爱的困惑有什么呢？什么时候男人会心甘情愿地当供养者？

 aidelilunyoushenmeni？youyigemmxinjianshuo，zishenfeishaonv，nanpengyouyeshuozishenmeiyoushaonvqingjie，danshizailianggerendejiaowangzhong，nanpengyouyoushihouyeyaoshuodao“sheijiaonimeibadiyicibangwo”zheileihua。mmjuedehenfannao，genwoshuozheidaibiaoshenmeyisi，yinggaizenmeban?neimeaidekunhuoyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidelijiedewenzhangba。

zuixian，dahuoernenggougouxiangyixia，yibanzaishenmeqingkuang，renyaojiangchu“sheijiaoni……”neiyangdehua?

ziranshiganjuezishenbeixianqihezeguaideqingkuangxia。

 jinyoudangaduibbiaomingchukanbushang，bweilegenghaodixiefendehehaiji，zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，bcaihuijiangchu“sheijiaoni……”neiyangdehua。buyanzimingbianshi，youyunibutaihao，yinci .woneiyangduini。

 henxianeryijian，xinjianmmdenanpengyougesanchawuduitajiangchu“sheijiaonimeibadiyicibangwo”neiyangdehua，henkenengbianshiyouyunvhaierzaipingshijiaowangzhongchangchangzhuyaobiaoxianchukanbushangnanpengyoudexintai，erkanbushangjiudaibiaozhebumanyi，congshizhishangeryan，yejiubiaomingzheiyimmhenkenengshiyizhaogongyangzhedexinlizhuangtaizaikandainanpengyou。

 weishenmeshuozheiyimmshiyizhaogongyangzhedexinlizhuangtaizaikandainanpengyouni?nvhaimennenggouxiangxiangyixia，ruguonizhenxinshiyiyouqixiaiyigenanshengdeqingkuangxia，lirunidegaolengnanshen，buguantajiniganshenme，nidoushihuijuedehenkaolv。taduinideyiqietouru，nidoushihuiganjueshiyiwaidejingxi，aidelilunyoushenmeni？niqinpeita、zhiaita，duitajueduibuhuiyouyisiyihaoxianqideyisi。zainineiyangdexintaixia，tayekendingbutaikenengduinijiangchu“sheijiaoni……”neiyangdehualai。

 yiner，wojuedegaozhidahuoerdeshi，nvrenjibian zhendeshiyaozhaogongyangzhe，yeyidingbukeyitaixianzhudizhuyaobiaoxianchuqu。ruguonijifeishaonv，youbeilingyifangfajuenishizaiyigongyangzhefangshiliangzhezhijianjiaowangdehua，nibidinghuizaoshouhenbutaihaodekandai。

 aidelijie,neima，shenmeqingkuangnvrennenggouzhengdaguangmingdibalingyifangdanggongyangzhekandaini?zheiyouzuixinxiandeshili：dahuoernenggoukanyixiawomenbabamamaneiyibeiren，xuduo muqindepudouhengao，xinggeqiangshi、xingzicha、aixutao、maiyuanchixu、kanbushangzishenlaogongbuqinfendeng，keshiweihefuqinmendounengren，bingqietamendeguanlianhaihenjiangu，daduoshuyemeiyouliyini?

 zuixian，zaibabamamaneishihou，shiyigerichangshenghuoguangfandoujiaoweijianxindeshidai，pinfuxuanshubingbuda，renherenzhijianhuxiangmangmupanbidezhuangkuangfeichangshao。erneishihoudepeihun，shuangfangdaduoshushizhuigangxiangyu，lianaiziyoudexiangduilaishuoyejiaoweishao(huanjuhuashuojinguannanxingshigongyangzhe，dannvxingdoumeiyoulianrenxuanzexiangkexuan)。cizhi，haiyouyigezuizhongyaodeyuangubianshi，shangyidaidenvrenjichuquanshiyishaonvshenjiarende。zaibabamamaliangrenronghezhichu，nvxingdepushihendide，eryihouzaijiaowangdequanguochengjifazhanqushizhong，nvrendoumeiyouzaoshouguoduodeyixingpengyouyingxiang。nanrenduishaonvzuo，youqishizaiguangfanquanshishaonvzuodeshidai，shibuzaiyizuoyigegongyangzhede，yinerzaibabamamazheibeidehunyinshenghuozhong，daduoshuquanshiguishuyushaonvzuo+gongyangzhefangshi。

 ergandaorujindeshehui，zaitanlianaisuiyidekuansonghuanjingxia，dangnvrenfeishaonv，haibalingyifangdanggongyangzhe，zheileizhuangkuangkenengfeichangfengxian，shifeichangrongyizaoshouduifude，chufeishinvxingdemvshifengao。jiurutongnanrenquxiangmutouzi，zheiyinvrenjibukeyiweizijichanshengjuedeyingli(zishendenvrennianqingpiaolianghuoshijiashiyouyi)，yebukeyirangzishendebenqianwusunhai(neng100%dijizijishengyunzisunhoudai)，neimananrenyidinghuichexiaozishendexiangmutouzi。

 zuizhong，aidekunhuo,zaidugaojiedahuoeryiju，yaozhenxinshiyiganxielingyifangjinizuochudeyiqie，yaoshiduxiangnanrenchengxianshangxi、qinpei、haowuyiwenhejili，bubiliulukanbushang、bumanyidexintailai，qianwanbieranglingyifangjuededaonishizaizhaogongyangzhe。buran，niyejiuhuixiangxinjiandezheiyimmyiyang，jiusuanyumeiyoushaonvqingjiedenanrenzaiyiqi，lingyifangyehuigesanchawubanlizheiyijianshierlaihaijini，jiniganga，rangdajiadeguanlianmaixiangqiongtumolu。