爱情种子 如何回应让关系更进一步？

 aiqingzhiliaoshiyoushenmeni？lianggerendeguanlianbansuizheshijianmanmanjiazhong，danmingquetichuxiangjinyibufazhanqushideanshizheshi，nanhaizidexintaiquetongchanghenmolengliangke，danyingduinanshidetuntuntutu，nishibushiganjueyixiewanbanwunaini?zainidexinliyidingzaixiang，nanhaizijiujingxiainaxiedenvshi?zishendeshenshangyoushenmenantishitabikai?zaitamendezhaoduixiangyishizhong，gengquxiangyukannayidianni?bansuizhenizheizhongzhongduodenanti，dajiataolunyixiananshizaizhaoduixiangshigengzaihuzheixieyaosu，weicilaiguanchaniyizhizaitaxinlidebiyaoxingba!neimeaiqingzhiliaoshiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingzheliwenzhangba。

1.感情的主观因素

 zhenduinanshieryan，yuewanshandenanhaiziyueburongyizaiyibiaomian，fandaogengzaiyitanlianaizhuguanyinsu，aiqingzhiliaoshiyoushenmeni？youyejiushishuolianggerendeganqingzhuguanyinsu。queshi，buyiyangdenvhaiyongyou buyiyangdetanlianaizhuguanyinsu，youxieshiqingchugudu，zhuixunjiezhu，youdenvshigengxiangyaoxunzhaowuzhitiaojianshangnenggouyikaodenanshi，ziranyeshiyouxuduonvhaigengzaiyiaiqingdedingyi，mishangzheiyinanhaizi，yinci caiyouhezheiyinanhaizihuanduyishengdeniantou。

 ernanshizaizhaoduixiangshang，huigengxintengniyuanyuyuxinlingshenchudeganqingzhuguanyinsu，youyuzaitamenlaikannidetanlianaizhuguanyinsushihuanduyishengqimadequebao——tangruonikankanshangdejinjinwodeqiancai，neimabaoqian，danjiaruniaizhewodexingge，neimewoshifenxiangyaoyunixieshoutongxing，xingfukuailecisheng。

2.家庭条件

 zaizhaoduixiangshinanshiyehuiguanxinnidejiatingtiaojian，henyoukenengzhenduizheiyijianjieninengbuxieyigu，zheidounaxieshidaile，haizaiyizheiyi?bingqieyinweiwomeikandechutayouneiyangdezhuyaobiaoxiana!

 shijishangnanshixintengnidejiatingtiaojian，tongchangbingbushikanzhenidejiatingtiaojianshibushiyouyi，zhishiguanxindajiaerzhedejiazhongchabieshibushihenda，tangruodajiadechabiejiaoweida，bingqieluojisiweiyishixiangjuwanli，neizaitalaikandajiadeganqinghenyoukenengnanyiyouyuanwufen。youyutanlianaishiliangrendeshi，danyaoshiyiqianshedaoronghe，yitidaohunyinshenghuo，dajiayingduidekenengshiliangrenshenhoudejiazhong，zheiyeshinanshizaizhaoduixiangshangmianguanxinnijiazhongdeyuanyin——tamenzaiganqingzhongtongchanghuihenlizhi，zheijiushitaweishenmehuishenshidushixie。

3.你的过去

 aiqingzhongzi，niyiwangjingliruhedelijing，zhiqiandeniyouyouguoruhedeganqing?henyoukenengzainidexinli，ganjuejiranyiwangzaoyibianchengyiwang，neizheiyebuyinggaishilingyifangsuozaiyide，dankeguanshishiqueshineiyangma?jibian nanhaizihenhuodadadu，taburongyikanzhenijinglishiduoshaoqingganjingli，yebuzaiyiniyiwangfanguoshiduoshaobuzhengque，danzaiyideninanshihaowuyiwengengyikaoyiwangnidelijing，weicilaizhangwocongyiwangdaoxianzai，nidaodijinglinaxiedelijing，caihuizaojiuxianzaideni，caihuirangjinineiyangdexingqing……

taxintengni，yinci gengxiangyaozhidaosuoyoudeni。

4.你俩爸爸妈妈的关联

tiaochulainideluojisiweiyishi，jiejuenidechengjian，xiangzhenihetababamamadeguanlianzenyang?

 aiqingzheliwenzhang,wulunnidehuiyingzenyang，nidouyingdanglejie，zheiyiyangshinanshihenzaiyideyifangmian。qianbianyejiangguo，zhenduinanshieryan，tamengaoqingchudajiadeguanlianbujincunyouyulianggeren，yeshierzhejiazhongderonghe，youqishizhenduitaeryan，niliangdebabamamaweilaihaowuyiwenzaisuonanmianyouchupeng，yinci tahuifujiaguanxindajiadejiaowangzenyang，buranzheikenengbianchengshitatoutongdeyidanandian。