爱的困惑有什么呢？婚后家庭关系

 aidelilunyoushenmeni？nixianjieduanzhishenxxingti，zheiyixingtihediqiushangjichuwanquanyizhi，weiyouyidianbuyiyang：zheiyixingtiderenqunzhongdayue30%shangxiademeishaonvyouyigebutaihaodezuofa，bianshihuichenrenmenshengchanzhizaoshibuzhuyi，tundiaorenmendebaobao，suihouyonghenduandeshijianxunsuzhangchuyigetazishendexiaohai，qiaoqiaogenghuannidehaizi(nenggoubatamenxiangxiangchengdujuanniao，fensuinidedan，nengshenggezishendedan)。rujinnihuaiyunshengchan，yaoxuanzeyigemeishaonvruguonidezhuchanzhuanyeshi(nimeifaduziyirenshengchanzhizao)，liuyijigefangmian：neimeaidekunhuoyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidelijiedewenzhangba。

1.buguanlingyifangduomedegaomvdoushiyouhenyoukenenghuitundiaoxiaohai，youyutamenbingbushirenmen。

2.xiangbitamenzishendexiaohai，nidehaiziyuechayuefeichangrongyibeitundiao。

3.niwubiqingzheiyixingtidemeishaonverbushinanrenhuoshirenleidangzhuchanzhuanyeshi。

tichuwenti：nijiangruhexuanzemeishaonv，liru，xingqing、xiangmao，nirenweinazhongshao

女决不能要?

rujinnixiabulechuang，depaiqiannidezhangfubangnizhaoyigemeishaonv，nikenengshitaqunazhao?

wohaizaiweiboshanghulvezheiyiganqingshijuan，soujileyixiefeichanghaodehuiying：

 “wuxudongweirenchushi，gengwuxutaichun，yinci yaonianlingxiao。aidelilunyoushenmeni？xiantianxingtiruoduobingdoubuhaokan(ruguoyinweihoutianxingyuanguzefeichangrongyixincunduji)，jiatingguanxiyaojiaoweihexie，danyewuxufuyou。danqiehaodiaoshi，youchuanwentunguobaobaodedouyilvbubi，mvgaodebubi”

 “bukaolvdaode：nvdiaosi、loser(shujia)、qingganbuxingzhe、chushengbutaihaozhe、mvxiaoyuwolaogongzhe。nenggoukaolvdaode：chushengxingfukuaile、qingganxingfukuaile、yonghupingjiahao、mvgaoguowonanrenzhe。yaotazijixuanjiuyaochuzhongzhaoneileiqinfenhaoxue、jiashihao、babamamaqingganhaodexiaoguniang……”

xiabianwohedahuoershenrufenxiyixiazheiyiganqingshijuan：

 nishinvren，danmeiyouzhuchanzhuanyeshi，niyejiumeifashengyun;zheiyizhuchanzhuanyeshininanyishenrulejie，yebushinishenbianderen;tamenyou30%dehenyoukenengdiaobaodiaonidebaobao，zheiyibeidiaobaodebaobaohaideniyang;bukeyirangtaxiyinzhunizhangfu。yinci ，zheigewentishuodebianshijiapoxuanxifuerdefangzhenmoniqingjing。

 aidelijie,meiyouxifuerniyejiumeiyousunbei。niyutameiyouzhangqixinggoutongjiaoliu，danhuoxuyouliyishusong，qieyouxiezuobixu。tachedihenyoukenengpanbiannidedaerzizhangchuqitananrendexiaohai(zheiyi30%woshedingdejiaogao，guojixingaboxuexingkexueyanjiuanshizhedefeiqinshengfumulvdayuetiejin20%，yibanlaishuo10%shihenpubiancunzai)，bukeyirangtaweixiedaoniyizhizaidaerzixinlideyingxiangli。

rujin，daojinqukanyixiadahuoerhuiyingwodehuiying，jiapojiujingyaoxiangnaxiedexifuer?

douxianghulejie、menbudanghubuduide——“zhaobiederenmenfuqixiangxijieshao”、“tiaoxuanpenyouqianglietuijiande”。

bijiapoyaocha，yejiushibinanxingbiaozhunshaodi——“xiangduilaishuowomendehaiziduitaeryanbianshiyou”。

bingbushibiaozhunyuegaoyuehuobao，biaozhunhaoyehenyoukenengbeipopokanbushang——“meimaozuitian，kanshangquhuikengrendebubi”。

 wohaizai《bienananrenbudangdongwu》libianshuoguo：chushehuifazhandisanniangangkaishiyixingpengyoujiushaole——“nianlingxiao、xiaoyuanlide”。

danqinjiatingshizhaoduixiangquedian——“jiatingguanxibuxingfukuailedebubi”。

 yuepiaoliangpuyuegao，yuefeichangrongyiwufakongzhi——“youqichouhuoqiong”、“bixugenjujiwozhuchanzhuanyeerhuodeshicaicunhuode”。

 aidekunhuo,biaoxinliyi，duijiapoxintaihenqiangshidenvhaimenyaoliang——“benshengongzuonenglijiaoweiqiang，duidajiajidequanyiyaoqiuhendidebubi，zhendeburongyishoufu、henpannidebubi”。