爱情分析之让他越来越欣赏你的好

 aiqinggushiwenzhangyounaxieni？dangwomenwufayingduixianghuzhenzhengdechabiedeqingkuangxia，jiuyeyouciwaiyigetiaoxuan，neibianshizhaoxun“disanzhe”。liru，nvxingdedisanzhebianshixiaohai，nanshengdedisanzhetongchangbianshigongzuozhong。tashishehuifazhanguangfanjienade“disanzhe”。danshijishangbenzhishanghe“disanzhe”meishenmechabie。neimeaiqingdinglvyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingfenxidewenzhangba。

由于这类“三”的实质取决于：

 1.dajiafangqileconglingyifangdeshenshanghuodebixudeqinfen，erjianglingyifangkanzuoshiyizhongqingkuang。zheileiqingkuangnenggouweidajiachushiyizhongguishugan，rutongdajiabixufangzi，dandajiabingbuhefangziyouzhenshidegoutongjiaoliuyiyang。

 xuduo nvxingdaoliyideqingkuangxia，turanhuifajue，zheigenanrenzaoyishiyigehuanxiangle，tabuqingchutahaibixutanaxie，youyuzheijiazhongzaoyimeiyoutadecunyoudeyinhenle。dantahuanshibixu，jiuhaoxiangyigeguojiahaibixuyigelimaoxingdejunwang，zaigezhonggeyangjieqingrijieduancanjia，rangdahuoerjuededaoyiqiedouyiqieshunliyiyang。

 2.dajiajiangyuanbenxiwanglingyifangkaolvzishendebixufangjindisanfang。shijishangdajiadeshengmingshihedisanfangzaiyiqi，bingfeiheweimingshangdelaogonghuoshiqizizaiyiqi。xuduo qingkuangxia，liyishidahuoerquanshiweilebaobaoerliuyoudeqingkuangxia，zheiyihunyinshenghuojinjinyigeqiaole。erxiaohaizepobudeyidanfuqibabamamayuanbenyaokaolvxianghudebixu，yaoyongyigeertongjiaonendejianbudanqichengnianrendeyiwu，changshiqushangtan、kuanweiwufakongzhidebabamama。huoshigongzuozhongyedanfuleguoduolaogongbixuqiziziwoxinshangdezhongdan，yidangongzuozhongshiquduilaogongdejiangli，laogongjiuhenyoukenenghuishifenbenkui。

 neimajiaruzheishiyou“disanzhe”detianjia，shijishangzaiyixieqingkuangxia，fandaoshizheiduifufudefuli，jinguanneimeshuoyixiecanrenhehuangdan，youyuzaidisanzhemeitianjiadeqingkuangxia，shiluodefufupobudeyibaqipanfangdaoweimanshibasuidexiaohaideshenshang，huoshimeiyouxingmingdegongzuofangmian。aiqinggushiwenzhangyounaxieni？weimanshibasuidexiaohaijiusuanshinenggoukaolvmuqinhuoshifuqindechengnianrendeqipan，yeshiqunenggouyiqiezhengchangfazhanqushideershi;ergongzuozhongduiyigerentaiguanjiandehua，zheigerenderichangshenghuojiushiqudiaozhengdehenyoukeneng，tahenyoukenengbianchengyigeshiquziwojiazhideren，youyugongzuozhongdajiachengxiandezishenbingbingbushichedidezishen。

 disanzhedechuxian，huirangfufushuangfangdourenqingyijianshi：tamenzhongjiandehuanglianghenjiudedi，shibixugengdile。buguantamenzaixiaohaihuoshigongzuozhong、penyou、xihaolidedao shiduoshaotiyediaojiedekaolv，tamenmeifataobixianghuguanliandeyaoyaoyuzhui。erzheiyiguanlianduitamenbingbushibuzhongyao，zhishitaiguanjianle。

 yinci “disanzhe”exingshijianduiyixiefufushiyoushunxianggongxiao，jiarutamendexintaimeiyoubeizheiyiexingshijiancuihui，bingqiezaizheibanyanjundetiaozhanxiahainengyoumizuzhenguidesikaoheziwofansijiqichongzunengliangdezijintourudehua，tamendeguanlianshinenggoudedao shuzuide。

 danhenyoukenengduibiedeyixiefufueryan，zheiyicijixingchongzuxuanbutamendeguanliandejieshude。youyutamenrengetezhikangyaqiangdumeifachengdanzheibandeyanlidaji。

