放不下的爱是怎样？想知道他是不是好男人？

fangbuxiadeai，xuduo nvhaizhenduilingyibandeguiding，yibanzhuyaodebiaozhunquanshi“chongzuhao”。yincizaihenanhaizichupengshi，jiemeimendoushihuiconggecengmiankaolv，fenbianzheiyinanhaizishibushichuse，duizishendexintaizenyang。danjinyou“shijianjiulecaikeyijianrenxin”，sheideqingchundoudangebule，nvhaimenhaowuyiwenbuyuanyihuaxiaoguoduoshijianlaipingdingzheiyinanhaizi。neiyoushenmefangfazaiduanqineineirenqingzheiyinanhaizideshizhi，zhengquerenshitazijidehaoni?zheierdajiajiangweidahuoergongxianghaoduogejianyidedianpingguifan，xiezhunijianbiechuchusedenanhaizi!neimedangailailindeshihounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanduinideaiyizhihenanjingdewenzhangba。

评定规范一：讲礼貌

zheierjiangdejianglimao，ziranbujinjinshi“fulaotaitaihengchuanmalu”zheimejiandan，zhishizaiduinidexintaishangshibushiyouchongzudelishu。zaizheiernenggougongxiangyigehenrongyideshi，liruninengguanchatadeshijianguan。jiaowangyiduanshijian，dajiazhongjianhaowuyiwenhuigangkaishiyouhui，zaizheishihouniyejiunenggougangkaishiguanchatadeshijianguanle，tangruomeiyouyiwai，tahaowuyiwenhuixianyuchengnuodeshijian。ertangruozheiyinanhaiziyoubiededeshi，quemeiyourangniwenhao，chidaoleyeshiyifulisuodangrandemoyang，neixinlibidingmeishijianguan。

shijianguankanqilaishisuoshi，danshijishangtongchangqiahaotixianzhetaduinidexintai，duidajiadeganqingdezaiyishuiping，zheijiushishuobailedexiaozhongjianda。

评定规范二：明白贴心

fangbuxiadeai，kantashifouhaonanren，yidingyaobaozheng taduinidezaiyishuiping，erzaiqizhongshibushimingbaitiexinbianshihenzhongyaodeyigedianpingyaosu。aikantaduinidetiexinshuiping，bingbushijianyidelejie，zhishizaiciguanxinzaidajiaxiangchuzhongdeguanjiandian，xuduo qingkuangxiayixieguanjiandiandounengfanyingchuzheiyinanhaizishibushichongzuwennuan。

zaidajiadeyouhuizhong，tashibushihuishouxiankaolvdaonideniantou，yiqixianghujiucanshishibushihuiyouxianzhaogunidekouganni?zailianggerenyiqihengchuanmalushitashibushihuishinizouzaigengjiaanquanxingdeliceni?erdangdajiajiaowangshijianzhangle，tayoushibushinenggouqingchudihaijidexiangguannideyixiejibenziliao，lirunichuanyifudexiguanxing，nijiucandezhongaikougan，jiqinibiededeyixiexiaoxiguanni……?zheizhongquanshikantashibushichongzu“hao”deguifan，youyujinyouxintengni，caihuicongxinlingshenchuqutiexinni，bingguanxinxiangguannideyiqie。

评定规范三：重视你的念头

duinideaiyizhihenanjing,zaipingchangdexiangchuzhong，tangruozheiyinanhaizihenchusexintengni，neitahaowuyiwenhuizhongshinideniantou，ziranbukeyizhizaihunideniantou，talingwaihailiyingyouzishendeluojisiwei。liruzaidajiayouhuitiaoxuancanyindianshang，tahaowuyiwenhuishouxianxintengnideniantou，zirantahaihuijixuhenglianglianggerendeniantou，suihoutiaoxuandedizhi;zailirudangdajiakandaimoushiqingshangyongyoumaodun，tangruotahenxintengni，dangranhuiyichengdairendesisuonideniantou，zhangwonideyongyi，weicilaixunzhaodechulifangfa。

tangruonichangchangnengjuededaocongtadeshenshangchanshengdewennuan，neizheiyinanhaiziyidingjiushiniyaoxiangdehaonanhaizi!

评定规范四：观查他的亲人和盆友

dangailailindeshihou,tangruonidanxinzheiyinanhaiziduiniyouyidingdeyangai，zainideyanqiantazhuyaobiaoxianchuqudebingbushizhenshideziji，neimenichedinenggouhuangefangfa，genjuchupengtadeqinrenhepenyou，dedaoyouguanzhenzhengdetadehuida。jiazhongshinanshengxinggechanshengdejichubiaozhun，kanyixiatadeqinrenninenglejietajichudebenzhixingqing;errenyiqunfenwuyileiju，yurenxiangchuyounengrangzheiyinanshengdexinggefashenggaibian，hetadepenyouchupengnikenengfajuetazhenzhengdewaizaixingqing。