爱上怎样的人？女生第一次见家长攻略

 aishitiande，shijishangshuangfangfumujianmianzheijianshiqingshigeshuodayedashuoxiao，danxiaodeshi，jiaruqueshiyouyushuangfangfumujianmianzheishizuizhongliangrenbaile，neizhiyoubiaoming2genanti：diyi，nideqingshangzhishangqueshilingrenzhuakuang。dier，nanyoujiarenbutongyi。nvhaizijianbabamamadehuayidinghuidanyoutajiarenhuizairuhexianga，shifouyuanyia，aibuaiwozheileidenantizishenkunao，gengyixiexiangshierduodemeizihaihuijixuxiangqipoxiguanxinantiabalabalade。neimeaishangzenyangderenyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishiliudongdedewenzhangba。

 shijishangshuangfangfumujianmianzheishi，womenyaoliangkan，diyini，rangnanyoujiarenkankani，neixinyoushuliang，zhongjiunanpengyoudemamashidajiajiaoda dedisanzheme。cizhi，niyenenggouchenjikanyixiananyoujiazhongdeqingkuang，kanyixiatamenjiashibushihemua，jiazhongshizhunjiapolaidinghuanshijiagong，jiazhongfenweiruheazheixie，jiarudiaochachunanti，jianjuechuliyeshihenhaode。xianhuabuduoshuo，huizongxiaworichangshenghuoyouguanshuangfangfumujianmiandegonglvedaquan。

 shuangfangfumujianmianni，buyidingshiyidingyaojielehuncaijiande，jiusuanshizailianaizhongyeshinenggouqushuangfangfumujianmiande。zheishuominglenidelingyibanduiniderenkejiqiqidaigennichijiufazhanqushidexinyuan。cengjingdewotingguoyigenanhaiershuoyizhimeiyoushenmeyongqidainvyouhuijiale，taganjuehenkepa。aishitiande，yinci nidelingyibanxiangpeinishuangfangfumujianmian，neimameizimen，touxiaoba，haha。xiaoguoyihoujiuxuyaogangkaishitiqianzhunbeile。

wojiangquanbuquanguochengfenchengsangehuanjie：shixian、shizhongheguohousanyibufen。

一、事先：双方父母见面前的准备工作要做好

知彼知己百战不殆

 zailejieyaoquhou，zuixianzuohaoxinxishoujidegongzuozhong。wenyiwentamenjiafumudeyixieaihaoa，pingchangdexingquaihaoanaxiede，zheizhongyidingyaowenqingxi。yifangmian，bianjietiqianzhunbeijilingyifangbabamamadelipin。lingyifangmian，nenggouhenkekaodegenlaorenmenxianliao。danshi，zheimeiyouzheimejiandan，shigenanpengyoujiugehuigennishuo，wobuzhidaoyaoyongshenme。fangxin，wofumurenfeichanghaode。

yibandehuihuashineiyangde：

nv：qujialimaidianershenmeya?nimamaxiaishenmeya?

nan：wobuzhidao，nizijinazhuyiba

nv：hufupin?nimamayongnazhongde?

男：不清楚……

 zongzhi，bianshinanyouyibanshiburongyirangnishihedetiyide。youyudajiadeguandianshibuyiyang，tahuilaijinjinhuijiale，fumushizishendejiaren，erwomendoushiqujianbieren，lizudiandoubuyiyangxiangnantideshijiaoyidingmeifatongyang。yiner，jiarunidenanyounengrangnikekaodetiyi，neimewozhuhenileya。jiarubukeyi，womenhaiyaoziligengsheng。

 (1)wenqingxilingyifangbabamamadegangwei、jiazhongqingkuang(tuijuerxianlemeiyou)、xingquaihao、jiazhongdouyoushenmerena。ciciqupengmiandouyounaxierenazheixie。

 (2)wenyiwenlingyifangjiazhongyounaxiejiatingliyibixuzunxuna。liruyoudediquyongcanshiwubiyaoduanzhewanchi，youdediquyongcankendingbukeyibawanduanqilaizheixie，zheizhongfengsuxiguantinglingsuide，yehenzhongyaoa，taidujuedingyiqiea。

 (3)qulingyifangjiayidingyaozhunbeichongfenlipin。quanjiemeizimen，qianwanbietushouqu，yidingbubi。suirantushoulingyifangburongyishuoxieshenme，keshiqueshiconglijieshangjiangqueshibutaihao。

 yibannidaizhuwupinqu，lingyifanghuigenniketaoketao：aiyo，laichigefanhaidaishenmeya。xiayicilaijiububidaile……aiyo，zheiduoguoyibuqua……

 yibandoushihuineiyang，kandaole“xiayici”me，jiarunimeidaiwupinqu，neimaliantingjianzheijuhuadejiyudoubeinidiule，duoyihana。

(4)youguanlipindetiaoxuan：

 ①shuiguo。biaozhunbushimaizheixietaisude，maimeiweipiaoliangde，youbuguozhongde。xinxianshuiguoshidiyicijianmianzuituodangdetiaoxuan，jiushininabudingyaomaishenmedeshihou，huoshicicipengmianshijiatingxingde，neimamaishuguoburongyizhenhan，danjuebubulimao。

 ②baojianchanpinlei。zheizhongyeshisonglaorenhenfeichanghaodetiaoxuan，yibanwonengmaiertonggaipian、weitaminghuoshidanbaizhifenzheileidebaojianchanpinzuoweidiyicijianmiandejianmianli，fenbuqingnanhaihenvhaidounenggouyong，haikeyibalingyifangdezhangbeiyesongzhi，jianyiyouhaoyong。

③shipinxingye。zheileidehuashinenggenteshudechuantongjierilianluoqilai，liruzhongqiujiajie，songgezhongqiuyuebinganaxiede。

 ④tutechanlei。tashihenzhijieledangdeyileilipin，liruwonengmaidianerzhenzhumo、haitandetutechansongyiwang，daqiyounadexiashou，bianshuoshitutechanranglingyifangqiangxian。

 ⑤biede。aishiliudongde,lirujilingyifangmuqinnenggoumaihufuchanpin、yifukuzi、bao、danxiangshuinaxiede。jilingyifangbabadehuaxuangouchaye、yishupinzheileide(wobuzenmehuijinanhaizigouwu，youqishilaoren，zheiyiyinweiwozaixuexipeixunhehuizongzhongni)。

(5)xingxiangqizhiyingzao。

 zheiyiyeshibixushixianhaohaodixianghaode。shijishanghenduorendoulejieyaodedangdaqi，jianyihuazhuang、ziranzhuangjiukeyi。keshishijidehua，womenjianyishishejifenggeshangnenggouyijubenrenqichangkaizhantiaoxuan，dannenggouzaifuzhuangdeyanseshangwangpiannuandesecaishangkao、jianyideshejifenggejiuxing。zhuangmiandehuaziranzhuangjiukeyile，guifanbianshilingrenkanjianshushijiuxing，wuxuyouyipaizhaopose。

二、事中：眼观六路，耳听八方

shixiandequdechenggongjiuxiangdangyushuangfangfumujianmianchenggongleyiban，lingyibanjiuxuyaonulizaixianchangdecaokongle。

 doushuomuqinjiushinijiaoda dedisanzhe，zheijuhuawoyouqirenke。quanbudemamazaijiannvyoudeqingkuangxianeixindoushihuiyouyigeyihuo，tanengyijianshidaerzihaome?

aishangzenyangderen？yiner，nizuoquanbushierbixujinjinweiraozhezheijuhualai，yongxingdongheyuyanduitashuodemuqin，neng。