爱是甜的,恋人吵架怎么办？

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 dandangzhengchaochuxian，zenmejiejuelianggerendekoutoushangzhengyini?zenyangcaikeyirongqiaxianghujiancunyoudechabiehemaodunni?zheipianwenzhangneirongjiangjinizhidaoqinglvzhijianzhengchaodefangfa，xiezhunidujuezhengchao，ganqingyulaiyuxingfu!

第一步：无论谁对到底是谁的错，先理智再聊

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 youdeqinglvzaizhengchaodeshihouhuihenshangbian，youyuzongganjuecicizhengzhishizishenyouyoushi，lingyifangchedibianshizaimanbujiangli，tadegerenxingweihenrangzishenqinao，yinci danaoyirejiangchurangxianghudangzhongchuchoumiandeyuju，yizhiyuganqingyegangkaishimeibian……chuxianzheileinantideyuangu，guanjianbianshilianrenjianweinengxianpingjingxialai，xunzhaorongqiachulidefangfa。

zhenggesheiduidaodishisheidecuoyoushenmezuoyongni?zheijiushichulidefangfama?ziranbingbushi，yinci huanshipingjingxialaizaishuoba。

第二步：放宽容大度

 zaipengdaozhengzhishi，nvhaimenwulundadaolishibushilizaizishenzheiyifang，doudianjizhexianrangnanpengyouweizijizhiqian，suihoucaiwanbicicizhengzhi。danneiyangqueshigengyouyiyima?henyoukenengnidexinlihenkaixin，danniqueshiconggenyuanchulicicizhengzhilemeiyou?

 aishiyiciyicidelunhui,ziranburongyi!nidezheileigerenxingweizhiyouranglingyifangruanfu，dankendingbukeyichuliquanjuxingdenanti：dajiazhongjiancunyoudefenqi。shijishangqinglvjiancunyoumaodunshihenyiqiezhengchangdeshier，zheiquanshijiemeiyouxingqingwanquanyizhideliangren，dajiawangwangxianghuzhijianxiyinzhuzhelingyifang，neibiaomingzaixianghudedeshenshangyongyou nisuoshangxidediqu，chukaizheizhongwaiziranzaitadedeshenshangyeyongyou niyixiemeifajienade，yiyangdedadaolinenggoufangdaonidedeshenshang。

 danzheibukeyibianchengweihaidajiaganqingdeyuangu，nixuyaolejiedeshi，dajiazhongjiandeaishiyaoyuanchaoguozheizhongfenqide，bingqiezheizhongfenqihainenggoudiaohe，yinci diaodinidezishiba，qianwanbuyaozongbitaruanfu，burandajiadeganqinghaowuyiwenhuichuxiannanti。

第三步：平心静气的谈一谈

 zhengchaobushibuneng，danyidingbunengshuoguofendeyuju，zheizhiyourangdajiazhongjiandefenqiyulaiyushen，chuliqinglvjianzhengchaodezuizhongyaofangfabianshizaizhengchaozhihouzheiyiduanqinei，dajiaxianghudezhuyaobiaoxianxintai。erruguonixinlipingjingxialai，bingnengdiaodinidezishigenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliushangyishi，zheijiushidajiahuajiemaodundehuangjinshijian。

 aishitiande,jingxianeixin，chengxiannidexintai，yunidenanpengyouzuoxialaihaohaoditanyitanba，dajialaidaoyiqihenbuyi，dajiayongyou wanmeideaiqing，gengyouxingfukuailedejianglai，meibiyaoweiyidianmaodunyurenkoushi，shuoshuoxinlihuaxuduo shijiuyirufanzhangdejiejuele。