感情问题:想建立长期的恋爱关系？

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谈恋爱技巧一：心态和心理状态很重要

 zhenzhengdeaiqingrenshijianmeihaoshiwu，zaiganqingzhongchenzuiyudeni，shiyinganqingdexingfuermanmanmishifangxiang，zhixiwangzheganqingkeyishizhongheshizishenni?huanshizaiganqingzhongyuelaiyuegengjiaqiangjing，rangzishengengheshizheiyiduanganqingni?

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谈恋爱技巧二：创建充足的沟通交流，是确保感情平稳的基本

 richangshenghuomianbulegoutongjiaoliu，ganqingzhongdegoutongjizhigengbukeyishao，ziranzaidajiazhongjianbuyinggaizhishicunyouzheyuyanshangdegoutongjiaoliu，lingwaihaibixuyouchongzuduodegoutongjiaoliu。

 ganqingdehemubukeyiquefagoutongjiaoliu，neiyangcaikeyifangzhiyouyuxianghuxingqingshangdechabiedaozhidewuhuinaizhicaiji，tashiweihaiganqingdedahuan!yinci ，zaipingchangliyidingyaozhongshigoutongjiaoliu，duogoutongjiaoliuduogoutongjiaoliucaikeyiquebaodajiaganqingguanlianzhangqixingpingwendefazhanqushi。

谈恋爱技巧三：学好守候

 ganqingzhenxiangyoushenma？shouhouzheigecikanqilaifeichangjiandan，henyoukenengzaiguanjianzishanglaikanjinjinlianggerenzaiyiqijiaowang，shuoshuohuachifanjiukeyile，danzheiyezhibuguoshibiaocengshangbale。

 shouhouyougengduofangmiandehanyi，zheizhuyaoshineixinshangdesuitong，dajiashibushiyouchongzudexinyoulingxi?zaijiaowangzhongkandaishiqingdeguandiankefouqiehexianghuni?shijishangniliyinggengzhongshizaidajiajiaowangzhongguanxinzheizhongfangmian，shidudeshouhoulingyifang，peizainishenbiandenanpengyouzuoxietahenganxingqudeshier，zaizuodaoxianghuhuanledelingwairangxianghudexinligengweiqiehexianghu。

 chucizhiwaipingshideshouhouhaowuyiwenhuirangxianghujuedekuzao，zongjinjinweiraozhechaimiyouyanjiangcuchazhuan，neidangranhuijuederichangshenghuohenkuzaofawei，weishenmebubaituoneiyangyichengbubianderichangshenghuoni?chulaizhuanzhuanba，zuoxiedajiahenxianggandanyizhimeizhaodaoshijianzuodeshi!huoshizhaoyigediquyiqilvxingba!zaixinxiandeziranhuanjingzhongdajiahaowuyiwennengzaicixunzhaorichangshenghuodereqing。

谈恋爱技巧四：别随便说提出分手

 xiangchuangjianzhangqixingdelianaiguanxi，youyidianshiyidingyaoquebaode，neibianshikongzhunanpengyoukandaiganqingdexin。zheijiudaibiaozheyixieduiganqingbuhaodeyujubuyaoshuo，lirusuibiandejiangchutichufenshou。

 ganqingwentizaixianzixun,youdenvhaizaizhengchaodeshihouhuihenshangbian，yizhiyulaoyong“neiguoduansanleba”neiyangdehualaisaizhulingyifang，yici2cihenyoukenenghenjianxiao，danzonghuiyouneiyangdegerenxingweinanhaizidangranhuiganjuenixinlijiushizheiyangxiang，yincihuigangkaishiyanfan，naizhizaochengsheqizheiyiduanganqingdesixu，tashichuangjianzhangqixingguanliandejiaoda duishou。