男女爱情之小心爱情进入误区

meiyoutanlianaidegongzuojingyan，huomeiyougaohaochongzudexinlizhuangtaiheguanniantiqianzhunbei，feichangrongyimengmengranchuangjinxialiehaoduogeganqingdecuowuguannian：neimenanrendeaiqingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankannannvaiqingdewenzhangba。

错误观念爱情就是烂漫与花束

shenmeaiqing?ziguyilaimeiyourennengshuodeqing。zaixiandaiyanqingxiaoshuoyuqingchunnianshaojuli，ganqingtongchangshinongqingmiyi、qinqinwowo、langmanmeigui。

nanrendeaiqingguan，danzaishijizhong，ganqingtongchangyulanmanbuxianggan，queyurichangshenghuomiqiexiangguan。chumenshiyigeguanaideduanxiaoxi，huijialeshiyigebaoshangdexiaorong，fannaoshiyigewennuandexiangyong，gongzuoburuyishitadekaidaoyukuanwei，zheijiushixianshishenghuozhongdeganqing。

yinci ，zhishenshijizhongdeniyinggaizhenxiyongyouyuxiangshourenshengzhongganqingdailainideyidianyidi，caikeyiranghuanleyuxingfukuailezhangbanshenpang。jiaruniyiweichenzuizaixiaoshuojiyuyingshizuopinzhongneileishuobailedeweimeiaiqingli，yitiandaowanfuxianglianpian，neimaxingfukuaileyuhuanlebianhuiyunicashenerguo。

错误观念二：整日相守，亲密无间

zaiyixielianaizhongderenlaikan，lianrenyidingyaoqinmiwujian。danzaiaiqingzhilvzhong，gengshizheixiezhengrixiangshou、xingcongyingsuidelianrenmen，tongchangzuikaishilaidaonanguoyizhan。

“julichanshengmei”shibuhuigaibiandezhenzhi。jiaruniqidailianggerenzongweichiyizhongshenmidejuede，shibubimeitianwanshangpengmian，weizijifenpeiyixieyupengyoujucandeshijian，huofazhanqushizishendegerenaihao——wulunnaxie，yaoshishizuozhenshidezijixiaideshier。neiyangcaikeyirangzishenshikepinweishenghuodereqing，yecaikeyishitajuededaozishenchimiderenxuanliduocai。

ziran，yikaishideqingkuangxia，nihenyoukenenghuiganjuemeiyoutawennuandebangziweiyi，meiyoutadeshengyinxiangsui，shenbuxiguan，danxiangyixiang，nandaoshuoyoumeiyoushenmebifengkuangdexiangnianlingrenwufazibadema?

错误观念三：注重单方的投入

zhuduozaiaiqinghaizhongzhuixundehainiaotongchangyongyou yiyangdeniantou，yaodenglingyifangquanneixinaiyutouruhouzishencaihuiqutouru，zaidadongzhongerquai。eraishijishangbixubicideqinfenyutouru，zainitourudelingwaidouhuiyouhuode，rutongnonghuzhongdi，jiusuanzaiqiutianlailinshixing，huodedebingbushiqidaizhongdetiangua，zhishiyaodangdezhigan、manmudiqiuse，zheiyeshiyizhonghuode。jiarujinjinyiweidizhuzhongdanfangdetouru，tongchangzongshikongdengluohuashi。

错误观念四：不合理的较为

yishengzhongmeiyouaiqinglijingderenjibenshangfeichangshao，youlijingduirenshengdaolueryanshiyizhongjingyan，yeshiduirenshengdaoludeyizhongfengfuduocai。danhenduorencunyouneiyangdecuowuguannian，jixiainarujindeqinglvyuzhiqiandeqinglvqulaizuobijiao，bingqiezheileijiaoweitongchangshibuhelide，youyutamentongchangshinazhiqianqinglvdeyoushilaibirujinqinglvdequexian，zheiyangyilai，yuelvyueganjuerujindeqinglvquexianquanshen。

yaolejiehuayoubaiyang，rengebuyiyang，meiyigerendoushiyoubenshendeyoudianhequedian。aiyigeren，jiuxuyaoxuehuishangshitadeyoushi，kuanrongtadequexian，zaiyixieqingkuangxiayaoyonggaobeifangdajingbiandatadetaorenxihuanzhichu，zaiyixieqingkuangxiayongbianxiaojingbianxiaotadebuzuzhichu，neiyangcaikeyizuihoushizhijinkouzouwanzhihouderenshengzhilu。jiaruzongxiaidaidianxianbaidizhiyanzhiqiandeqinglvduomedebang——bingqiexushudeyuanshengtai，jieguozongshirangnirujindeqinglvgewaidichu。

错误观念五：一朝被蛇咬，十年怕井绳

nannvaiqing,zaiganqingdaoshangdiedaoguoderen，shiyoubajiudiedaohoumeifazaiyuandibudongzhanqilai，bingdanxinbuqian。liru，qiannanyounanpengyouhuoqiannvyoucengpiandezishendejinqian，yinciduixinrennanpengyouhuoxinrennvpengyouzaizheixiefangmianhuifanbeidangxin。youliru，yiqianyixinyiyidiqucengjingaiguo，danzuizhongquezaoshouqingganbuchenggong，yincizaiyingduizaiyiciganqingshibianyixinhuixinshoulong，yibutouruzhenxinshiyi，haipatouruhouyeshiyichangbuchenggong。neiyangzaiqinggandaoshangbuyuanyitouruhuoyouyubujue，zongshicuoguolehenduomeilidejingse。