爱的语言有什么呢？冲突的处理

 aideyuyanyoushenmeni？nannvguanxili，butaikenengmeiyoumaodun，yifangmianwojianyizaiweizijiyigereshishengfeiqi，bianshiwojiangdedabanniandaoyiniandeshijianfanweili，xianlveweizhangwoxiazishenhelingyifangduimaodunjiejuedegongzuonengli。zheixiezhenshidemaodun，wochushihaoduogetiyi。neimeaideyonghengyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaideyishudewenzhangba。

1、有理有据，并由自身取出可实行的解决计划方案

jiaruniyouyunanyouxiyan，yebuguisu，huoshidaoshangkanguoqitammyiyanerfahuo，neimadajiayingdangzhitantaozheiyijianshier。

 yixiemmzhengchao，feichangrongyideliburaoren，juedenanrengaibudiaozheiyiquexianbianshibushandaiziji——cangtiana，sheidoushiyouquexian。huoshibianshifanchujiriqianhuoshijigeyueqianhuoshiliangnianqiandechenbaizhimalandaoguzaizeguaiyibian，zuizhongnanrenqingchunqipannishangqule，maodunmeiyouchuli，fandaoyibaoqi。

 youliyoujuhenzhongyao，yingdangqueliderangnanrenlejie，woshiyouyunizheiyicidegerenxingweishengqile，erqiezishenmingquetichukeshixingdejihuafangan。shenmeshikeshixingni，bianshijianyiyicijiukeyibaozhengde，lirujiarunidejiejuefangfashi，zhihouyidingyaohaohaodiguanaiwo!zheiyibianshibunengshixingde。aideyuyanyoushenmeni？yousheilaijiedinghaohaodiguanaidedingyini?yeyouchangchangyouxieshizhihounikendingbunengzaixiyanle……shijishangsheidoulejiexiyannaerneimafeichangrongyijiechu。

 hebubajiejuefangfagaiweimaiyigejingmeilipina，chiyidunmeiweidea，huoshiguoduanqiyicimalaixiyaa——suihoujiujiwangbujiu。

2、尽量减少一头雾水的冷暴力

 yixiemm，youbugaoxingbuxihuanshuo，jingjingdishengqile。nanrenhaimeiyougaoqingchushizenmehuishi，nvxingzaoyibanantixiangdehenyanzhongle。shijishang，tijianyideqingkuangxiahebuyoudianeryoumofengqu，lirutajujuelenideyouhui，niyejiuqingqingsongsongdisongsongjianjianghaoba，wobuhuiyueniluo~suihouzishenquzuoqitashier。jiarutazaishuoyueni，yebubimeilibieren，zhishiyongjixiaodeyuqijixiaoyifan，huoshishidudihuijuediaotadetiyi。zongeryanzhiyishengbuhanghuirangnanrenmeifazhangwonidefencungan，rangshiermeifachuli。

3、气头上能够理智的离开

 aideyongheng，yifanchunqiangshejian，zishenyechajuezijidehuajiejiebabale。zheigeshihouyingdangjiandingbuyidishuo，baoqian，woxianglizhiyixia。guojitianzaishuoyueni。yongshijianhekongjianrangzishenxiangqingxishihenbixude，danyinweitashiyicibuyukuaidefenli，yinci fenliqianyidingyaolizhidifuwuchengnuo，yifangzaibajushigaobijiaoyanzhong，rangbicixiabuketai。

4、蛮不讲理要及时止损

 youshizhendeshixiangnaoyinao，neiyoushihoujiunaoba，dannaowanyidingyaotaorenxihuan，yaorenkezishendebuzhengquehehaiziqi，yaobaozheng burongyiduanshijianyouxiayici。xiaochaoyiqingyangxing~keshishoubushangtaijiubutaihaoluo。

 aideyishuyoushenmeni？maodunyanqian，nixuyaojianxin，yiqie，quanshinenggougenjugoutongjiaoliulaichulide。bingqieyidingyaolejiezishenjiaoshedeguiding，yaobaozheng zishensuoqidaihuodedeshi“nenggoushixing、nenggoucaozongdeduanqineizongtimubiao”，bubiqitugenjuyicijiaoshelaibaozheng yishengdexingfukuaile，neiyangzongshiweizijidaozhigongzuoyali，jiguanliantanchuliefeng。