放不下的爱是怎样？完美婚姻五大要素

 fangbuxiadeai，yiduanfeichanghaodehunyin，yidingshizhili、qingshangzhishang、hunshang、jingjifazhangongzuonengli、jiazhiguanniandengxuqiudezonghexingkeyichuyuyigeshuipingxian，liruyigerenzhilihengaowufen(yi0-5zuoweidefen)，keshiqingshangzhishanghendiyifen，zheigeshihou，youyigezhilibugao2fenkeshiqingshangzhishangjiaogaosifenderen，jiunengyuzhidapei。yinci ，fenzhileisidenanhaihenvhai，wanhunshiyidingnenggouqudechenggongde。neimedangailailindeshihounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanduinideaiyizhihenanjingdewenzhangba。

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 liru，ganggangtijide，jielehun，nanren3jin2le(beizhumingcheng：rongheyiqiankejiangdejiejijichulilun)，fangbuxiadeai，nvxingrengzaiyuanditabuzou，zheiyeshiyizhongxinjieduan。

 meidaoyigexinjieduan，dajiawubirongruxinjieduandeyouxideguize。jiarubahunyindemeiyigejieduandangzuoshiyouxideshengjie，wubiyaozaiciweichishengwudeduoyangxing。

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nvzhujiaoqidaidenanren，shiwanshande，"dajiangxingde，lingdaozhexingde，nenglejiewo，biwogongzuonengliqiang"。

 nvyihaoshishiyenvxing，henyoukenengduijiazhongzhaoliaobuzhou，zaineiyangdezhuangkuangxia，huoxuyingdangdapeideshigujiajiajuxingnanren，ruanruoyixiede，kaizhanxiangfuxiangcheng，keshinvzhujiaoxunzhaodeshiyigezerenxinyiyangqiangdenanren。zheileifenqidetihui，laiyuanyunvzhujiaodejiatingguanxi。zaitadejiatingguanxi，mamajiaoweiqianghan，tayifangmianchengxilezheileiqianghan，zhaoxundeshixiangduixingjiaoweiruodenanshi，liruzaiwenpingshang，shouyishang，zheixie，laifanyingzheileicaokongdeguishugan。lingyifangmian，youyuruanruode"baba"shiyigetengxitadepinpaixingxiangchuxiande，shishifenrangtaqinpeide，yinci zaiqianyishizhongli，tabaduibabadetihuitouyingdaoduizishenlaogongdeguidingshang，yinci zheiyinanrenyinggaishigongzuonengliqiang，nenglejietade，lingdaozhexingde——xiangxin，jibian shiyigehengchongzhichuangdedianyingguhuozi，jiusuanzuoguolaokantiaoqiu(ziranzheiyoudianerguoqule)，nvzhujiaoyidanchimishangtadeyingxiongqingjie，yidingyiwufanguzijintouruzheiyi"huaxinnan"dehuaili。

 yinci ，nvzhujiaowubidulisikaozishendesuoqu，bingbasuoquxingxianghua。zhaodaozishenxinlizuizhenzhengde"xiaohaizi"，erbushiyilaiyujiatingguanxidetouying。

 jindaojizhihunyin，zuixianshiqinggan，yeyouhemudexingxingwei。zheiyidianzaishangyiduanhunyinhezheiyiduanyoukenengzaochengdehunyinzhong，nvzhujiaodoubaozhengle。

 dier，wubikaolvdaojinqianwenti。yekenengshinvzhujiaohuihushidenanti。zheiyinanrenxiangyaobuxinganqingyuantaoqian?jiehunhouqiancaiquanlizaisheishouli?huanshiaa，huanshiqianfangdaoyiqi?douwubiyaodachengyizhijianjie。

