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 shilianaima？“womendoushiyileiren，dajiajiazhiguannianleisi，keshibianshiyouyutaixiangle，dajialaozhengchao。womenshiguzhideren。”neimeqidailianaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanruhelianaidewenzhangba。

“shijishangwoyexiangzhaogeduixiang，tanenggennihenhaodigoutongjiaoliu。”

 yeshiyouguangoutongjiaoliudenanti。xingzhifajue，youguanlianrenhuofufugoutongjiaoliudedaxuewen，shiyimenfeichangzhidezhongshengxuexidekechengneirong。

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qin，wojuedejiaogoutongjiaoliu，zheichengweisixianggongzuo!

 zaiganqinghuoshihunyinshenghuozhong，yifangjingchangganjue：wobiaoshuchuchengxinle，qingnigaosuwoshininizongyaomiaoshuyixiaduizheiyijianshierdeguandian，shilianaima？zheicaisuanshigoutongjiaoliu。nibushuo，bianshibugoutongjiaoliu。

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