“大三”：大家有木有交汇处

 zaizheier，wojuedemingquetichuyige“dasan”dedingyi。youyu“disanzhe”jiuhaoxiangduyao，duihenduoreneryanbianshideyuwangquan，jinguanyoucijixingrentidegongxiao，danbuliangfanyinghefengxianhenda。

 wodianpingyigehunyinshenghuoshibushiandingtuanjie，bianshikanfuqijianshibushiyouzhenshide“disanfang”。zhenshidedisanfangjiushizhi，tamenzaixintaimingxiandejuanjindeqingkuangxia，shibushinenggouyouyigekeguannenggourangtamencongxintaidewoxuanzhongbengchulai，guanchayixiajiujingfashengshenmeshi。tamenyoumuyoufangfazulanzishenrangliangkouzijindaozhengchaodeliangjihua，jiujingyouduokuainenggoujindaodaosikaoqingkuang。tamenshifoukeyishiyoudisangeshineikongjiannenggoulejiezishendexintaihelingyifangdexintai，keyitonglixindaozishenhainengtonglixindaotaren。

 aiqingfenxi,wohaizaizixunzhongzuodediyijianshi，bianshibianchengneiyangdeyigefanyijihehuanchongdidai，rangtamendoushiyouyigeqiminnenggoujuededaobeilejie。

 erqianque“dasan”de“zhener”mendoushihuizhanxianneiyangdeyizhongyingyudeyufa：niguangshuonimeifeichangrongyi，nilejienizheijianshiqingduishiwoduomeduomesunhaima?nilejiewoweilegenghaodizheijianshiqingshouleshiduoshaokuma?niweishenmebulijielijiewo?woweiheyaozaicinulixiaqu?

 zheishiwoyanxiazhanxiandebianshi《dongwushijie》lizaibeijingniaochaoli，shenzhanjingbuqipanmuqinweiyangdeniaoer。tamenquanshizheibanaie，yizhiyumeiyoudisangejiaodu，helizaizishenyiwaikanyixia“dajia”fashengshenmeshi。zaiwomenmeiyoumingtianli，jinyouliangren：“ni”he“wo”。naizhizhiyouyigeren“wo”。erjueduibuhuijiandao，woneimezuo，duidajiayounaxieweihai，dajianeimezuo，duiwoyuniyounaxieweihai。tamenkanbujianzishen，yekanbujiantaren，jinjinyijubennengfanyingqumangmugenfengdifanying，yiciciyongsunhaixianghudefangfaxunzhaokaolv。

 xianzhutamenjiuqianque“dasan”，qianqueyigegenggaodeshineikongjian，xiaohuaxishoujiejuexianghudexintai，neiyangdeguanlianbidinghuipengdaobubian。

 jiarufuqijianmeiyouyigedegongshi：yinciyaoyiqixiezuo，qujianbiezheixiefeichangrongyiyinqiliangjihuadehuihuaigerenxingweihoubiandefangshi，quanjuxingdichulidajiadenanti，weichuangjianyigezhengliandexunhuanxitongerqinfen。neima，zheiyihunyinshenghuojiushiquqianjinfangxiang。

meiyouyouxideguize，yejiuguanlianyejiushiqushijiyiyi。

erlingrenquehandeshi，dajiazheiyishehuifazhanzhenshitaiquefa“daodeguannian”le。

 aiqingdinglv,zaiguoduoshichangjingzhengdewenhuayishuli，dajiazhenshitaibixuxuehaozenyanghebierenxiezuo。zheiqueshishibixudajiahaohaodibeishudeyimenke。