柏拉图式的爱情是什么?女人应该怎么主动追心仪的他

jiarunijuedezishenjishibuzhudongjingong，haodehunyuanhechusedexiaohuoyehuixiangpaobingyiyangcongtianshangdiaoxialai，neinijiuxiangdangyujianxin“shuayashukouexinxiangtujiuyidingshiyanhouyan”yiyangyumeile。yaolejienanshengbingbushigangxingxuqiu，keshihaode、heshinidehenyoukenengbianshigangxingxuqiule。jiarunimeibingzhe“nanshengzhuinvshenggezuoshan，nvshengzhuinanshengjiacengsha”xinxinwangshangchong，henyoukenengxuduo benlaichuishoukededehunyinyuanfencongciyunicuoguo。danshizuoweinvshi，jijimaixiangnixinaidetabixudebujinshidanliang，huanshigebujiandandejishuhuo。buran，lingyifangkanjiannikaojinsuihoushuo“guoyibuqu，wobuhuigoumaibaoxian”、“nichengrencuowurenleba?”、“baoqian，wobuhuiyundongjianshen”、“wozhejiganshijian，buzuowenjuandiaocha”yexuhuijiangnigangdianrandedanliangzhihuokuaisuzhileng，yinci ，kaojintashiyaoanliucheng、kaojishuxingde。neimebolatushideaiqingshishenmeni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishangaiqingdewenzhangba。

•微笑是的刚开始•

aishangaiqing,“zuishineiyimoxiaoyedewenrou”。xiaorongyunhanzhefengfuduocaidehanyi，chuansongzhedongrendeqinggan。xiaoronghuirangrenjuedeqinjin、kuanweiheyukuai。nvxingdewumeidongren，jinkeyunhanzaibuyudexiaorongdangzhong。danfanxiaorongdenvrendoushimeilidongrende，nvxingdexiaorongyeshizuimirende，yinci yingdangchangchangmiandaiweixiao。lingwai，weixiaoshizhuyaobiaoxianyouhaodehaofangfa，nenggourangtarenlejienishizhunbeiheyixingpengyouchupengde。

ruguonishifazifeifudexiaorong，yidingshifeichangmirendexiaobiaoqing，keshibuyaozaixiaorongdeqingkuangxiaxinhuaiguji：xiangzhezhe“woshibushigaoxingdeyoudianerguoqule?”erchixudiaojie，henyoukenenghuizaocheng nikanqilaigenghaoxiangzuijiaochouchu;xiangzhe“woshibushibuyinggaixiao?tadexiaobiaoqinggenwoxiangxiangdebuyiyang”，henyoukenengzaocheng deshisixiaofeixiaodexiaobiaoqing;xiangzhe“woshouhejiaoyingdangruhedongcaikanqilaiwohendangran?”，henyoukenengzaocheng nixianggexiaorongdezhinengjiqiren;xiangzhe“taruobushidanshengaizenmeban?”，henyoukenengzaocheng niyizhizaibanzhelianxiaorong，xiangxiangyixianizheigebiaoqing，yexugenghaoxiang“jiong”……

xiangxinziji，dangran、daqi、zhenxinchengyixiaorong，zheigebiaoqingyidinghuirangnideweixiaoyefaguang!

•眼里有他•

niyouwuzhuyibaobaozongaizhuanxinzhizhidiwangzhemouyiyangwupin，neileimuguangshiheqixiyinren!zaixiaorongdeqingkuangxiahaijidejiangmuguangyesuozhuta，shitalejieniyizhizaiduitachongfangdian，nanshengjinguanchihuan，keshizheigeqianxindemuguangxiadexiaorongyidingnenggoushitamashangzhangwo。

“shuishiyanboheng，shanshimeifengju。”shitazainideyingyingmouguangzhongjiandaozishen，yongnisishuirouqingdemuguangnisita!

