爱都是对的,沟通的质量不在于一个人说了多少

 aidexiangyuyoushenmani？yibaneryangoutongjiaoliudegongzuojingyanshiwoyixiajigefangmian。neimeaidoushiduideyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaikuderendewenzhangba。

1、运用小表情和身体语言

 shuozhenhuawohaizailiangxingguanxili，duiduanxiaoxia，xianliaoahuoshidianhuaahaizhendeneimashanzhang——jiaruwofaxianlewoxiangpaoyigenanren，zaichunxianliaodeqingkuangxiawonengjiaolvbuande;jiaruwofaxianleyigenanrenyaopaowo，neimaxianliaodeqingkuangxiawoyouhuixinfan。hepenyouxianliaodaoburongyi--youyukaikuotiankongdounengshuola~ai，cankui--

 keshishijiligoutongjiaoliuwobuxinlijinzhangle，zongganjueba，nanrenyoushiyagenbuzaiyinijuededeneirong，yaoshitaganjuenijianghuadefangfataorenxihuanhuoshipiaoliang，tajiudangranyuanyilenideneirong。(nanrenzhenqiguaia。。。)huangejiaodulaikan，aidexiangyuyoushenmani？jiusuantarenkenijuededeyouxiedaoli，danjiarunidexintaishitananshou，tabianhuimobuzuoshenghuoshixincunjiedi。

 jiaoweiwaidazhengzhedeshi，shenpangdenanshipengyouyibandouganjuelejielezhihoumeibiyaoguoduodejianjiexinggoutongjiaoliu，zaishejiaoruanjianshangyoushihoudadanaonaoshifeichanghaode，keshizongyouxienvshengxiaiyingjinanrenxiazhibiaozhi，lirumeiribixuxianliao，zaimanghaiyaowenhaozheileide。zheileiqiantitiaojianhaitingfeichangrongyizaochengqingchunqipannide，jiweijmsliuyi。jianjiexingxianliaoqueshishiyigetaiwufacaozongfenweidezhuanyonggongjule，yinci huanshiquangaodahuoerbubiyikaozhuanyonggongju，nengpengmianqingkuangxiaduopengmian，youshixiaofuqishejiaoruanjianshangduqi，chaoledabantianhaibibushangyiwenjieqianchoulie。

2、适度缄默

 zaijianghuadeqingkuangxia，yaoliuyishengyinsuduchihuanhejianmodeyingyong，yijidongjiubalabalajiangguoyidatong，zaiguanlianhaodeqingkuangxiashifeichanghaola，keshizaiwendingxingnaizhilengdanqijiushiliaobujile。jianghuadeqingkuangxiayaoliuyilingyifangdefanying，goutongjiaoliuyibaneryan，quanshinijuedechulailingyifangyoufanyinghou，zaishuoxiayitong。

 aikuderen,shidujianmozaizhiqiandeqingkuangxiayehenhaoyongde，yixiemmfancuoshier，nanpengyoushengqi，jiulikebalabalahenzhejiditongdianhuahuoshifaxinxishuo，duibuqi，xiayicizaiyebunengle，nibieshengqiabieshengqia……suihoukanmeifanyinggenghuangle，zhiqiandegenggaopin，naxiechuqutanyitana，naxiexiayiciburongyila，suihounanrenehenhenlaiyiju，zhihouzaishuoba。。。dahuoermente。

 wobenrenlejiezhiqianyidingyaodangzhongzhiqian，dangdajiapengmiandeqingkuangxia，jiusuanfenweihaihenleng，niyenenggougangkaishinidezhiqianzhixing。jianmanshengyinsudu，guoduanbuyaoshuobaoqian，jinyonghanqingmaimaidishuoyijuhua，suihouchuoqidishuobuxiaqu——a，yibaneryandoumanyouxiaode。shidaizhuleizhuyangzhuangxiusedishuo，xiayici……haowuyiwenburongyile。

ai，zan!woyoushiqueshihenxihuanlaineiyangyichu0v0

3、不必过多讲理

 aidoushiduide,nanrenhenvren，youshimeiyoudadaolikejiang。nanrenzuocuoshi，bubilizaishehuidaodezhigaodianshangbalabalajiangyiduidadaoli，yaoshibatarangzishennanshoudekeguanshishiqiangdiaolai，suihoujuejuezui，dengyiyan，huoshijingjingdipaokai。takuijiu，tadangranhuilaiyueni;tabukuijiu，nizaijianglitayezongshipanni。yaojianxindadaolimeigerendoudong，jinjinyoushibukaixinzuobale。jitamendianshijianhekongjian，tadangranhuizuode。