爱情算什么?爱情中的90/10原则

 aiqingtiaojian,zaishehuixinlixuezhongyouyigebiaozhun，jiao90/10biaozhun，shayisini?lirunijintiangenciwaiyigerenchaojia，nihenjuedefahuo，ninengganjueyouyuchaojiaweihailenidexinlixianxiang。keshishishishang，yinqininaonuxintaide90%yuangushiyinweinideguoqulijing，erjinrizaocheng chaojiazheiyiexingshijianzhizhan10%。neimeaiqingshishenmeyangzideni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingsuanshenmedewenzhangba。

 renjijiaowangshijishangjiuzheiyangerzhongnengliang：yizhongjiushiwoanquanxing、woxinrengan，suoyiwopingjing、wojiena、wolejie、wokuanrong。lingyizhongbianshi，youyuwobuzuanquanxing，buzujianxinziji，suoyiwofangyuli，youyuwobuxiangjienawobuhao。weishenmebukeyikeguanxingduidaizheijianshiqingni?weiheyaoqudongnuni?

 xuduo qingkuangxiashixianjieduandeqingkuanghuoshiexingshijiankaiqileniyuanlaidelijingganshou，jiheyuanlaidelijingzhonghele，jiaruzheiyirengetezhipingjing，dabufenmeishenmecuobailijing，changchangshoukuajianghaowuyiwenxinlizhuangtaibijiaohao，guishuyuneileianquanxingxingren，zejiaofeichangrongyikeguanxingduidaizheizhongshier，jiarulingyifangguishuyuneileiyiguandebeibabamamazhizeduole，beitarenkanbuqi、quefazixin，zheiyangderendangtashuobutaihaodeqingkuangxia，tazhonghedeshishayinxiangni?“woyouaizhizele”“woyouzuocuoshile”，“tabuxihuanwo”，tashitadequanzidongluojisiwei。yinci tadiyifanyingshi“nirenweiwobuhao”，aiqingtiaojian,shijishangneixinshishenme?“zijibuzuhao”，zhongheleyiwangdeyixieqianjiadelijing。

 yinci zhenduimaodun，dajiajichulejieyingdangshisha?maodunbingbushiyouyunibutaihao，yebushiyouyutabutaihao，jinjinyouyunibodongletadeqiangshuan，tayebodonglenideqiangshuan，maodunshuomingbicizhijianbixugoutongjiaoliu。nixuyaolejietadeyiwang，lejietayuanhezheiban。tayebixulejienideguoqu，lejieniweishenmezheiban，zheijiushiyouxiaogoutong。zhengchaoquanguochengzhong，niyiyanwoyiyu，sangziyuelaiyueda，nuhuoyueshengyuegao，suirandajiadouhuifayan，jianghaoduohaoduo，dantashishixiaodegoutongjiaoliu。

吵架时谁响声高谁就言之有理吗?

 dajiadelijieshixiangshengyueyuegaoyuechanruo。bieyiweichaojiadeqingkuangxiabingrongxiangjian，sheidouxiangxianshixinxizishenqiangda，shijishang，zhuyaobiaoxiandeyuefahenlihaiderenyuebuzixin。huanjuhuashuoyigeyuezibeideren，tatongchangyoushiyueyanzangzishen，yongfangyulideyixiefangshilaixianshixinxizishen，“bukepani、wohenlihai”，yinci youxierenshixianqiaozhuozihoudongnu。

 weihe?qiaozhuozishijizijiliandande，shiguanniancengjide，zhuyaobiaoxianyuelihaideren，yuefaduzilikong，tabingbuzhenshideqiangda，tabingquefazixin，tashixude，qiangda、qiaozhuoziquanshitadekuijia，zhuangdehenqiangjing，taweilegenghaodibiaomingzishendeqiangjingsuoyiwofahuo。yueziyaliezui，chaodeyueqiangda，shuodeyuedaderenyuefaruoxiao。

 zaiwomenzaineimequkankandeqingkuangxiawomenzijideshenjingxitongyeshifangyalixuduo ，wuxuzaizhuangqiangjingle，fuqijiangengyaozhenzheng。

吵架的身后表述的是是明显的关心必须

 aiqingsuanshenme?yizhongxintaijutitabujinshiyizhongxintai，tabaokuozhehuxiangduilimiandeciwaiyizhongganqing。zheierwojiaodahuoeryixiefangfa，fenbianhuxiangduilimiandeganqing。lirugongjixingtaduilimiandeqingganshishenme?shiqipanwenrouheqinmijiechu。

 youyiduijingchangshenyedajiadououdefufu，rentimaodunhenmenglie，wojuedetamendadeqingkuangxia，womingbai，shijishangnvrenshibixudaliangdeguanhuailiuyide，shiaibugou。youqishinanxingtongzhiyaotishiliuyi，dangyigenvrenyongruqin、jingongdegerenxingweilaibiaoshutanaonudeqingkuangxia，tashiaibugoude，jiushiniduitarentideguanhuaibuzu。

 chaojiashibiaoshuqipanliuyi，qipanguanxin、qipanrentidechupengde，youyuzuiqiangyouyidegoutongjiaoliuhuanshirentidegoutongjiaoliu，yuyanyoushishicanbaide，yinci dajiayeyaojianbielingyifangdededuilimiandeganqing，wuluntabiaocengdezhuangkuang，zheijiushixinlizhuangtaidebiaodaxiaoguo。

 xukantazaiqianyishizhong，kantadebenzhi，yigexintaishenhouyouduilimiandexintai，ruqindeyimianshenhoushisha?qipanwenrouheqinmijiechu。dangyigerenshifennaonudeqingkuangxiabiaoshudeshisha?shiyaoyongnaonulaibiaoshutadenengliang，shijishangshitaganjuewobiedehenjiule，wotaiweiqule，pingchangwojiaoruole，zheilibianyouduoshaoyayigandewupinzailimian，shiduoshaobeihushi，bubeizhongshidejuede，yinci tayongzheileirentideqiangjing，xiangshengdegaokuanbilaibiaoshuzishen。

 yinci yidingxukantadeshentiyuyan，kantabenzhideganqing。aiqingshishenmeyangzide?yixierenshuoshenghuopingpingdandan、kumen，neishishenme?qipanshijiyiyihezongtimubiao，tabixutanxunxindeshenghuozongtimubiaole，bixuxunzhaoshenghuodeciwaideshijiyiyile，yinci taqipanbianhua。

 aiqingshishenmeyangzide?ruguowomenkeyilejielingyifangdexintai，lejietabenzhibixudeqingkuangxia，2geyouxiurencaihuizhenshidexinyoulingxi。