经营爱情:怎么知道对方是不是适合自己?

ruhejingyingaiqing？jiaruniyongyuanbuzhidaolingyifangshifouheshizishen，shifoukeyishijiajitaguoyibeizi，ninengcongxiabianhaoduogecengmianlaiduitakaizhandiaocha。jiarunengkaolvzaiqizhongwugezhishang，niyejiunenganxindijiajitale。neimemeiyouaiqingdehunyinyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankankaoyanaiqingdewenzhangba。

1.恋人对父母的态度怎样

duifumutaidubutaihaoderen，nibuyaoquqinmijiechuta。shexiang，yigerenjiarulianduizishendeshengshenfumudoubutaihao，youweishenmehuiquduibierenhaoni?keshi，yaoliuyi，jiarulianrentaiguoyilaifumu，weimingshicong，henkenengshiqianquezijuexingdeyizhongzhuyaobiaoxian。

2.恋人对工作中的态度

congmouzhongchengdushangjiang，yigerenduigongzuozhongdetaidubianshiduirichangshenghuodetaidu。danfanzaigongzuoshangshaoburuyijiuhuangongzuoderen，ruhejingyingaiqing？jibenshangnenggouyiliaoyouchaoyiri，fuqiganqingchuxianyidiandiancuobai，tayehuisashoubuguan，yizoulezhi。

3.恋人的盆友社交圈

guhuashuodedui：“renyiqunfen，wuyileiju。”huanjuhuashuo，youxianghuhuoleisitedianderengengfeichangrongyijijuzaiyiqi。yinci ，nihebukanyixialianrendouheshenmerenzuopengyou，youcinenggouhuodelianrenweirendejibenxinxi。jiarulianrendepenyouyigegequanshibinbinqianqianjunzi、chunchunqizhinvren，neimatayemeicuode。keshi，jiarulianrendepenyoudoushixieniqingwoyuandedashen，nikeyijiuxuyaoduitafangbeile。

yeyouyidiantebiezhuyi，lianrenjieshiyixieyixingyebushicuoshi，meiyouaiqingdehunyin,zheiyouliyutalejieyixingpengyoudetexing，yeshuomingtajubeiyuyixingpengyougoutongjiaoliudegongzuonengli。danjiarulianrenjinyouyixingermeiyounantongpenyounijiuxuyaoxiaoxinle。

4.恋人的言行举止

guanchalianrendeyantanjuzhishiyoupindexiuyang、wenzhibinbin，huanshimanhengwuli、wuyanhuiyu;qijudongshirenzhenxizhijiancha、qingsongdedang，huanshichaojibiantaiwenluan、shenjingdatiao。suihouzailijingzishendezonghefenxi，zhangwoqishizhitexing。lingwai，yaoliuyiconghengzheyushuxiang2gecengmianlaiguancha。qianmianyizhongshishuoyaoguanchalianrenzaiyugezhonggeyangrenxiangchu、zaoshougezhonggeyangshiershideyanxingjuzhi;houmianyizhongshishuoyaoyouyiduanshijiandeguancha，liruyigeyue、2geyue、dabannian、yiniandeng。youyujingenjuyiliangcideguancha，nanyixiangxidilejieyigeren，wubiyaolijingyiduanshijian，congdongtaixingdecengmianquzhangwomubiao，caihuichanshengxiangxideyinxiang。

5.恋人与小孩子的关联

jiarulianrenxianxiaohaizibubian，huijueyuxiaohaiziqinmijiechu，neitashizhongburongyibianchengyigehaobaba。jiarulianrenbudanbutaoyanxiaohai，haishanyuyuxiaohaizigoutongjiaoliu，naizhifushentinghaizishuohua，tiaozaimudibanshangyuxiaohaiziyiqiyouxi，neimatahaowuyiwenshiyigejijuaixinderen，bingqiezaizhihouyejiangbianchengyigehaobaba，ziranfeichangzhideniyutafazhanqushiguanlian。

6.恋人的“恋爱史”

bozhiyizhangderenjiqishaojian，ninenggenjuduozhongduoyangfangshi，liru，yulianrendepenyou、qinren、pengyou、gegebumengoutongjiaoliu，jiejidiaochayixialianrende“lianaishi”。

lingwai，niyeyaozhuyilianrenduizhiqiandenage“ta”detaiduruhe，jiarulianrenyizhizainiyanqianshuo“qiannanyou”dehaotingdehua，zheibiaomingtayiranxirilianrennanyiwanghuai。jiarulianrenxiaijiangqiannanyoudeshuoxianhua，bingbaquanbuyiwudoutuidaolingyifangdeshenshang，zheizebiaomingtashiyigejibuhuodadoubuchengdanderen。

7.恋人的“钱”景

kaoyanaiqing,qiancaibingbushiquanneng，danduiqiancaidetaiduquenengtixianleyigerendepinzhi。xinkoukaihe、koumenxiaojiaziqiderenzaiganqingcengmian，yezhongjiuxiaodujichang;ertantuxiangshou、changchangtouxiannaizhizhaiwuchanshenderen，bujinmeishenme“qian”jing，haifeichangrongyizuochuxuanyongbuzhengdangxingfangshihuodebuyizhicaidebuzhengque。duiyuzheixiechangchangzhangkouxiangnijiekuanderen，nigengbunengliangzhezhijianxiangchu，yebunengbeineimaimaihanqingdeyuanyinsuomengbi。