 disan，fangbuxiadeai，xuehaoguanchazuizhenzhengdeta，yifenbiantadejiazhiguannianhezerengan。nixuyaoqukankantadepenyou，tadeqinpenghaoyou，zourutadeshejiaoquan，qugegefangmianzhangwoyigezhenzhengdeta，erbushinidanfangbawodeta。kantagenpenyoudeyuyangoutongjiqiao，zheixie。buranjiuhuiyouhenyoukenengchuxian"goutongjiaoliuchangshuncuojue"。kanshangqutayuniliangqingxiangyue，yehenliaodelai，danquanshixiangchuqianqidecuojue。"kuanrongwo，zhongshiwo，zishifangdehendi，yiqiedounenggenwoshangyi，zaiyiwodeganshou"yeshiyoukenengshiyizhonglinshide"goutongjiaoliuchangshuncuojue"，youyujielehun，tadezishibuyidingweichidi，tabixuhuodenijijizhudongdeganenhuikui。

 disi，xuehaozhenshide"shihun"，zheierdeshihun，buzhishifashengguanxi，zhishiyaogenjushihun，quzhangwo，qufangzhenmonizhenzhengjianglai。lingyifangdejiazhongshiruhede，shifouyaohejiapozhuyiqi?zhuyiqihuiyoukenengzaochengshenmewenti?ruhejiejue?jiazhongdejiawuhuosheizuo?shangyihaola，tashibushiganyuan，nishibushiganyuan?huanshishuoneiyangdeshangyijinjintahongren?youmuyouzhenshifuzhushijian?

 dajiashucitijiyidian，meiyoumeiyouliyouxintengnidenanren，quanbudehao，quanshibixuganenhuikuide，nimeijiyuganenhuikui，tahuiquhuiwoduinideai。

 duinideaiyizhihenanjing,taqidaideganenhuikuishishenmeyangzide?jinkenengbashangyiduanhunyinzhongchuxiandefenqizaicisikaoyixia，suihouzaizheiliduanshihunquanguochengzhongqinfenshengchanzhizaozheizhongfenqiyoukenengchuxiandeqingjing，yingduitamen，bingjiayijiejue。wubiyaoyougegefangmiandeyanxicainenggou。bubishixiandanxinzaoshousunhaierjushulezishendeshouhejiao，koumenzishendetouru，lingwaikoumenzishendeguancha。jinyouyingyongshizhe，caikeyifajuejiujingshibushishihe，jiujingshibushinenggoumoheqi。

 diwudian，yeshitaruhunyinzuizhongyaode，yidingshidulirenge。yongganmianduinanti，pengdaonantibunengtaobi，yaoxuehaochuli。yixienanti，yizhilihunzhengshuyenanyijiejue，yinci ，duinvzhujiaoeryan，jiaruniyizhizaishangyiduanhunyinzhongdouhaimeiliyi，wonengtiyiniyizhizailihunzhiqianchulihaonanti，nicaihuidaizhulianghaodexintaijindaoxiayichanghunyin，erbushiyongyizhanglihunzhengshulaiduobishangyilunhunyin。keshi，xianjieduandajiajiranzaoyililehun，jiuxuyaotianbu。tianbudefangfabianshi，genjushihunlaizaiciyanxi。chuxianyiqiexiaodenanti，xianchangchuli，huoshiyongyiliangtianshijianjichulidiao。erbushileiji。nixuyaodedulirenge，shiziwodiaozheng，erbushiqujueyuta"nenghongwo，womashangzhengdongnengjiuhenqiang"。

 tarujizhihunyin，zheiwudianshijiben。dangailailindeshihou,genjujinsanciganqingsidonghui，xianglaidahuoerzaoyiqingxileduilixianghuaairendexiwang;xueleganqingjiejiyuxuqiujichulilun，duilixianghuaairenganlexingxianghualejie;yegenjuyicishijicaozuoyanlian，laifenbianzhenzhengqingjingxiadehunyinshibushikeyixingfukuaile。neimaxiayici，dajiahaihuijixukaizhandaliangjutixunlian，laibaozheng taruyiduanjuebuhouhuidehunyin。