•随便进行话题讨论•

ruhejinxinghuatitaolun?jirannikaojinta，neimayibanzhuangkuangxiadiyijuhuayeyingdangyounilaishuo，baituodichenyeshigezhongyao，buran，nikanjiantabuyandixiaorong，yimiao2miaosanmiao……yifenzhongyihou，takenengyaogangkaishimaolenghanle。

aishangaiqing,xinlixuezhuanjiajianyi，ninengtiwenti、mingquetichujianyihuozuochuzanyang，zheizhongquanshibaituobingfengdehaofangfa。biruzaidiantiliyouzhengqiaojiedaoxinhan，ninengshuo：“nengjiedaobixiedexinshizaitaiwennuanle。”tahenkenenghuichuxiandafu;jiaruzaishangchanglikandaotanazhepaomian，nichedikeyishuo：“niyexiaizheiyiweierdepaomian?yinweiwoganjuetashixiangduixingjiaoweimeiweide，wohaiyoubiedexiaide，liru……nijuedeni?”

shijishangwenyiqienantidouwuguantongyang，buguanguanyushijian、fangweihuanshiqiwen。youshihouhaikeyiyingyongzanyang，duitashuonixiaitadeyanjingjia、tadeshoujishang、tadechenyinaizhitadeweixiao。

•使出本质风采•

shijishang，nanshixiainvhaideyuanyinxuduo ，bingbingbushijinyourongmaodenvhaicaihuixiyinzhunanshi。meiyigenvshidoushiyoutayuzhongbutongdefengzichuoyuehefengcai，zheibuyidinglaiyuanyupiaoliangdebiaomian。yexu，niyaomeiyouchajuezijimeilidongrendediqu，keshi，xiaohuoerhenyoukenengzaoyijuechadaole，bingshenshenshenshenaishangni。yiner，nimeiyoufenhaoyuanyinwangzifeibo，niyingjiandingxinnian，yijubenshendetexingheyoudian，dandadishichunidefengcai。“qingrenyanlichuxishi”zheikendingshijingdianmingyan。bulunshinizuibadezhi、nishichangyiyudaopodefengqu、nipiaoyizhangfa、niqingtingshidexiaobiaoqing，naizhinifeifeidejiaozhidoushiyouhenyoukenengbianchengtademeibianer，danniyaoganshichufengcaidedanlianghexinxingenghuijiniwujianbucui!

•消除顾忌•

“bubiyouyuhuoxuhuigenggai，jiubuyuanshuoneijupiaoliangdechengnuo，bubiyouyuhuoxuhuifenlichulai，jiuhaipaqiuyiciqingqingdexiangfeng。”

bolatushideaiqingshishenme?tingwenguoxiyinfazema?jiaruniyizhimoxiangyixiexiaochendeshier，neimanidedanyouhenyoukenengbianhuibeinixiyinzhuerbianweishiji。ruguonipengdaoyiweizishenxiaidexiaohuoer，zaishadoumeiyougangkaishideqingkuangxia，niruguoxiang：“bierenbuyidingxihuanwo。”neihenyoukenengjiuqueshishiqu，zheileiniantouhuizaifeichangdashuipingshangjianshaonidexintai，nizijiganzouleyigejiyu。yeyouderenyikaishijiuxiang：“jiarubeijujuele，neiyinggaizenmeban?”huoshi：“jiarutahenlengmo，wogaizenmeban?”shijishangduoyucunyouzheizhongguji，meigerendouyou“jiarubeijujue，wogaizenmezuo?”dexinlizhuangtai，danshi，zheiqueshiwuzuqingzhongdeshier。nantibingbingbushishifouhuibeijujue，zhishibenshenyouzheileizaodongbuandeniantou，zaodongbuandexinlizhuangtai，zheicaisuanshinantidegenbensuozai。qudechenggongshibaifenzhijiushijiudeqinfenjiabaifenzhiyideyuanfen，jiyou!