如何恋爱?怎样理解男人与女人的本质不同

 shilianaima？qianqianheyuershidaxuetongxue，liangrenyouyudasihuajushedebiaoyanerlaidaoyiqi，suanqilaizaoyidaxuebiye2nian、tanlianaisannian、tongjushenghuoyinianle，zaixiaomeilideneixin，wanhunyijingshishunlichengzhangdeshier，danshenpangdehaoguimimenyigegepizhehunsha，yuerqueduiwanhunzhizibuti。neimeqidailianaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanruhelianaidewenzhangba。

youyici，qianqianbujingyishangshuo：“dajia2020nianqulingjiehunzhengbei。”yuerxiangyemeixiangjiujujuele。

cike，qianqianjuedeshenshendidecuozhe，weihe?weiheyuerxiangdehewojuededebuyiyang?

qianqiananweiziji，huoxutajinjingongzuozhongbuchenggong。yincimeiyouzaiti。

qianqianmeixiangdaodeshi，tamenzaitasanshisuideqingkuangxiafenshou。

 xuduo nvhaiertanlianaibuchenggongdeyuangu，qujueyumeiyouhuanweisikaoyixia。tamenzongganjue，lianaizhongdenanren，yingdangxiangtamenyiyang，aishanglejiuyongyou shenshendideyikao，wangwangbixuxingshiyouyuaidetaishen，fashengguanxiyihoubianhuibunengziba，qingdaoshenchubianhuikaolvdaohunyinshenghuo。

 shishishang，tanlianai、xinghehunyinshenghuozhenduinanhaihenvhailaijiang，shichedibuyiyangde。shilianaima？jiufangfoyiyangquanshiyaoweiba，zhenduimaolaijiangshiweixie，zhenduigoulaijiangshitaojinhu。nanrenhenvrenshijiongranbutongdexiaodongwu，yizhiyuniwanquanjiubunengyongyiyangdefangfalailuojituilinanshidegerenxingweihexinlizhuangtai。

neima，yingdangzenmelijielingyifang，conglingyifangdeshijiaosisuo，jinerhuodeniyaoxiangdejieguoni?

shiwomenxianlaixiangyixiang，nanrenhenvrenzhongjianjiaoda dechabieshisha?

nanrenbunengzijishengyunzisunhoudai，zhishibixunvxinglaibangtachanxiazisunhoudai。

 lingwai，renmendebaobaoshifenmingan，tabixushiwunianzhishangdeyouzhangfuyangcaikeyichengnianren，zheibidabufenxiaodongwuyongshibixuzhang。renmenbujinyaoshengyun，haibixufuyang，yaoshimeiyoufuyang，xiaohaihenyoukenengzaoyiyaowangle，burongyihaiyousunbei。yinci bixuquanbujiazhongqixinhelicaikeyibaxiaohaiyangyuchengnianren，zhizhitamenwanhunzaizaoxiaxiaohai。

 zheijiushirenmenfuqiguanxideshizhi。xiaohaizhiyouyounvshishengyun，youzheibannanyangyu，nanrenhenvrencongcidiyuehetong：nibangwoshengxiaohai，woheniyiqiyangwodehaizi。zheiyidian，wonengzaihoumianshijijiangdao。

 hunyinshenghuodaibiaozhecihouluoxiaweimu，yaogangkaishiyiduanyoufalvfaguiguanshudeguanlian。erfalvfaguiyueshuzeshidajiazaizhangqixingdeboyiquanguochengzhong，dadaodexieyue。zheiyixieyuedaibiaozhedahuoerbixuchongfenkaolvbierendequanyi，guanshuzishendebennengfanying。

 neima，nanrenhenvrenbixufenbieguanshudebennengfanyingshisha?xiaohaishinvrenshengde，tashidetiaoxuanbianshixunzhaoyigegaopinzhidenanxingjingzifuwutigongzhe(lianren)，heyigefuyoudefadingjianhuren(gongfengzhe)。

 nanrendebennengfanyingshisha?jiranjinyounvxingnengshengxiaohai，neimaruguonengduohehaoduogenvxingfashengxingguanxi，jianzhinenggouliuyoudaliangzisunhoudai?wanyinayigenvxingdandubaxiaohaiyangyuchengnianrenle，neibujiuzhuandalemeiyou?yinci nanrendezongtimubiaoshijinkenengduodizhuixunxing，erjinkenengbubifuwuchengnuohunyinshenghuo，huoshijinkenengwanfuwuchengnuohunyinshenghuo——youyuhunyinshenghuodaibiaozheyaofuwuchengnuozhuanyi，jiangdilehuodexiaohaidegailv。

 hunyinshenghuoduinvxinglaijiangyouweihugongxiao，zheidaibiaozhetanenghuodezisunhoudaifuyang，erdanchunxingdexingzeyaoburan，nenggouyongyuhuhuangengqiangdeshengzhixitongziyuan。yinci ruguonvrenbubihunyinshenghuo、zhitouruxing，jiuyizhixiangyaoyidianerqitanaxieshouyi，lirugaopinzhidejiyinyichuan、qiancaiyingxianglideng。

 ruhelianaini？ernvrendebenneng，bianshishuobailede“dongshixisu”，yaoxiangzaifuyoubierenchi(huodegongfengzhedeyangyuziyuan)，youyaoxianghejunxiunanrenshui(heqingrenshengdaoluxiaohaidedao gaopinzhiyichuanjiyin)，zheiyidexingshiyoulaiyijiude。

 daoci，shierbeitilianchudefeichangjiandanle：nanrenduihunyinshenghuodexintai，rutongnvxingxingxuqiudexintai;erxiangfanyeyiyang，nanrenxingxuqiudexintai，rutongnvxingduihunyinshenghuodexintai。

lejielezheiyidian，niyejiunenggouyirufanzhangdimoqingnanrendesixule。

 liru，nanrenhenvrenfashengxingxingweibingbuyidingshiyouyuaita，huoxushichuziyubiedemudi;jiufangfonvxingjiageiyigenanrenbingbuyidingshiyouyuaita，huoxushichuziyubiedemudi。

 liru，nanrenshenaizheyigenvren，huibennengfanyingdixiangyaojitahunyinshenghuo;rutongnvxingshenaizheyigenanren，huibennengfanyingdixiangyaohetayouxingxingweiyiyang。

liru，yaoxianghuodenanrendehunyinshenghuo，nvxingyingdangzaixingshangzhuyaobiaoxianchu(hetazhenduihunyinshenghuoyiyangde)shenzhongdexintai。

 liru，qidailianai,nanrenyaoxianghuodexing，jiudezhuyaobiaoxianchubudichuheyanqianzheiyinvxingtaruhunyinshenghuo;ernvrenyaoxianghuodehunyinshenghuo，jiudezhuyaobiaoxianchubudichuheyanqianzheiyinanrenyouzhehunyinguanxi。