aiqingzhiliaoshiyoushenmeni?jiarunizaoyipingdingdajiadeqingganmeiyoujianglai,tongchuzaituichixialaimeiyouyichu。niyuekuaigentatichufenshou,jiuxunsushufuxie。neimanigaizenmezuo?jixuyuedukanyixia。neimeaiqingzhiliaoshiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingzheliwenzhangba。
方式1:设好场景
1、想到你说起得话。
nishiyouyutaduinibutaihao,youyunimeilexingquaihao,yihuoshiyouyudajiadoumangzhegongzuozhongertichufenshou?aiqingzhiliaoshiyoushenmeni?wulunshizenmehuishi,nixiandexianghaoshuoqidehuajiqiruhequshuo。ruguoshileisiniyibudonglexinhuoshimishangtarenneiyangdeyuangu,neimaninengzhaoyigezhenchengdefangshilaiwanbiqinggan,rangsunhaijiangdaozuidi。
•jinguanchengxinguanjian,danjiarushiqingzongshisunhaita,neimanibuyongduitashuo“meiyijianshi”。jiaruniyibuaitale,nihuoxuxiangbubineimatiaoming。
2、给他们一些暗示着。
jinguannimeiyingdangtaixianzhu,dannidoubuqidaishitaduitichufenshouchedihaowufangbei。zheidaibiaozhetabuyinggaizaitichufenshouqianyitianhaiganjueyiqiedouhenjizhi,naizhizaiyizhouqiandoubuyingzheiban。ruguonizaoyijuecele,jiuyingdangjinzaogentatichufenshou,danjiaruniwubidenghaojitian,neimejiujinkenengduitalengmoxie,lingwailakaijuli。
•buyaogaosutaniaibuaita,huoshijiewenta,youhuoshiduitazhuyaobiaoxianzhongai。
3、假如能,零距离对他说。
bubiruanruodaozhijitamenfayitiaoduanxiaoxi、dianziyouxianghuoshitongdianhua。chufeishidajiashiyuanjulilianai,huoshidahuoerdoushuodangtatingjianehaodeshihouhuiyoubaoliqingxiang,buranzuihouyiciqinzijiantabianshiniduitadewenminglimao。jiarunimeiyoudangzhongtichufenshou,tazongzhiyiranhuiyuenide,suihouniyejiuwubizaicizaishuoyibianyiyangtongchudejiaotan,danzheiyicibingbushiweiyounizaishuo。
•jiarunibingbushidangzhonggentatichufenshou,qingganwanbihoutahuiyongzheiyidianlaijingongni。
4、挑选适度的時间和地址。
zainijuecelezhihou,guanjiandeshijinkuaiyutatichufenshou。huanjuhuashuo,nimeiyingdangzainilejiezishendejueceshilikejiuyaoduitashuo,huoshizaigonggongchangsuohebuyidejihui。tiaoxuanyigedajiadulideshijian,youdianeryinsibaohudeshineikongjian,danbuyaozailangmandedifang,tajiuburongyiwuhuile。
•bubiqudajiazuiaiqudediquzhiyi,burandangtatingjianehaodeshihouhuigengweichijing,youyutahuixiangdaoyiqiangenniyiqigongxiangdemeihaojiyi。
•buyaozaitaxiabanleshilikeduitashuo,huoshizaitajiangyaokaizhandadekaoshishi。tiaoxuanyigetashidushifangyalijiqimeishenmebiedeshiyoulvdeqingkuangxia。
方式2:与他提出分手
1、对他说感情告一段落。
duitashuoshihua(jinliang)。bubifuwutaiduhuoshisahuang——jianyiduitashuonimeijuedezheiyiduanganqinghuichuxianjieguo,jinkenengbuyaoshuo“zuopengyou”huoshi“bingbushinidewenti,jiushiwo,”youyuzheizhongchenqianglandiaohuishitaganjuenimeiyoukaolvdaotadetihui。shitalejiexianzaishishihouwangqianzoule,qingganbianshimeiyoujieguo,danniqidaixianghudounengwanshanjiejue。
•ruguonijianghuadeqingkuangxianingwangtadeshuangyan。shitalejienizijiyenanguo。
2、分手后,给他们机遇询问你难题。
henkenengtahuiqidaiyougengqiangdebiaoshu,jibian tameiyoulikewenchurukou。daqigentatanyitan。shitalejienihenxiangyaogentatan,yinerdangtazhunbeihaodeqingkuangxiadajianenggoubianchengdepengyou。zheihuijitamenrangrichangshenghuoqianxingdeleduan。
•tahenyoukenengchedibuyuanqutaolunhuoshitiwenti,dantahenyoukenengyihouhuilaixunwenni。meishier。jiarutaqueshibuyuantan,jiubuyaobita。
3、假如必需,可更深一层表述。
aiqingzhongzi,tadefanyinghenyoukenengyouduozhonghenyoukeneng;jiarutachuzaichijingdejianmozhonghuoshizhiweilikeliqu,neimanenggou。dantahenyoukenengqueshihenxiangyaozhidaoweihe。dannihuoxuwubiduitashuo——yiyizhongbusunhaitatihuideshuiping。jiarunijuedetabuzaiyini,jitamenyigehuo2gejutishili,yaoshitingqilaibingbushizaikonggaotajiukeyi。
•yibanzhuangkuangxia,nibuyongdaoneileishuiping。jiarunilejieqingganmeiyoujieguo,neimatahenyoukenengyeguannianlaidao。
4、防止服务态度。
jinguannihuoxuhenshengqi、nanguohuoshibenkui,danmeibiyaojitamenquwaihao、duitacubaohuoshishitajuedegengzaogao。niyinggaitaitoutingxiong,shitazaihuiguzheiyiduanqinggandeqingkuangxia,keyijinliangxiangdaonijijizhudongdeyimian。wulunshieryouduocaogao,keyiwanghuoxushixingfude,meiyouliyouyouyunidenaonuhuonanguoercuihuiquanbudewangri。
•aiqingzheliwenzhang,ziran,jiarutaqueshisunhaileni,hanyiyebushishuoniyaoyingdangduitafeichanghao。jinjinfangzhizuzhouta、shuaitaerguanghuoshijiduantaiguojiduan。
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