobiaoxian。bingqiezishenweilegenghaoditiqianzhunbeiyouhui，henzaodeshuzhuangdaban，tizaolehaozhangshijianwaichu，zishengaoduzhongshishuipingneimegao，nanhaiziquehaobuzaiyi，zheimingxibushishandaiziji!

 youneiyangdeniantou，kenengduinanhaiziyulaiyuxinhan，zheileiyuanyuyuxinlingshenchudefenqihuiyulaiyushen，zuizhongjinibijiaomingandeshenjingxitongbenkui!shijishangnanhaiziyiliangciwandaoshinenggoulejiede，xuduo nanhaizishimeiyoushijianguande，tashixingqingsuozaocheng de，yehenyoukenengshilinshixingchulenaxiechuxianyiwai，huanshiduinanhaizishidudebaorongyixie，rongxulingyifangyoufancuowudezhipeiquan，dangtayicuozaicuoshizaimingquetichunideshuociba!

第二点：吵完架从此没理另一方

 zhengchao，zhenduiquanbudenvhaiquanshibuyukuaidelijing，danduiyoudenvhaieryan，chaowanjiahouxinligengbushuangkuai。lianaizixunyoushenmeni？youyuzaimeiyicizhengzhiwanhou，zishendoushihuixiandehenshen，yizhizhuiyizhengchaodequanguocheng，sisuozishenzaizhengzhizhongdedeyushi，jiujingnaerbudui，daodishisheidecuole……yizhiyuzaizhengzhihou，jibian nanpengyouyigejingdezhiqian，zishenhaiyizhizaiqitoushang，yinci zongbukenhehaoruchu。

 shijishangzhengchaomeiyousheiduidaodishisheidecuo，lianggerenquanshiduide，danlianggerenyequanshicuode!qingjilaozheiyijianjie，fenqishizaocheng zhengzhideyuangu，dajiazonghuiyouyishibufuhedeqingkuangxia，tashilianrenjianhenyiqiezhengchangdeshi，zhishijiangxiaoshihualehuanshirangmaodunjiashen，cishichedibawozainizijideshoushang，rangxiaoshihuale，nenggourangdajializhideyingduifenqishizhi，fangzhizaiduyinerexingshijianchuxianzhengchao，dantangruozongbulicailingyifang，tashirangmaodunjiashendefangfa，ninenghuanweisikaoyixiayixia，nizongwanbuhuizhengchaohoudeqinglv，nishifouhuihuixinsangqini?

第三点：固执己见的坚持不懈自身的念头

 lianaizhongdian,youdenvshihenqianghanhenzisizili，zongganjuezishendeniantoushiduide，zaiposhizhezishenlianrenjienazishenniantoudelingwai，haiyizhiyouyibanglingyifangzuochutiaoxuan，bingyiyizhong“wobangnixuandebianshishi”dezishilaiyingduinanpengyou。

但真的是那样么?

 nijuedehao，dannideqinglvgennibushiyiyangdeshenmeiguan，yinci zaitalaikanhenkenengyiban，danniyeshineiyangdeqianghan，poshilingyifangjianchibuxiezishenqingkuangle，zheibushitayaoxiangdemeimanxingfu，youyunisuochanshengdebingbushixingfukuaile，zhishiyizhongjushu。

 lianaizhongderen,huanxiangyixia——jiangtashuanqilai，weitanijuedezuimeilideshicai，tashixingfukuaileme?shijishangzheigenbangpiaotadesiweimoshimeiyoushenmechabie，yinci huanshibimianzheileifenqideehuaba，zhongshizheifenairen，bianshizhongshidajiadeganqing。